Time Wasters

[IAmNotSoVanilla]

I am just wondering from all you ladies out there what the most effective way is that you've found to deal with time wasters? Is there a list of names out there? I'm sure that if this guy has been wasting my time that he's been wasting the time of others too.

 

[Meat Manager]

For me time wasters start with an unknown calling. If I can't see a number that means you have something to hide and are already playing games. This is just my personal preference, not all girls book this way. If a call is longer than say a minute and a half the guy is wasting time. You can usually tell by the types of questions a guy asks that he's leading and not serious about booking.

I handle the time wasters by responding back. For example: He asks for a description - I tell him my sign, how long I've been doing this, that I like cuddling - clearly not what the guy is looking for but it kinda throws him off a bit. I have a pretty good memory, so a voice and the way a person talks usually sticks out. If it IS a number that is calling then it will look familiar to me. I don't want to be mean, so I'll either confront him right away, or politely tell him I'm not interested and he's best to keep looking.

 

[jarhead]

Nothing to add to the thread except I am glad that I looked at this thread as I love Meat Manager's signature pic!

 

[Meat Manager]

I like her too. Soft and sweet. Def signature worthy

 

[scarlet6969]

i have a time waster he calls everyday asking the same questions and never books i put him in my dont book catagory so i dont have to deal with him agian

 

[connected]

easy way to pick out time wasters.....
- on the phone for more than 45-60 seconds.
- asks personal questions.

not quite true! I often talk to a girl for a few minutes to see if she is HIGH, DRUNK or plain NUTSO. I ask questions about services in a very scriptive manor that she should now how to beat around answering.

I will often try to stay on her long enough to guage if she is a time MONEY waster, lol.

90% of the time, the ones that take 3-4 minutes to converse with me and talk, have been the best appts to date. I ask their location fist off, to guage if its too much outta the way, if not, keep talking. I dont wanna waste their time.

But yeah, alot of guys out there, just call to get off on talking to a "worker" or to just bullshit around.

 

[Peter123]

For me time wasters start with an unknown calling. If I can't see a number that means you have something to hide .

yep have something to hide--my real identity, home or work number, just a few silly little things like that!

 

[connected]

never understood the BS behind that about numbers, names etc....they expect us to give them all of our personal info. but we cannot have theirs...kinda unfair, lol...

who is to say some sicko worker dont have a camera set up taking vids or pics...with our number you can get our address, names, etc...and blackmail/bribe/extort for various things!

the thing that pisses me off the most is when they say come to such and sucha place, then call and they will give you the address...then I tell them to fuck off...i dont have a cell phone how can I call you! lol

too much power for the workers here, and that is why they are a dime a dozen and 90% con artists, and theives.

 

[IAmNotSoVanilla]

good to see points of view from the other side.... thanks for all the feedback

 

[scarlet6969]

well connected if i invite someone into my home and i get raped i sure as hell want a number ot give to the police!

 

[Skeetman3269]

hard to understand. if someone feels that way why put yourself in that situation.

 

[Saskatchewan]

too much power for the workers here, and that is why they are a dime a dozen and 90% con artists, and theives.

???

I don't understand. 90% of SP's are thieves?

 

[luv4lust]

???

I don't understand. 90% of SP's are thieves?

ignore him he is ADD

 

[Skeetman3269]

I take it this was meant to be a women's forum

 

[kdkeld]

too much power for the workers here, and that is why they are a dime a dozen and 90% con artists, and theives.

You're a charmer. I bet the ladies are clearing their "dance cards" to see you.

Cool off the misogynist vitriol, yeah? If you don't respect/like escorts (which is evident), stop seeing them. Simple.

Also, please learn how to spell (e.g. "theives"). Your form indicts the public school system.

 

[Meat Manager]

never understood the BS behind that about numbers, names etc....they expect us to give them all of our personal info. but we cannot have theirs...kinda unfair, lol...

who is to say some sicko worker dont have a camera set up taking vids or pics...with our number you can get our address, names, etc...and blackmail/bribe/extort for various things!

the thing that pisses me off the most is when they say come to such and sucha place, then call and they will give you the address...then I tell them to fuck off...i dont have a cell phone how can I call you! lol

too much power for the workers here, and that is why they are a dime a dozen and 90% con artists, and theives.

95% of the time unknowns are no shows. I used to take any kind of booking and was getting fed up because all these guys did was take up a slot. I have to give you my full address of where I live and you cannot give me some numbers? THAT seems a bit unfair.

Good reason for numbers:
I've had it where a guy actually screwed over my bookings because he was texting ME thinking it was another girl (saying move on with your day I'm busy) so I went ahead and booked another guy. Guy number one calls and says I'm on my way. Now I have to let guy number 2 know that his appointment is delayed because guy number one can't keep his numbers straight. Completely not my fault and yet I'm the bad sp for letting guy number 2 know to come later? There is no hidden motive, it's a fast way to communicate.

 

[Hurricane Hank]

I am just wondering from all you ladies out there what the most effective way is that you've found to deal with time wasters? Is there a list of names out there? I'm sure that if this guy has been wasting my time that he's been wasting the time of others too.

He's been wasting your time? Why don't I have your number? I won't waste your time...........

 

[amber-jade]

never understood the BS behind that about numbers, names etc....they expect us to give them all of our personal info. but we cannot have theirs...kinda unfair, lol...

who is to say some sicko worker dont have a camera set up taking vids or pics...with our number you can get our address, names, etc...and blackmail/bribe/extort for various things!
the thing that pisses me off the most is when they say come to such and sucha place, then call and they will give you the address...then I tell them to fuck off...i dont have a cell phone how can I call you! lol
too much power for the workers here, and that is why they are a dime a dozen and 90% con artists, and theives.

do your knuckles drag on the ground when you walk, zogg ?

nobody wants all your information... the phone call is so the girls can be totally ready for your arrival...and to possibly reduce the ''no-show'' rate.
so, tell her you do not have a cell, and ask if a payphone is close by...whats this issue ?

 

[connected]

no my knucles certainly do NOT drag on the floor...
when I tell them I dont have a cell-phone, most freak out saying it is impossible to not have a cell-phone! then they get all paranoid and suspicious, etc...
probably from being high as a kite or drunk.
How many ladies have you seen in the last 5-10 years...none!

so STFU!

 

[Ibeefat]

no my knucles certainly do NOT drag on the floor...
when I tell them I dont have a cell-phone, most freak out saying it is impossible to not have a cell-phone! then they get all paranoid and suspicious, etc...
probably from being high as a kite or drunk.
How many ladies have you seen in the last 5-10 years...none!

so STFU!

In some twisted way I have to agree with connected. 2 years ago I didnt have a cell phone. I didnt want the extra expense. I think for some men not all , other forms of communication with Sp`s are better such as emailing and texting. I prefer texting because, I am a shy talker unless I know the woman and being around a lot of people at work, its easier for me to text. When I text you still get my number and so there is security there. The escort business has to evolve with the times, especially now that data phones are getting cheaper. We`ve come along way from riding up on a horse,tieing up outside of a saloon and going up stairs..

As for 90% are con artist, well I wouldn't go that far, but i would say 30% are. There are a lot of B&S girls out there, drug users and so forth. Its boards like these that save people money