Threatening texts and phone calls

[escapefromstress]

I'm not an advertiser so can't post this in a private forum. Please move if it shouldn't be here.

I've received several phone calls and text messages from a guy who wanted to make an appointment. (legit massage business, no extras)

When I told him I wasn't accepting new clients, he has continued to call and send texts, including dick pics, trying to intimidate me into seeing him.

When I told him to leave me alone or I would report him to the police for harassment, he laughed and told me he's a cop.

Number is 905-375-972*

PM for exact number.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I'm not an advertiser so can't post this in a private forum. Please move if it shouldn't be here.

I've received several phone calls and text messages from a guy who wanted to make an appointment. (legit massage business, no extras)

When I told him I wasn't accepting new clients, he has continued to call and send texts, including dick pics, trying to intimidate me into seeing him.

When I told him to leave me alone or I would report him to the police for harassment, he laughed and told me he's a cop.

Number is 905-375-972*

PM for exact number.

Tell him you'll forward his texts to the police association or their disciplinary committee (what an idiot he is).

 

[escapefromstress]

Tell him you'll forward his texts to the police association or their disciplinary committee (what an idiot he is).

As soon as he told me he was a cop, I asked him for the name of his CO, so I could forward the dick pics to him. I probably shouldn't have, but I was already having a stressful day, so I called and yelled at him, told him if he was a cop, then he should understand what criminal harassment is.

He sent one last text apologizing, telling me he really was a nice guy and that he wouldn't bother me again.

 

[escapefromstress]

Dumbass decided to send another text with another pic today, so I reported him to the Anti-spam people and will see what they have to say. I'm assuming they will forward this matter to LE on my behalf as well.

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[escapefromstress]

Dumbass decided to send another text with another pic today, so I reported him to the Anti-spam people and will see what they have to say. I'm assuming they will forward this matter to LE on my behalf as well.

I actually heard back from the CRTC.

"I saw the complaint you submitted to the Spam Reporting Centre and unfortunately the type of unsolicited SMS you described does not fall within our mandate (we cover commercial electronic messages). Given the nature of the texts you are receiving though, you might consider contacting your local law enforcement agency who may be able to assist you.

All the best in resolving your situation,

N. G.
Analyste principal | Senior analyst
Secteur de la conformité et des enquêtes | Compliance & Enforcement Sector
Canadian Radio-television and Telecommunications Commission (CRTC) | Conseil de la radiodiffusion et des télécommunications canadiennes (CRTC)"



So we can't send unwanted texts/dick pics to them, but I was recently contacted by another client who's been harassing me for months, and when I told him I would report him, he apologized and quit.

 

[dirkd101]

You can forward this number and the corresponding pics to your local LE people. They have a particular fetish for dealing with their own when they step out of line and their transgression will embarrass their respective department. Especially when it is of this nature, because this is against not only the CCC, but their own polices.

 

[gnudung]

My guess is he's not a cop and just said that thinking he'd scare you off. Can't hurt to forward his info to LE anyway. Sophia's been getting harassing texts as well. Sorry this is happening to you two right now!

 

[Kadie Lux]

Wow this is messed up. Happens to me all the time. Especially from "clients" who say they're at my incall and then I give them room... and then BAM no one shows up at my door. Then later on they are harassing my phone down with texts and calls saying I didnt answer the door. Ya ok. Please. Tired of these children (certain men) and their games!

Be safe ladies & hobbyists.
Xoxo Kadie

 

[TashaSummers]

Wow this is messed up. Happens to me all the time. Especially from "clients" who say they're at my incall and then I give them room... and then BAM no one shows up at my door. Then later on they are harassing my phone down with texts and calls saying I didnt answer the door. Ya ok. Please. Tired of these children (certain men) and their games!

Be safe ladies & hobbyists.
Xoxo Kadie

Very easy way around this issue: references or deposits.

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Something similar happened to me twice this week. I recently announced I would not be advertising as often as I did before and that I would only cater to selective clients on a very limited availability. My regulars have been wonderful with their support, but this week a long time regular got very upset because I had to reschedule his appointment, I gave him about a week in advance notice and provided an alternate date; because I only communicate through email he went on a rampage of how I damaged our relationship and wouldnt stop emailing asking me to explain why I was cancelling and said I wasted his time. so in my view I didnt wasted his time and also my personal life is none of his business. the another client goes ahead and selects a time for about 20 days in advance and tells me to confirm. I ask to please provide information so I can screen him and he only gave me his twitter handle with no activity and PM on here also no activity, I tell him I need a way to verify he is safe and then he send me an very nasty email and posted on one of my reviews here that I have wasted his time. Im just very saddened and angry to have to deal with these situations.