thoughts just before the door opens

[star003]

one thing that we all must be able to relate is the variety of feelings and the thoughts that run into our mind while entering the hotel or the condo building, walking past the reception with the slight hesitation whether to make eye contact or not, if any known faces in the lobby or not…getting into the elevator..and then the final moment arrives when u knock the door.
these moments have repeated so many times in my life that even when I am with my gf and we go to a hotel, i go in flashback with so many different faces to expect after the door opens. when I walk towards the door through the lobby, feels like all the memories of my past life are coming back, some good more some bad ones.
anyone wants to share their thoughts and experiences what runs through their mind standing outside the door?
It will be even more exciting if someone who is on the other side of the door also shares their thoughts when they expecting a new client on the door. do you keep a plan B handy in case u don’t like the client for whatever reason - looks, size, known face, or just instinct that something not right.

 

[unassuming]

Anticipation of seeing an SP for first time brings excitement (having sex with a stranger is a turn on for me) and apprehension: Do I find her attractive? Will we have good chemistry , will she provide what I am looking for?

 

[harryass]

My first thought is I hope I got the right room number.

I always am excited with anticipation when I see an SP. It dont matter if its the 5th or first time with her. Of course, some great and some less than great meetings.

 

[Ryan4life]

my thoughts are always 'please be hot!, please be hot!, please be hot!' and then 80% of the time I'm disappointed. It's the other 20% that keep me coming back.

 

[xix]

My first thought is I hope I got the right room number.

Yeah and you hope it's not some old lady who answers the door and she is thinking you are the house keeper for a bonus round.

 

[superman12]

My first thoughts when entering the hotel or condo itself is a bit of paranoia hoping that I don't bump into someone I know or that I don't do anything to raise eyebrows from the staff working there. It's always a bit nerve wrecking if you get a certain look from the front desk or if your going to a condo and front desk stops you to ask what apartment # your going to. Once im in the elevator the anticipation, excitement, and nervousness really starts to build and all I'm thinking about is if the sp is actually going to look as hot as I envision her based on her pics lol. Sadly 9/10 times she's not. Once I'm at the door I'm usually horny and nervous at the same time eventhough I have done this so many times I still get jitters. Once she opens the door and I see what she looks like and what her greeting is like I can usually tell if it's going to be a good session or not. If it's a sexy and welcoming greeting where she acts like she really wants me I'm probably in for a good time, if it's a cold greeting where all I get is a hug and she tells me to put the donation on the table and go take a shower 30 seconds into walking in then I know im not going to vibe with her. First impressions are everything for me and dictates the rest of the session

 

[xmontrealer]

For me it takes me back to my civilian "blind date" days, which are now almost unheard of given the internet.

On those pre-internet blind dates there would always be that sense of anticipation: what does she look like?, will she be attracted to me?, will we click? etc.etc.

Today that only happens for me with agency escorts, and rub & tug spas.

A big plus in the old days was that even if one or both of us wasn't instantly smitten by our physical appearances at the door, sometimes an hour or two together would overcome that issue, some type of personality "click" might happen, and more enjoyable dates would follow...

 

[massman]

My first thoughts when entering the hotel or condo itself is a bit of paranoia hoping that I don't bump into someone I know or that I don't do anything to raise eyebrows from the staff working there. It's always a bit nerve wrecking if you get a certain look from the front desk or if your going to a condo and front desk stops you to ask what apartment # your going to. Once im in the elevator the anticipation, excitement, and nervousness really starts to build and all I'm thinking about is if the sp is actually going to look as hot as I envision her based on her pics lol. Sadly 9/10 times she's not. Once I'm at the door I'm usually horny and nervous at the same time eventhough I have done this so many times I still get jitters. Once she opens the door and I see what she looks like and what her greeting is like I can usually tell if it's going to be a good session or not. If it's a sexy and welcoming greeting where she acts like she really wants me I'm probably in for a good time, if it's a cold greeting where all I get is a hug and she tells me to put the donation on the table and go take a shower 30 seconds into walking in then I know im not going to vibe with her. First impressions are everything for me and dictates the rest of the session

At a hotel, don’t worry about looks from front desk staff. Unless you are in a 5 room boutique hotel, there is no chance that they will recognize that you are not a guest, and furthermore, people staying hotels often have visitors. I walk in the lobby like I belong there, if
The front desk staff look my way, I give them a friendly nod, and head to the elevators.

If visiting a girl in a condo, ask them (or the booker) if there is a concierge in the lobby, and if they stop you, what is the name (first name should be fine) of the person who has the condo. So if asked where you are going, you can say “just visiting Amy in 2305”. For the most part tho, if you just walk in with purpose, like you know where you are going and belong there, 90% of the time they will leave you alone.

 

[chuckster]

At the door, all I'm thinking is "open the frickin door quickly" I hate standing there, i feel so exposed. Anything longer than 3 seconds is too much, they should be waiting, it is a very awkward moment for me.

 

[MorganStanley1]

"Im here to fuck"

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I hope she's wearing the panties her mother laid out for her.

 

[Sonic Temple]

At the door, all I'm thinking is "open the frickin door quickly" I hate standing there, i feel so exposed. Anything longer than 3 seconds is too much, they should be waiting, it is a very awkward moment for me.

That is so true, in addition I love that unlocking sound, so excited to see the SP and what she is wearing - I think I was only disappointed once in the hotness factor. I always think what are they are wearing when I see them.

 

[massman]

One of my fave door moments, I was on the inside (outcall to my hotel). Hear the knock, look thru the peephole and I’m like “holy fuck- this girl is even way hotter than I hoped for…”.
After I opened the door, I was not disappointed….

 

[Y_Diner]

Moments of anticipation is the best!!!

 

[Darts]

Does anybody remember the agency where they leave the door unlock and you can just walk in? That way your bum isn't sticking out in the hallway for however long.

 

[massman]

Does anybody remember the agency where they leave the door unlock and you can just walk in? That way your bum isn't sticking out in the hallway for however long.

A lot of agencies/SPs do that. Or wait at the door after you’ve buzzed up and open it before you knock

 

[xmontrealer]

A lot of agencies/SPs do that. Or wait at the door after you’ve buzzed up and open it before you knock

The agencies that use condos do that a lot to avoid pissed off neighbours and complaints to the condo management because of all the knocking.

Hotels almost never. And at hotels the escorts almost always hide behind the door when they open it, so nobody in the outside hallway can see them.

 

[Darts]

The agencies that use condos do that a lot to avoid pissed off neighbours and complaints to the condo management because of all the knocking.
Condos also have to buzz you in. The loud speaker in the condo near Rogers Centre is so loud everybody can hear you say "pizza delivery".

I use to walk in with a crowd so I could avoid the buzz in but escort HQ said go back out and buzz the unit and in a loud voice say "I'm here to see Jazzabelle for our one hour appointment.

Hotels almost never. And at hotels the escorts almost always hide behind the door when they open it, so nobody in the outside hallway can see them.
With hotels you can walk/take the elevator right up to the floor and room number except a few years ago you had to sign in at 1 King West.

 

[aventurier]

one thing that we all must be able to relate is the variety of feelings and the thoughts that run into our mind while entering the hotel or the condo building, walking past the reception with the slight hesitation whether to make eye contact or not, if any known faces in the lobby or not…getting into the elevator..and then the final moment arrives when u knock the door.
these moments have repeated so many times in my life that even when I am with my gf and we go to a hotel, i go in flashback with so many different faces to expect after the door opens. when I walk towards the door through the lobby, feels like all the memories of my past life are coming back, some good more some bad ones.
anyone wants to share their thoughts and experiences what runs through their mind standing outside the door?
It will be even more exciting if someone who is on the other side of the door also shares their thoughts when they expecting a new client on the door. do you keep a plan B handy in case u don’t like the client for whatever reason - looks, size, known face, or just instinct that something not right.

Thanks for starting this thread very useful, interesting and reassuring inputs from everyone lol

I thought I was the only one that got a little paranoid when heading to see the SP; for me, the experience is different depending on whether it’s a Condo or a hotel:

1. Hotel
Lobby - as it has been already said, not stressful at all - there’s so much going on especially at the mainstream hotels that nobody pays attention or notices anyone; for the most part, I tell myself it’s all in my head and people can’t mind read me and know what I’m here for lol

Elevator - again, fairly relaxed especially if there’s no one with me…if there is, I’m praying hard that they’re not getting off on the same floor otherwise, here is where the excitement starts building up and I’m looking forward to meeting the SP.

Hallway - sometimes there’s a little bit nervousness that returns as I’m heading to the room…hoping I don’t come across any housekeeping staff near the room or don’t end up having to stand and knock for a long time like a sore loser and bump into someone that could guess what I’m here for.

2. Condo Unit
Lobby - That’s where I feel the most antsy…buzz the code, hope that the door opens easily without hiccup lol avoid eye contact with the concierge but look calm and composed to not raise any suspicion…you don’t want to make it obvious you’re nervous or they’ll think you have something to hide etc… once I get through, I’m hoping to not come across anyone on my way to the elevator.

Elevator - Similar feeling to the ones in a hotel.

Hallway - Same concerns as the hotel…really hoping to not bump into any of the neighbours as I’m waiting to be let in…love the agencies like SFT that have the SP leave the door open and you can just walk in.

All in all, I do my best to try and suppress all that nervousness and tell myself no one cares or is interested in what I’m up to…it’s all in my head. This allows me to stay calm and composed which then lets me keep it together. Overall, despite all this, the excitement leading up to the moment she opens the door is what keeps me going…the excitement to meet a stranger, have fun with them so soon after meeting them for the first time or so soon after seeing them if it’s a repeat SP.

 

[Not getting younger]

Like a few others, I will feel a little anxiety if I have to wait much more than say 30 seconds. One agency I use, they ask that we not knock. That’s fine, but please don’t keep me waiting for a minute or two. But during I’m thinking about “first impressions” and what I want to say and ask.

Past the door.
My first impression I’m looking for their greeting and how genuine it seems. The vast majority are good at those initial few seconds. The next 30-60 is where I pick up on some artifice. I can usually tell the difference between boiler plate routines repeated with everyone, and genuine interest at meeting someone new.I pay attention to how interested they are. What kinds of questions they ask, if any.

After that facial features etc.

With repeats.
Im looking for the same. My priorities are SPs where we legit connect and have legit chemistry with. First visits I tell them a little about me. Somethings the usual stuff, some fine details less so. Depends on the questions they are asking.

My second visit, assuming there is one.

1) do they recognize me
2) how much do they remember and it’s my turn to ask certain questions.

my second visit is the one I pay most attention to in those first few minutes. It determines if there will be a third.