those of you who got approved by your significant other to hobby, how do you do it?

[monger2012]

hello,

for those of you who is married/in serious relationship and your significant is okay with you hobbying, how do you do it? Do you test it out watching porn together to see if she is down with threesome, and eventually bring up the idea having threesome with a sp?

 

[hyperdog]

hello,

for those of you who is married/in serious relationship and your significant is okay with you hobbying, how do you do it? Do you test it out watching porn together to see if she is down with threesome, and eventually bring up the idea having threesome with a sp?

No one's done that.

 

[GameBoy27]

hello,

for those of you who is married/in serious relationship and your significant is okay with you hobbying, how do you do it? Do you test it out watching porn together to see if she is down with threesome, and eventually bring up the idea having threesome with a sp?

Early in my relationship, we were watching porn together. There was a FFM scene and I was curious if she would be into that. Luckily she said yes. We've never had to pay for a SP as we've always found female friends of ours or couples to play with.

 

[Nickelodeon]

No one's done that.

I've seen a unicorn though.

 

[silk123]

Early in my relationship, we were watching porn together. There was a FFM scene and I was curious if she would be into that. Luckily she said yes. We've never had to pay for a SP as we've always found female friends of ours or couples to play with.

I doubt very much that guys on this board have approval from their significant other to hobby alone, usually they will end up being swingers and hobby together.

 

[whynot888]

No offence, but if my wife approved me to go hobbying i wouldn't trust her!

 

[IM469]

No offence, but if my wife approved me to go hobbying i wouldn't trust her!

You think she might go hobbying with strangers while you do ? Then again if she gets paid your hobbying ends up free !

 

[IM469]

2 clients who said their wives were happy with their marriage but simply did not want sex to be a topic of contention anymore and made a "don't ask don't tell" policy. So they may not know who their husbands are sleeping with, they know it's someone else and it's not an affair.

I'll wager in 95% of this 'don't ask, don't tell' - the guys never asked and their wives aren't aware of the arrangement. I've heard friends who's wives I know would kill/divorce/both if they found out use the line which is effectively saying ' I'm not really a sleaze ball cheating on his wife because she has given her blessing ... but don't say anything to her'.

 

[Rob_Latex]

In my most recent failed marriage (!!), we did indeed have an explicit "don't ask, don't tell" policy. It was discussed between us. The marriage failed, but not because of that particular issue.

So, yes, it's possible to have "approval" to see escorts, while still in a marriage/relationship. It all depends on the rules you (both of you) set down.