The smartest SP
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Kyra_to said:Well I put myself in got no smarts category, as I have to ask one of the enlightened ones here who/what "Hypothoces" is/are?
Of course I could try to sound it out in which case I come up with hypotheses, but that's nothing more than an educated guess on my part.
Hypothoces- the theorem put forth by anaxagoras that a man who talks with his foot in his mouth and a pickle up his ass is a fool. some very elegant proofs of this can be seen in this thread.
genintoronto said:
Nope, not confused at all. Generally this transaction involves people who know very little about each other, neither party is generally interested in getting to know the other person and a certain amount of small talk is required.
The fact that you didn't face this issue when you were a waitress most likely has more to do with the fact that you don't generally get all that personal with a waitress and zero small talk is required by both parties when ordering a drink.
If this small talk goes to the so called "smart girl" comment at the beginning, middle or end of a date then it's just clumsy and stupid, hardly any reason to get worked up about.
Unfortunately you are, for better or worse, in the people business. You full fill a fantasy for the time period contracted, live with it.
Sorry
sean
Yep. I didn't need you to explain all that to me. As I said a few times already, I know and understand where this comment is coming from, and I think I have at least as good an understanding of the dynamic of a SP/client encounter as you do.seaniam said:
I'm not "over reacting", nor getting "worked up" about it, and I already "live with it" quite fine, thankyouverymuch. I was merely stating in passing one of my pet peeves, something relatively insignificant but that does annoy me. Nothing more. I have yet to cut anyone's balls over it.
Ref,Ref said:
The point of this topic is that, for some of us, intelligence in a woman can be attractive and sexy. In the same way that many on this board debate who has the best BJs or best tits, I do not see anything wrong with commenting on SPs' intelligence.
i agree with you 100 % there are many smart women.Ref said:
as far as i can see the only smart men on this thread are the ones who chose not to answer the moronic question asked.
now you understand how the rest of us women feel isn't nice eh? sorry by the way but it's been bugging me all day sometimes you need to think about how your words and actions make others feel.a 1 player said:Ouch, that stung!
your dealing with real people not just internet ho's
It's a numbers game. Demographics. Those SPs that are smart know this. So it kind of surprises me when they feign surprise at some of their clients reactions to their smartness.
luv4lust said:
In some ways it is a moronic question because the capabilities of the respondents to distinguish intelligence, much less grade it, is somewhat difficult to assess.
I do think it is a legitimate question however. I suppose it must be a sign of age or something but if I'm going to spend some time ( and cash) with a woman, even for a short time such as a couple of hours, intelligence is a quality that I value. I happen to find the beauty and brains combo lethal.
Somewhat illogically I also associate intelligence with the assumption that the girl is not a victim and is doing this because its a logical means to an end she has defined. Perpetuating victims was one of the fears I had in paying into this industry when my circumstances left me with few acceptable alternatives.
Almost without exception the sp's that I have repeated with in Montreal have had university degrees. Of those, 75% would be what I would call intelligent
. All of these were spectacular women. After all if you are going to do this you might as well see someone who hits your hotspots and brains is one of my hotspots. Maybe its the hope that some of it will rub off.just my stupid opinion
well if your going to go on a review board and tell people who the intelligent women are you might want to include it in a review {allot less insulting to some who are but not included in the lists} instead of making a list of ones who you think are the most intelligent for Christ sakes some of the choices haven't even been met face to face by the guys.train said:
luv4lust said:well if your going to go on a review board and tell people who the intelligent women are you might want to include it in a review {allot less insulting to some who are but not included in the lists} instead of making a list of ones who you think are the most intelligent for Christ sakes some of the choices haven't even been met face to face by the guys.
Perhaps, but a review board has many such subjective lists which by definition aren't FAIR. Best face, best boobs, etc etc. where people have a narrow, almost juvenile, focus on a particular attribute.
All information or opinion here comes with the caveat " Consider the source"
Oh boy...ALL of them but all are way smarter than everybody in this site...they really know how to get what they want ...on another note, I don't really care if the Sp is smart or not, I'm not there to discuss politics, nuclear atoms or else ..as far they please me I'm happy with them
I KNOW I'm going to get my balls chopped off for this one
but here I go against mt better judgment.
Every woman on this board has been judged on their looks, the shape of their body, their hygiene, their personality, what they wear, how well they suck cock, and if they take it up the ass, but talking about their intelligence is considered offensive? Now I've officially heard it all!
I would not expect this discussion to be all inclusive, in the same manner as the 'Who is the best SP?' threads are, but at the same time, I certainly don't think that this topic is in any way taboo. It is well documented that there are many gentlemen who actually care and desire to spend their money on a woman with intelligence. To some it is as much of a selling feature as the size of ones breasts or any other service that is offered. We are on a review board that critiques every little aspect of the women, and the women are often judged harshly on every little detail, some that are well beyond their control. For once we are talking about something that is not about aesthetics, or dropping ourselves to the lowest common denominator. This is a conversation that could be had in any public place, that people could overhear, and one would not be embarrassed to talk about anywhere.
I can think of one woman in particular that I talk to often through PM, a woman who I have not actually ever met in person, and i really have no idea what she looks like. A woman who I would consider a friend. I really like her for who she is, what she believes, and her personality. She is someone I have decided that I would not book as an SP, as it would make me feel uncomfortable having paid sex with her knowing what I know about her. There would be no fantasy, and it would not be enjoyable for me unless it were on 'personal' terms. For this same reason I also do not read her reviews. I do not need to know what a friend does behind closed doors. Anyhow, this woman is as smart as they come in my opinion. I did not add her to this list because I have the feeling she values her privacy, and she does not make a large presence for herself on the board.
If there were a thread on 'Who is the smartest client?', I certainly would not expect to make it on that list, and I would not be offended either. I KNOW I'm certainly not dumb, but I also realize that at least in terms of education, there are many gentlemen on this board who would be more worthy to be on that list than I. Even knowing exactly what this board is, I would find it more difficult to be judged on my looks, attitude, personality and service than my intelligence.
The physical attributes of a person are judged in much the same manner as ones intelligence. We all have an 'ideal' about what our partners should look like, and thank goodness this 'ideal' is different for every person in the world. Just because one person has a different ideal than another, does not mean that any persons choice is less valid than any other persons.
What do we mean by intelligence anyway? The ability to make money? Ones education? The ability in which they interact with other people? The one who would live the longest if stranded on a deserted island? All of these are intelligences in some way, but they are all very different from each other, and all are judged on different criteria.
Is this thread offensive? In my opinion, one of the least that has been posted to date. I'm sorry to all the ladies that feel that they should have made it on this list but haven't, but perhaps some men feel uncomfortable sharing this information with all, like I do in regards to the young woman I spoke about earlier. Or perhaps, just perhaps not every kid makes the cut for the softball team.
but here I go against mt better judgment.
Every woman on this board has been judged on their looks, the shape of their body, their hygiene, their personality, what they wear, how well they suck cock, and if they take it up the ass, but talking about their intelligence is considered offensive? Now I've officially heard it all!
I would not expect this discussion to be all inclusive, in the same manner as the 'Who is the best SP?' threads are, but at the same time, I certainly don't think that this topic is in any way taboo. It is well documented that there are many gentlemen who actually care and desire to spend their money on a woman with intelligence. To some it is as much of a selling feature as the size of ones breasts or any other service that is offered. We are on a review board that critiques every little aspect of the women, and the women are often judged harshly on every little detail, some that are well beyond their control. For once we are talking about something that is not about aesthetics, or dropping ourselves to the lowest common denominator. This is a conversation that could be had in any public place, that people could overhear, and one would not be embarrassed to talk about anywhere.
I can think of one woman in particular that I talk to often through PM, a woman who I have not actually ever met in person, and i really have no idea what she looks like. A woman who I would consider a friend. I really like her for who she is, what she believes, and her personality. She is someone I have decided that I would not book as an SP, as it would make me feel uncomfortable having paid sex with her knowing what I know about her. There would be no fantasy, and it would not be enjoyable for me unless it were on 'personal' terms. For this same reason I also do not read her reviews. I do not need to know what a friend does behind closed doors. Anyhow, this woman is as smart as they come in my opinion. I did not add her to this list because I have the feeling she values her privacy, and she does not make a large presence for herself on the board.
If there were a thread on 'Who is the smartest client?', I certainly would not expect to make it on that list, and I would not be offended either. I KNOW I'm certainly not dumb, but I also realize that at least in terms of education, there are many gentlemen on this board who would be more worthy to be on that list than I. Even knowing exactly what this board is, I would find it more difficult to be judged on my looks, attitude, personality and service than my intelligence.
The physical attributes of a person are judged in much the same manner as ones intelligence. We all have an 'ideal' about what our partners should look like, and thank goodness this 'ideal' is different for every person in the world. Just because one person has a different ideal than another, does not mean that any persons choice is less valid than any other persons.
What do we mean by intelligence anyway? The ability to make money? Ones education? The ability in which they interact with other people? The one who would live the longest if stranded on a deserted island? All of these are intelligences in some way, but they are all very different from each other, and all are judged on different criteria.
Is this thread offensive? In my opinion, one of the least that has been posted to date. I'm sorry to all the ladies that feel that they should have made it on this list but haven't, but perhaps some men feel uncomfortable sharing this information with all, like I do in regards to the young woman I spoke about earlier. Or perhaps, just perhaps not every kid makes the cut for the softball team.
well i stick to my first post and back up the other two
it's a slap in the face for some that are smart and don't make the list not that i want to be added to this moronic thread
it's a slap in the face for some that are smart and don't make the list not that i want to be added to this moronic thread
luv4lust said:well if your going to go on a review board and tell people who the intelligent women are you might want to include it in a review {allot less insulting to some who are but not included in the lists} instead of making a list of ones who you think are the most intelligent for Christ sakes some of the choices haven't even been met face to face by the guys.
Why be concerned if someone thinks you are plain stupid or intelligent? If you are comfortable with yourself and know who you are as a person, that is all that matters. We are in the adult entertainment industry; a superficial industry. Of course their are going to be discussions about intelligence. It is what we do with our money and our experiences while we are in this industry and what we accomplish by getting out.
When I am with a companion, my concerns are only that I get treated with respect and have a good time. There are a lot of intelligent men on here as well as women.
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