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Jenn_angel

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I was recently contacted to do two seperate stories... One I flatly refused do to the fact that it was for TV... I found out later that W5 aired the story of another a week and a half later.


The second was for the Ryerson paper. They were doing one on Students in the sex industry. They managed to get my attention, and now I will post what was written.

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Jenn Angel's first day at her new job was as tentative and nerve-wracking as a first date.
In fact, that's exactly what it was.

Four years ago, Angel was living in Kingston, Ont. and attending high school when she decided to earn some fast cash by working for an escort agency. "I had friends who did it. They said the money was good."

Before meeting up with her first client, who was in his thirties, at his hotel room, the then 18-year-old was "nervous as sin."

"[But] it was a really nice dinner | in an expensive restaurant and we managed to converse all through dinner. He treated me like an old friend," says Angel, who won't confess whether or not she slept with him on her first night at the job.

Angel, 22, is one of many university and college students paying for their tuition by working in the sex industry. And when sex becomes a commodity, there is money to be made. Most escort services charge between $200-300 an hour, a wage that cash-strapped students will not find working at the local Starbucks.

An aviation management student at Georgian College, Angel divides her time between going to school in Barrie, Ont. and working as an independent escort in Toronto. She charges up to $250 an hour, or $600 for three continuous hours of her company. For international clients, rates are negotiable. And for those looking to catch Angel's full-figured body on camera, the viewing price is a hefty $500.

Agencies and escorts have a ?you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours' approach to the business. The student escort attacts men solely on the basis of her youthful look, and the agency sets up the appointments.

Tom, owner of Toronto escort agencies Executive Choice and Catchet Ladies, says men prefer students who look young - as young as possible, in many cases.

A buxom 5-foot-10 and 200 lbs, Angel commands attention in a room. Her curly blonde hair flows around her face, dotted with both a nose and tongue piercing.

"Everybody says I have a pretty face and everybody says I have great tits," says Angel, who doesn't know many women who share her G-40 bra size.

Angel has no pretenses about the unorthodox business she is involved in. Nor is she overtly secretive about what she does, except when it may involve hurting others. As an escort, she maintains the utmost respect for her clients. "I'm sorry, but no matter what I say or do, my client's discretion is involved. They pay me to be discreet and not screw it up for them," says Angel, who bears the responsibility of soliciting those clients by herself.

Angel went solo last January because the agency she was working for wasn't giving her enough clients. While soliticing clients independent of an agency gives escorts the ability to be their own boss, the baggage that comes with marketing themselves is often a lot of trouble for students with limited time.

"When you're an independent, you do it all yourself, there's nobody else there. If you don't have the bookings coming in off your ads ... that's your own problem," says Angel, who relies on her Web site to attract clients.

In recent years, the sex industry has created a culture that thrives on the Web. A sex-seeker only has to type in the word ?escort' and the name of the city he lives in and hundreds of Web sites and directories pop up. More than a few offer university students for an intimate evening. Angel, like many others, has no problem calling herself a student in the bio on her Web page.

The actual number of women who work in the sex trade is hard to determine. Women who work temporarily as escorts, such as students, don't necessarily identify themselves as being sex workers, says Maurganne Mooney, an outreach coordinator for Maggie's, a Toronto-based advocacy group for sex workers. "They may go in and out of sex work throughout their education."

Anonymity is another statistical loop-hole in the industry, because not only are women afraid to identify themselves as sex workers for fear of legal issues, but also because of the stigma attached to job.

Angel gets the "heebeegeebees" when she thinks of all the men she has slept with since she started escorting.

...TBC
 

Jenn_angel

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But some women reject the idea that sex workers are victims, says Mooney, who has been an escort for almost a year.

"As a pro-sex worker, I could wrap my head around the idea of women making money by having sex empowering." Rather than work exploitive hours and earn minimum wage, Mooney says she can work half an hour and earn over $100.

Considering the amount of time and money that students commit to pay for tuition, attend classes and do homework, Mooney says she understands why many rely on escorting to pay the bills.

Requiring a fraction of the time to earn large quantities of cash, "sex work is the highest paying work available to women," she says.

But while the cash rewards of working in the sex industry may seem appealing, the job also has its drawbacks.

The dangers of escorting come with the territory. Angel once left her house to have a cigarette only to find a past client looking for her outside. He had lost her phone number and vaguely remembered where she was living.

"I freaked out. I told him to get the fuck away from the house. He just left, but it could have been a lot worse."

Strange men aren't the only thing that escorts have to worry about. Corey Green, a sexual health educator at Ryerson's AIDS education project, says the dangers an escort may face are the same for anyone who is sexually active. But earning a living in the sex trade means having more sexual contact with strangers - a precarious combination.

"One of the major risk factors associated with HIV and AIDS or various STDS is frequency," says Green. Another gamble is the chance of physical violence. "Sexual assault is obviously a big possibility in that kind of context."

Although the AIDS education project is aimed at all students, it has a lot of relevance to the sex trade and students who work in it, says to Green. It raises the issue of the need for financial assistance for students who may rely on escorting as a desperate means to make money.

"I think [an escort is] a glamorized prostitute," says Annette Di Marco, a first-year radio and television arts student. "I don't want to sell my body and I don't think anyone else should have to either."

"I don't think it reflects very well later on if someone finds out, if you're going into some profession where you're going to be in the public eye and someone finds out, not everyone is going to take it in a positive way."

Di Marco, who is looking for a job in retail right now but gets financial help from her parents, would never work as an escort if it meant having to sleep with the client. "If I had to be horizontal with them, it's just not happening."

A popular misconception is that every "John" just wants a nice piece of flesh, when some are only looking for a good listening ear and some decent dinner conversation. Angel says her clients sometimes even talk to her about their wives.

"I'm good at what I do. We're sitting here having a conversation, right? I haven't let the conversation drop ... " says Angel.

People are often surprised at Angel's intellectual level. "My favourite quote and I've heard over and over again: 'You're really intelligent, why do you do this?'" Her answer : "Because I'm really intelligent and I'm not stupid enough to give it away."

Angel is also an avid Web-surfer and and maintains her personal Web page. Being computer literate is a necessary tool for her profession.

Angel plans to quit escorting in three years, but she's not sure if she'll end up working in the aviation industry after all.

These days, Angel is single. Relationships can become a tricky problem for escorts. "I can't have a personal relationship. Men don't date women like me."

Angel often finds that men only want a relationship with her because they think "she's a good lay" or because she has money. But the bigger problem is that most men don't want to date someone who has sex for money.

"I can't date someone that has any hang ups about the industry," she says.

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drlove

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Very intriguing post... Personally, I have no qualms about dating someone in the industry (hypothetically speaking). Yes, I would be concerned for her health and safety; however, it would be very hypocritical to scorn someone for their choice of occupation. After all, as a hobbyist, I'm an equal participant.
 

homonger

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Yes, very intriguing. I didn't know Jenn was an aviation management student. I also don't know what that is.

I like seeing students. It makes me feel like my weakness is actually helping someone. It also makes me feel more like a benefactor and less like a dirty old man.
 

Jenn_angel

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tbill I think I speak for all...

It may not be the best idea considering where the paper was for.

University papers are not the place to tell the other side.

I kept it clean and discreet.

What would a "John" say? How would being a "John" reflect on getting through post secondary education? Oh yeah... Final note why it would work with this paper... You have to be a student for the story to work.

I am not trying to be rude just pointing out why I feel it would not be a good idea.
 

syn

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good grief

tbill said:
if you say its alright jenn i'll ask the paper to interview a john..if yes, whos the reporter and what paper..but only with your permission jenn
jenn did the article for the ryerson newspaper ... which is a university paper ... geared to students ...

and she has made it clear that she does not think it would be a good idea for you to make a contribution.

syn
 

syn

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Re: tbill I think I speak for all...

Jenn_angel said:
It may not be the best idea considering where the paper was for.

University papers are not the place to tell the other side.

I kept it clean and discreet.

What would a "John" say? How would being a "John" reflect on getting through post secondary education? Oh yeah... Final note why it would work with this paper... You have to be a student for the story to work.

I am not trying to be rude just pointing out why I feel it would not be a good idea.

how much more clear ... ? jenn specifically states that she does not think it would be a good idea ...

syn
 

syn

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good grief

without a doubt, tbill's personality on this board makes me shudder.

i cannot think of any other member that i would rather less act as a 'spokesperson' for this industry.

syn
 

Carrie Moon

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W5 story

I saw that W5 story and was very disappointed to see that although the girl interviewed for stripping to pay her way through school was displayed in a very positive light, the girl escorting hated her job! Why oh why can't they interview women who enjoy escorting. We aren't that hard to find....

http://www.carriemoon.com
 

ricflair

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Carrie

Great responce Carrie I for one no you enjoy being with your clients but most dont , to sad.

Hope to see you soon.

Ric
 

Jenn_angel

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LOL

Sorry... They tried but I am chicken shit about daddy knowing!

Can you imagine!

My mother knows but my father does not and I am not in the mood to deal with him knowing.

Sorry... I acted on gut impulse and said no.
 

Meesh

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Re: W5 story

Carrie Moon said:
I saw that W5 story and was very disappointed to see that although the girl interviewed for stripping to pay her way through school was displayed in a very positive light, the girl escorting hated her job! Why oh why can't they interview women who enjoy escorting. We aren't that hard to find....

http://www.carriemoon.com
Simple answer: there's no story in that....the general public has been brainwashed to think of escorts as victims...and nobody is likely to rock the boat and give a balanced viewpoint.

There are victims out there, yes...but I have not personally met any.
 

elaine

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no story in postive escorting

Oh there's a story, problem as Meesh says is the public has been brainwashed. Which it should be.

This is not a jog for the normal public, not all ladies will be able to do it. Some for moral reasons, physical and religous.

The biggest thing is if the public starts becoming comfortable with the escort/companion relationships, less public health money will go to the lesser fortunate street ladies.

Many street ladies were ex strippers or escorts in their prime, some lost to a world to drugs and partying. The money must be kept at that level and the newspapers must keep frowning on it.

I've been on the 6 o'clock news three times, you can get this for 20$ at Jarvis and main or 300$ on the net. And they go on to tell the bad side of things, the victims. Which is more important then them calling me and asking me if they can tell the people how much fun it is, the thrill I recieve or just how many aeroplan miles I have acculmulated. That's not the point.

Our laws are set to protect the vunerable ones, and the news should concentrate on showing the shady unpleasant side.

Even if the general public became aware and comfortable with our paid relations, your co-workers or wife will never accept it the way we would like.

PLUS: Make it attractive and ladies flood the market, prices go down (like a pertol war) and we all loose.

Keep starbucks with starbucks and keep us, us.
 
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Re: Re: W5 story

kiarra said:
I am still curious has to who the girl was. She was TO based, a BBW, black shoulder length hair and charged 200/hour for outcalls in downtown. That is all I remember. I don't think she was a web based girl yet, but that is just a feeling. Anyone got any ideas on the mystery woman?

Kiarra
She was based in Vancouver. She claimed to be a law student.

MPK
 

queenie

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article

I see I'm coming on this thread a bit late, but still wanted to say, nice work Aphrodite. Every little bit helps change public perception about the healthy side of this business. And I especially liked your quote, "Because I'm really intelligent and I'm not stupid enough to give it away."
Q.
 
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