The guy before or after you

[Cun'g-linguist]

This is probably the reason why many SP's have short relationships.

Once the bf finds out she's f**ked grandpa Joe and Uncle Mike and Hillbilly Sam, he can't stand the thought of him doing it with her knowing who's been inside of her...lol.

 

[learningtoplay]

I was never under any illusions about the nature of this hobby. Here comes the wine:
I am in this hobby because I have issues with my self- esteem. I am not afraid to admit that I go see these beautiful young women because it feeds my ego. However, seeing the guy come in after me and not being too impressed with his appearance, it had the opposite effect. If I were completely secure of my self worth, I would probably spend more time at the soup kitchen and be more altruistic in my endeavors. I don’t feel I am any better than the guy behind me. It was just that his appearance did drive home the message of my own feelings of self-worth.
The objective of this thread, was not to insult other hobbyist, but rather to see if others had similar experiences.