The GFE?

[justawildchild]

OK

I understand the limitations of an SP as I have hobbied for a number of years, but is it not an oxymoron (or false advertising LOL) to advertise a GFE with CBJ? I have never, NEVER had a girlfriend who wanted to give me a covered BJ. Some might ask not to CIM, some might spit and most would swallow, but never anything but a BBBJ.

So my question is, just to pose a question........has anyone ever had a real girlfriend that preferred a CBJ?

Don't want to ruffle any feathers girls.......just curious.

 

[Ridgeman08]

No multiple choices?

I've typically rec'd all but a CBJ from GF's and the XW...

 

[dirkd101]

Ditto Ridgeman's experiences.

 

[justawildchild]

I think thats why they call it a safe GFE. Or thats what I do. I still kiss, cuddle, daty, etc. But it depends what GFE is to you. If it is strictly a service level and not the attitude or atmosphere of the girl I see your point. But I don't see a BBBJCIMSW in a mechanical fashion with a girl who doesn't kiss, touch her boobs, go down on her, or this that or the other as a GFE either. It is such a broad spectrum I guess.

But you giveth and taketh away!!! LOL

It is too much like my ex wife.......prior to marriage......ANYTHING GOES..........once the ring went on "Shields up"


.......I mean, what makes you think I am talking about you? LOL

 

[Ridgeman08]

just an observation....

But I was under the distinct impression that private messages, were just that... and were supposed to be private...

Just my personal opinion.

 

[Onelongfinger]

Yeah, I think PMs should be kept private too.

To answer the original question, everything on the list except on cbj. Different gf does different things. I had one who loves to sw and have sex everyday. Good thing I was in my 20s at that time.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I had one who loves to sw and have sex everyday.

My most recent GF was like that... problem is she was bat-shit crazy. I put up with it as long as I could! LoL

 

[zigzaw joker]

to answer the OP's Q, ....no i have never ever had a real GF who inisted on a CBJ... or covered anything for that matter, ... however SP's are not our real GF's... but i know what your say'n JWC, i'm with you brother !

IMO there are no bad BJ's.... just good ... better .. best ! ... IMHO a CBJ will never be more than a good BJ ....sorry sexyspinner when i saw you sexyspinner this past summer, your BBBJ was excellent ! ! as i stated in my review, hopefully if & when your comfortable with BBBJ you'll add it your repertroire again ... & maybe CIM too ..

I recall posing a similar question 2-3 years ago in the lounge with regards to "GFE",.. it's meaning & whether or not LFK/DFK should be assumed when the term GFE is used to describe an SP's services ....this after seeing an apparent " FULL GFE " SP..... the first thing she said to me AFTER i paid her is .... BTW "I don't kiss" .. "little pecks are OK but no tongue" ...... i was newbie hobbiest,( & she knew it ) so i didn't question her, ... regardles to say the session "fun-O-meter" needle never went past mediocre........... Obviously " safe GFE, GFE & full GFE" are subjective topics so i think it's best to research an SP, possibly contact the reviewer before booking

I also agree with sexyspinner's point that GFE is much more than whether the SP DFK's or BBBJ's you, but IMO are still important components of the GFE

 

[Onelongfinger]

My most recent GF was like that... problem is she was bat-shit crazy. I put up with it as long as I could! LoL

Lol, mine was crazy too. Kept talking about getting married and picking out what I was to wear. I put with it longer then I should of because of the sex. Lol. Man, she loves to sw.

 

[Buick Mackane]

Wives give blowjobs???

I thought this is why guys went to see escorts.