And that is exactly the problem JRK it is guessing. Justice Douglas, is being trashed yet none of us know the slightest bit more than very cursory articles in the press have mentioned.
The female Judge, her lawyer husband, her Reluctant Stud, DnS photos, cuckolding,
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It seems to be a site wherein white women post for black male partners. I don't qualify on either score.....
http://www.leaderpost.com/life/Manitoba+judge+steps+down+after+complaint/3467000/story.html
Well here's the scoop!
1. Judge resigned.
2. Lawyer is being investigated.
3. Chapman wants
10 million from lawyer
7 million from judge
50 million from the lawyer's firm
One thing I wonder about Douglas is: When she's hittin' the big "O" does she scream HERE CUMS THE JUDGE!!!!!!
Well here's the scoop!
1. Judge resigned.
2. Lawyer is being investigated.
3. Chapman wants
10 million from lawyer
7 million from judge
50 million from the lawyer's firm
One thing I wonder about Douglas is: When she's hittin' the big "O" does she scream HERE CUMS THE JUDGE!!!!!!
Um. If you are told to destroy the evidence but the idiot husband does not remove the content from the web site - then perhaps it is not that 'black & white.'
Syn
How about if you agree to settle a case and - presumably - sign a release that you will not sue and then sue for the same thing all over again 7 years later (and outside the limitation period, I would guess)? Except this time, you are suing for a ridiculously large amount and hold a press conference to disgrace the people involved.
That black and white enough for you?
My point was simply that you may wish to have removed the content from the internet once this came to light years ago.
[and the 'black and white' was meant to be silly]
Syn
Or is confirms that there are people in high places that crave giving up control behind closed doors. My domina friend tells me that she sees a number of judges, politicians and respected lawyers. For some reason being spanked and degraded is an outlet for them.
Syn
Been there, done that, and done it again, got bored frankly.
It's not really about giving up control frankly since really, he who has the money ultimately has the power. Your domina friend is just doing a service in return for cash. IMHO, unless she manages to convince her well to do clients to drain their bank accounts and give it all to her (some might) she really has no power over them. She's just doing as she's told to do for a buck. No different than your run of the mill SP. (Now if she manages to convince them to sign over their net worth - then she's in control.)
The acts you're describing are simply sexual acts taken outside "the norm" because they're kinkier and more exciting. The old in and out can get boring for a man and as a result, we will do stupid shit just for the rush and or to see what it's all about.
In my experience the women with higher educations are definitely kinkier and wilder in the bedroom. (The same applies to men - the men your domina friend are desribing are all highly educated as well.) They've read and learned over the the years and opened their minds to new ideas, including sexual ideas. They are at least curious about more than just the old in and out. Those with no higher education tend to be more rigid in their outlook - black and white, right and wrong and definitely NOT into the kinkier stuff (they view it as degrading, ironically, sex is sometimes best when it is humiliating).
I'm not saying it's a rule, it's just an observation that "in general....."
Just my 2 cents.
Okay. good points.
now, can someone explain to me how does a white husband who supposedly 'has control' and has 'power' over a submissive white woman derive pleasure from having her surrendered to a black male while the white husband is the 'cuckold' and also submits and also seeks to please the black male as being the alpha bull - as the white male derives pleasure just by helplessly looking on as another man takes his wife?
as far as i know, this is what a cuckold does - or maybe that didn't happen - i have to read the article again.
question is: what pleasure does a cuckold get by putting himself in a position where he helplessly just watches as another man takes his wife??
I agree.
I will bet that when the juicey details on this come out it will be revealed that the Stud initially approached them for more cash (blackmail) and they refused and so he's decided (stupidly in my opinion) to roll the bones. Maybe he's got fuck all, so he's got fuck all to lose (and the couple in question has a lot to lose).
I hope the tables get turned on his sorry ass. He made a deal 8 years ago and he should fucking live by it.
You will never convince me in a million years that it's been eating this guy up for the last 8 years.
That said, the couple in question should have been a lot smarter and kept their personal life separte from their work life. Stupid on their part.
It's a fetish or a kink, simple as that.
Many men are very turned on knowing that their woman is a horny woman and can't at all levels be trusted. (Often times have a dutiful wife at home is boring - you know she's only there for you - where's the challange in that? But knowing that your woman can't completely be trusted adds excitment to the equation. The competition. The whole thing can be a little complex and there are various lables such as "hot wife" i.e. a woman who has sex with other men with the full knowledge of the husband and he is full sexual acomplice / partner in it to the "Ultimate Cuckold" where the wife has sex with other men, but not the husband - ever, and he has little or no control over her other than he signs over his cheque.
I'm willing to bet that in the case of the couple in question, they are somewhere between "hot wifing" and "cuckolding". At the end of the day, the Stud is just a prop in their sex lives. He's welcome to fuck the wife, but they want him to leave once it's done. Sure, he gets to have sex with a woman (possibly even good looking) for free, but he's really just a cock and balls to them. Like Syn's Domina friend - doing what he's told. Unless he takes over the house and the woman - he has no power. He comes over, he performs, he leaves when he's told. (Not a bad deal for most guys to be honest, but at the end of the day, he is just a prop.)
Maya Blue posted this a while back, and it describes it fairly well.
http://www.nerve.com/dispatches/ma/cuckold
My Analysis of this 'kink' goes like this:
"He fills her up. I love watching her react to his bigger dick because I can't provide her that. I get off on the truth, on what's real."
I think the cuckold takes on the role of 'the pimp' and gets off on making his wife and/or girlfriend servicing other men.
This point is further reinforced with this point:
At the end of the day, the Stud is just a prop in their sex lives. He's welcome to fuck the wife, but they want him to leave once it's done. Sure, he gets to have sex with a woman (possibly even good looking) for free, but he's really just a cock and balls to them. Like Syn's Domina friend - doing what he's told. Unless he takes over the house and the woman - he has no power. He comes over, he performs, he leaves when he's told.
so, the Stud takes on the role of "The John" or men who desire his wife.
in the end, the cuckold is really playing the role of "The Pimp" - as he's really in complete control of the entire situation the entire time. He can tell the Bull to leave and never come back anytime he likes. He can decide who gets to f*uck his wife. He gets to decide who she sees and doesn't see. which could extend even to her friends and family. In the end, he delights in the idea that he owns his wife completely. Having such enormous power that he can even have her f*ucked by a number of strange, random men.
This point is further reinforced if the 'cuckold' aka 'The Pimp' makes his wife look 'presentable' or 'fuckable' or highly 'eyefuckable' as in makes her look as attractive as possible, all cleaned up and desireable with perfume and makeup and hot wardrobe attire, hot ''fuck me' shoes, further reinforcing the idea that she's a 'horny slut' / 'highly desireable' / 'whore' as in many guys check her out and want her.
This example can be disproved if the wife is the one calling the shots and decides which men she wants to bang while he just helplessly stands by and watches, with no choice in the matter.
p.s. on that note: watching my girlfriend being dominated, owned, taken and having to service and pleasure a dominant woman/girl is another story.
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Many very interesting comments, guys and dolls.
But the frequency of labels like "pimp," "cuckold," "john," "stud," "hottie," etc. in your psycho-analysis also shows that there is a lot of judging going on... as if anything other than strict monogamy is deviant or depraved in some way. Tut, tut, tut... your puritanism is showing! Other "isms"," too!
Welcome to the world of alternative sexuality. I have seen this before. The wife has a fantasy and her husband is secure enough in his own skin and their relationship that he does not feel dishonored or humiliated by helping her to fulfill it. Nor does she feel that way helping him do the same.
If you really think about it, helping your spouse fulfill a fantasy that you yourself cannot fulfill for her/him can simply be a selfless demonstration of mutual trust and love. It enhances the relationship in ways that might surprise you: many swingers who love and trust each other feel their relationships are greatly enhanced in this way. It takes dishonesty and guilt out of the equation.
And I am not saying that is what happened in this situation... this one seems a bit more sinister!
Perry
But the frequency of labels like "pimp," "cuckold," "john," "stud," "hottie," etc. in your psycho-analysis also shows that there is a lot of judging going on... as if anything other than strict monogamy is deviant or depraved in some way. Tut, tut, tut... your puritanism is showing! Other "isms"," too!
Welcome to the world of alternative sexuality. I have seen this before. The wife has a fantasy and her husband is secure enough in his own skin and their relationship that he does not feel dishonored or humiliated by helping her to fulfill it. Nor does she feel that way helping him do the same.
If you really think about it, helping your spouse fulfill a fantasy that you yourself cannot fulfill for her/him can simply be a selfless demonstration of mutual trust and love. It enhances the relationship in ways that might surprise you: many swingers who love and trust each other feel their relationships are greatly enhanced in this way. It takes dishonesty and guilt out of the equation.
And I am not saying that is what happened in this situation... this one seems a bit more sinister!
Perry
