The Ask-A-Hooker Thread
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not to get into details...wet_suit_one said:
but, being an sp is not the only thing i/we do to plan for the future..
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In 27 pages of comments, nobody asked...
Have you ever been arrested for a prostitution related offense? What happened?
Have you had visits from bylaw or other government agencies?
I'm curious because a few individuals have indicated a preference for incalls and -- I hope -- we all know that incalls are not legal and subject to sanction unlike outcalls.
Have you ever been arrested for a prostitution related offense? What happened?
Have you had visits from bylaw or other government agencies?
I'm curious because a few individuals have indicated a preference for incalls and -- I hope -- we all know that incalls are not legal and subject to sanction unlike outcalls.
I do like pegging, for many reasons, many similar as to why you guys like to get your dick wet beyond the direct physical stimulation to your cock.AdrenalinJunkie said:
It can certainly be a power thing, but it doesn't have to be. Pegging doesn't necessarily have to be done in a "take this, bitch" kinda way (although it can and it's also very hot), the same that a guy penetrating a woman can do it in a tender way, erotic way.
For me, the gender bending aspect of it, combined with the visual is a big part of the pleasure of pegging, in much the same way that I love getting a blow job (either from a guy or a pretty girl). Obviously, my partner's reaction and enjoyement is also a big turn on. While I will engage in consentual power play, I have absolutely no interest for instance in fucking a guy who doesn't enjoy it.
The fact that I can't "feel" the cock is no detriment to the pleasure I get from fucking someone with it or getting a blow job, the same that my mouth doesn't get any direct pleasure from sucking a cock, or my hand from fisting a pussy, but I still get wet from it. The mental aspect is still there, the visual, the smells, my partner's reaction: those are all part of what makes it fun.
reboot said:
I've been very open about being arrested in the 90's. Perhaps not in this thread... I've also known 2 other ladies who were arrested about 10 years ago.. however the laws have become more lax since then.
Oh and on the outcall aspect.. one of those 2 girls was arrested on her 2nd ever outcall.. the officers undercover met her and the other girl in the hotel lobby and discussed what would happen during the visit on the way up in the elevator.. ie. a public place.
oh.. and though no-one asked this.. I'm the horniest after my morning coffee.. any other chicks/guys get like that?
I understand what the CCRA wants but do you honestly want us guys to believe that SPs are paying their fair share when they deal in cash? Most girls don't want to give a cut to the agency let alone the tax man. Sure you guys have to show some income but I guess the bulk of the cash is never taxed.Carrie Moon said:
If I had to make a guess, I would say 85% of SPs are not paying any tax nor should they.
As I said before, I'm an equal opportunity hooker, just like I'm an equal opportunity dater in my personal life. The only comment I can make about race regarding my experience in the biz is that those clients that were more trouble or less pleasant to be with were disproportionatly white, which actually reflect my experience of the world outside of the biz. I think it has more to do with socialization (male/white privilege and (false) sense of entitlement) than anything else. This doesn't mean of course that being an ass is exclusive to white male, but I think it's often easier in our society for a white guy to be an ass and get away with it.
I don't care, as long as it's clean.
I plan on leaving once I'm done with school. I had specific financial goals when I got into this business, and so far, I'm happy with how well I meeting those goals. Alternatively, if there comes a time where the downsides outweight the perks of this job before I have achieved my goals and/or I'm done with school, I will look into something else to make a living.
When I started in the biz, I used to work much more than I do now, until I realized that I couldn't keep this pace without draining myself physically, emotionally, and mentally. Now, I know my limits much better, and I don't go beyond them.
While I do have a certain number of client/day, days/week benchmark that I follow, it's less about numbers than how I'm feeling it. So, I could have seen only two clients one day, but still feel that I can't see another one without giving a less than stellar service. It's also an issue of safety for me: if I'm not on top of my game, I'm not going to be alert enough to pay attention to those little signs that could save me from trouble.
I also follow religiously one of the best advice I've heard from a former escort (Mistress Matisse, who's now a pro-domme): don't make decisions (over what to offer, to whom, how often, etc.) based on money. When you start letting money dictate your decisions, you're not listening to yourself and your limits anymore, and you're putting yourself in a (more) vulnerable position.
What % of clients have asked you for BBFS? Only one, thankfully before we got naked, so I refunded him and left. Asking me for BBFS is the equivalent of telling me: "I have absolutely no knowledge of and/or concern for safer sex practices and I'm willing to take huge risks to my health (and that of my partners)". Not someone I want to get naked and do the dirty with.
How many escorts that you know wind up dating a client? I know of one, but I don't know personally many working girls, so my sample may not be representative.
How many escorts that you know find a sugar daddy client and leave the business to spend life with him? None. I personally have no interest in becoming a wife, paid or not.
Are you surprised at what kinds of fetishes guys tend to be into the most? Stuff you never thought would be as popular? Examples? No, not surprised. But I've played a lot in the fetish world before getting in this biz, so maybe that explains my lack of surprise.
Do you ever feel physically and mentally dirty having been with multiple men in a day/week and just find it hard to feel clean? No. I like dirty.
How do you prepare for a client? Do you have a routine of not eating for a certain period beforehand? Do you get a certain amount of sleep etc? Shit, shower and shave. And I usually brings snacks with me. Fucking makes me hungry.
Will you tell your future partner that you used to escort? Most likely yes. I can see that I may not find it relevant to announce it early on to a partner I would meet 40 years after leaving the industry, but I don't see myself actively hiding it from a partner either. I would (and have) disclose it very early on and before getting naked with someone I am dating while being in the biz. I very much believe in giving people the opportunity to make their own choices, and this means to me giving them all the relevant information they need to make said choices.
How often have you run into clients in public when you're not on the job? Never, that I'm aware of. If a client saw and recognized me 'in the wild', they've been gentlemen and didn't approach me.
Are escort girls competitive with each other? Like if one girl is getting tons of business does everybody else get catty with her? No idea. Now that I work incalls, I rarely see another girl from the agency, and usually only for a few minutes. When I was doing outcalls, I would spend more time (in the car) with some girls, but most I had a very pleasant and cordial (if superficial) relationship with. A few that I didn't like as much as other, but it had more to do with not getting along with everybody than with cattyness or anything of the sort.
How old were you when you started? In SP years, 26. Strangely enough, I'm still 26, a year later!
How did you get into it? Was avoiding school work by watching porn while eating ramen noodles (the only food I could afford) when I had an epiphany: I like sex, I don't like ramen noodles = lets give sex-for-pay a try. I did some research and called the lovely Jillian at Cupids to set up a meeting. The rest is history.
Was this a free-choice that you made alone? If you mean 'free-choice' as in nobody pimped me into it, yes. If you mean 'free-choice' to include structural conditions (such as being too poor to afford anything else than ramen noodles), no.
Have you enjoyed it some of the time? Most of the time. If it was only 'some' of the time, I would have long been gone.
Do you like your clients? If I didn't like most of them, I couldn't keep doing this.
Do you any women who are trafficked as sex slaves? Personally, no. But it's not that difficult to figure out who's being pimped and who's not by reading ads.
How many escorts that you know wind up dating a client? I know of one, but I don't know personally many working girls, so my sample may not be representative.
How many escorts that you know find a sugar daddy client and leave the business to spend life with him? None. I personally have no interest in becoming a wife, paid or not.
Are you surprised at what kinds of fetishes guys tend to be into the most? Stuff you never thought would be as popular? Examples? No, not surprised. But I've played a lot in the fetish world before getting in this biz, so maybe that explains my lack of surprise.
Do you ever feel physically and mentally dirty having been with multiple men in a day/week and just find it hard to feel clean? No. I like dirty.
How do you prepare for a client? Do you have a routine of not eating for a certain period beforehand? Do you get a certain amount of sleep etc? Shit, shower and shave. And I usually brings snacks with me. Fucking makes me hungry.
Will you tell your future partner that you used to escort? Most likely yes. I can see that I may not find it relevant to announce it early on to a partner I would meet 40 years after leaving the industry, but I don't see myself actively hiding it from a partner either. I would (and have) disclose it very early on and before getting naked with someone I am dating while being in the biz. I very much believe in giving people the opportunity to make their own choices, and this means to me giving them all the relevant information they need to make said choices.
How often have you run into clients in public when you're not on the job? Never, that I'm aware of. If a client saw and recognized me 'in the wild', they've been gentlemen and didn't approach me.
Are escort girls competitive with each other? Like if one girl is getting tons of business does everybody else get catty with her? No idea. Now that I work incalls, I rarely see another girl from the agency, and usually only for a few minutes. When I was doing outcalls, I would spend more time (in the car) with some girls, but most I had a very pleasant and cordial (if superficial) relationship with. A few that I didn't like as much as other, but it had more to do with not getting along with everybody than with cattyness or anything of the sort.
How old were you when you started? In SP years, 26. Strangely enough, I'm still 26, a year later!
How did you get into it? Was avoiding school work by watching porn while eating ramen noodles (the only food I could afford) when I had an epiphany: I like sex, I don't like ramen noodles = lets give sex-for-pay a try. I did some research and called the lovely Jillian at Cupids to set up a meeting. The rest is history.
Was this a free-choice that you made alone? If you mean 'free-choice' as in nobody pimped me into it, yes. If you mean 'free-choice' to include structural conditions (such as being too poor to afford anything else than ramen noodles), no.
Have you enjoyed it some of the time? Most of the time. If it was only 'some' of the time, I would have long been gone.
Do you like your clients? If I didn't like most of them, I couldn't keep doing this.
Do you any women who are trafficked as sex slaves? Personally, no. But it's not that difficult to figure out who's being pimped and who's not by reading ads.
Maybe your experience (which is fine) is different from the experiences of numerous dancers that I know. Yes, dancers are not escorts but perhaps they encounter the same group of men who also frequent escorts. My dancer friends generally say that they try to specifically avoid two ethic groups because of their attitude towards women and not because of their skin colour. (Rock: Why do you have to raise such a controversial issue? Maybe nobody will notice.)genintoronto said:
On lube:
On horniness: I'm the most horny during afternoon. Unfortunatly, same time slot as when I'm the most productive and alert for school work.
If I can avoid it, I much prefer to go without lube. It stinks, it's sticky, and it tastes like shit. BUT, there's a limit to how much natural lube my body can produce (every woman is different in that matter), and when I feel that it's not slippery enough, I will add some lube to prevent tearing of the fragile tissues inside my pussy. Proper lubrification is a must of safer sex practice.JohnFK said:
On horniness: I'm the most horny during afternoon. Unfortunatly, same time slot as when I'm the most productive and alert for school work.
Some ladies say they are "wettest" before their cycle but some ladies say they are "wettest" after their cycle. Is there a common pattern?genintoronto said:
Interesting. I've never noticed a pattern in wetness as it relates to my cycle. Maybe I'll pay more attention to it in the following months.Rockslinger said:
In my case, aside from certain medication, condoms is the number one factor that will impact my wetness/dryness: I typically remain quite wet until a condom is involved. But my pussy doesn't react favorably to the condom and gradually stops lubricating in protestation.
Since I rarely get hit on (except strangely when it should be quite obvious to anyone with a basic ability to read body language that I am not interested in getting hit on - say when I'm riding the subway, reading a book and listening to my ipod) by either men or women, yes, I typically do the first move. Otherwise, I would never get laid (well, outside of the biz).BallzDeep said:
There's been a handful over the years, but only one that I actively pursued (unsuccessfully to my chagrin). I'm a little bit of a control freak, and I like to know that I can cut someone from my intimate life without too much impact on the other aspects of my life. Don't shit where you eat and all that.
Let me in to your intimate life first and you can then cut me off anytime with absolutely no impact on any other aspect of your life. Promise, I will disappear quietly into the sunset and you will never see me again (unless we mutually want to).genintoronto said:
