When you go out on a serious Date with a man you really like , how long do you wait before you get into a sexual relationship ?
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When a hard body good looking young guy shows up for a session , is that a bonus , versus an older out of shape guy ?
No. I never blur the lines with a married man. My emotions stay in check at all times. You have to be able to separate reality from fantasy or things can get extremely messy.
That being said, I have fallen for a client and ended up leaving the industry for a time, to be with him.
One of the best relationships I've had and we are still friends. I was his first "pro" lol.
Not always. I tend to prefer older gentlemen, as they tend to be more in tune with a woman's body and general likes. It comes with the experience. A lot of younger men tend to be a tad immature with regards to sex or try to act out a porno even when I state I'm clearly GFE.
They usually have more energy and want to attempt circus-worthy tricks, which I'll try most of the time, but MAN, have I gotten some interesting requests. This is my own personal experience, but not 100% of the time.
Granted, I have some very beautiful beach-body regulars who I probably should be paying for the mind-blowing sessions we have, lol.
I don't put a time limit on those things. If the moment is right, then I'll make it happen.
I feel that this whole idea that a female should wait a certain time period (3 months, 1 month, etc) to have sex with a guy is flawed.
If you are looking for a man to respect you, it is in the way you carry yourself. Spreading your legs has nothing to do with it. I don't agree that a man would respect you less if you decide to have an intimate moment with him during the first date or week or what have you.
If the guy is a jerk and only wants to get into your pants, that is a different story, but it wouldn't change the outcome, no matter how long you hold out, in hope for something more.
If he is honest about what he wants and so are you, do it when you both are ready. That choice is individual, it shouldn't be based on a societal average.
What were the reasons that you had fallen for him - his look, personality, trustworthiness, the way he treated you ....?
Everything. The session itself was nothing I had ever experienced before and it was the same for him. He randomly decided to go on the Internet and search and dialed the first number he saw, at the time.
I almost didn't answer!
His personality, his ability to be really open with me about his life and real name and REAL experiences, the way he treated me with complete respect, his kindness and his confidence to speak his mind about what he wanted.
I was smitten for a moment and so was he.
He is gorgeous so that helped quite a bit lol.
So I left within three days. He was the one who asked. I decided then and there, that I wanted to and so I did.
We stayed together for a little over a year. He got a new job in Dubai so we decided it was best to end things. I personally cannot do long distances and neither can he. He is doing extremely well over there now, so I am quite happy for him.
Sounds like he's the whole package! Good for both of you. And.. you discontinued the arrangement?
Thank you!
We both decided to because he scored an amazing new job halfway across the world.
It was such an amicable split, which was great because I genuniely value our friendship.
When you benefit from a relationship or friendship spiritually, mentally and emotionally, it is the most beautiful thing. I grew tenfold from it.
If only all splits could be so amicable. You sound like a wonderful person Chloe.Thank you!
We both decided to because he scored an amazing new job halfway across the world.
It was such an amicable split, which was great because I genuniely value our friendship.
When you benefit from a relationship or friendship spiritually, mentally and emotionally, it is the most beautiful thing. I grew tenfold from it.
I agree. Thank you, Chloe for answering my questions and satisfying my curiousity. You sound like a lovely lady! :wink:
I was seeing this one S.P for years regularly , and we would text each other almost every day till one day it all stopped . The sex connection with her was so amazing ,that I actually thought she liked me ,but she would never date me . What can you recommend to us as clients so we do not get caught up in this fantasy that some times we do,nt want it to end and want more ?
You are very welcome! xoxo
Haha! Thank you! More to come this week. :wink:
That is a good question, that I don't know the right answer to.
I would suggest maybe seeing different providers every now and then, along with a favourite, as it helps gain some perspective on the different chemistries of different providers. The more females you see, the more it may open your eyes to look at these engagements or instances of conversation/connection as ultimately a fantasy.
Variety is the spice of life, but it can also be a reminder as to how great you have it with your ATF.
After seeing 50 Shades of Grey, how many SPs are into being submissive, spanking and slapping. Sorry if this sounds like Gomeshi territory but I won't punch or beat an SP hard, just mild slapping would be my limit and I would use safe words.
I don't see the point in this type of activity, other than pure domination from certain male perspectives,
and I can assure you gentleman, most providers in this industry do not enjoy this type of thing.
At least the one's I have met.
In the face of of the new Bill C-36 law it's probably best to stay away from this kind of activity. Unless the two parties have total complete trust that has built up over multiple visits.
