The Ask-A-Hooker Thread
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... Wow Arden ~ thank-you so much. I'm sincerely flattered - it honestly means a lot to me. xo
I'm going to reply to your PM tonight
xo
You deserve the kind words, you are one of the good ones on this site Jennifer
what do you do if you're starving hungry, it's 5min before a session and the only thing to eat is extra stuffed 4-bean burritos?
I prefer asian and caucasian clients. in my personal life I would love to date a caucassian man again but they aren't the ones approaching me on the street but they are calling me for a good time.
I think they're becoming rarer and rarer, yes. The problem is, that the more ladies who opt to offer BBBJ, the more the CBJ girls get pushed to the margins and start to feel the pressure. I recently did a workshop on STI prevention and it had me feeling pretty scared, not in the paranoid sensationalist kind of way, but I just got to thinking about the risks associated with having so many partners all the time. Fellas, it's your prerogative to book ladies that offer BBBJ if that's important for you, but try to stay away from disparaging those who don't; it's a tough decision to make!
Interesting, I can see how maybe doing CBJ would force you to develop some pretty solid skills to overcome the loss in sensation. Indeed many girls do hate the condoms (myself included), as do many clients. Even the flavoured ones are sort of yuck.
Myabe true I have noticed if I do end up offering BBBJ I am noticing I do suck too hard. since i am generally going with cbj route. I don't hate the condoms since I have found ones that I can tolerate the taste
You are right on Riley - alot of girls do that on BBBJ - way too hard. Had a lady who made it hurt actually.
I just find the girls who do covered are much more sensual - it's not about hammering all the time.
And some girls I know prefer covered, so if they are more comfy, it usually shows.
I just find the girls who do covered are much more sensual - it's not about hammering all the time.
And some girls I know prefer covered, so if they are more comfy, it usually shows.
Indeed.
Also, taking our balls into your mouth and licking them gently with your tongue is good. Sucking on a ball, pulling it back and then opening your mouth so it POPs out and snaps back...is NOT.
Well that kinda irks me because it was accurate at the time and it took quite a bit of time. ( I was obviously too curious and type A at the time)
I am sorry about that.
However I believe the shift is due to member post deletions requested as they leave the board, get banned, or upon request.
If you look in the general area the corresponding indexed post should be there...if it was not deleted.
EXACTLY!! I had an ex who used to do this. When I told her that it didn't feel great, she lost all confidence in her technique and avoided the BJ altogether.
My question, do you have any judgments or feeling of a hooker's choice of "marketing"? In other words, is a street-hooker different than an agency woman, or a part-time indy?
They are different in the sense that they are working under more dangerous and stigmatized conditions. Workers need our help, support, and understanding to help increase their safety and options, not judgment. Often times, women who work on the streets do so for a reason and we can not make assumptions about their character or make any kind of assumption about how much choice they had in the matter (i.e. their "choice" of "marketing" may or may not be as much of a choice as you might think). Listening to others and not speaking for them is important. I just started as a part-time indie after working for an agency, and I can say that the two realms have their pros and cons but I will need to start working more to learn more about that. But I think it's important to be non-judgmental.
Agreed. I learned a long time ago that yanking vigorously isn't the way to go! I've met a few guys who liked it, though.
