The Ask-A-Hooker Thread
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Befriending: all of them, why would I see someone I didn't want to be friends with? Clients come early, stay late, and meet me for coffee/dinner. I don't want to spend too much time with someone I don't want to be friends with!La Roche said:
Dating: I wouldn't, so far. After I've moved on sure, but I'm so involved with everything else there's no time for dating.
I'll be sure to have my camera with me the next time we run into each other so you can have a photo taken with meamber-jade said:
Hiding said:
Does it mean that if the guy is known as "John" once, he would always be seen as "John" from the eyes of SP?
I've seen this SP only once, but I really want to get to know "the real" her more. How should I approach this? Do you girls have any advice?
Would you settle for lipstick marks? ... lol This is 'Ask a Hooker' not 'Ask A Web-Guy' ...heheamber-jade said:can i sign that penis of yours ?
Do you read the reviews to learn how to do your job better or just for fun.
Are there reviewers who you know are so full of shit but you bite your tongue because it is a losing battle .
Do you PM other providers after reading a review about them to congratulate them on the positive press or lend support because some guy has done a hatchet job on them .
Have you added items to your menu as a result of reading what the "boy
's " are getting from the other girls .
Have you ever read review on yourself that made you question if the guy who wrote it was actually in the same bed as you . Either you thought it was a so so encounter and he's praising you to the god's or maybe you had a really good time and the review us just " meh " .
Very few SP's participate on the boards but what percentage of the girls you know scan the boards at least once a week .
Are there reviewers who you know are so full of shit but you bite your tongue because it is a losing battle .
Do you PM other providers after reading a review about them to congratulate them on the positive press or lend support because some guy has done a hatchet job on them .
Have you added items to your menu as a result of reading what the "boy
's " are getting from the other girls .
Have you ever read review on yourself that made you question if the guy who wrote it was actually in the same bed as you . Either you thought it was a so so encounter and he's praising you to the god's or maybe you had a really good time and the review us just " meh " .
Very few SP's participate on the boards but what percentage of the girls you know scan the boards at least once a week .
La Roche said:
I've been asked out many times, but have never accepted a 'date' with a client. The reason being, I am in the sex industry. Any man that dates me has to have a thick skin because I'm not in a position to change my profession right now, nor would I want to. Secondly, I have to click with the person. I havent felt the right match with anyone..yet.
If you have only seen this sp once, see her again. Make sure it's genuine interest, and not just lust. Once you develop a rapport, it may be easier to broach the subject of dating.
As for always a John? Not in my opinion. They are people first. who cares if you met in an sp/john arrangement? That's your business. I say I met my bf through a mutual friend. That's a lie, but it's our business.
Twinklegirl said:
Good advice there Twinklegirl!
I must admit I found her very attractive but I do have a genuine interest in her personality (or the personality she portrays as an SP) moreso than actually "performing" the hanky panky act with her...I know this may sound silly but I would rather spend the whole session chatting, getting to know her as a person than doing it.See I don't know a whole lot about her yet. I am very intrigued by what she's like in the real life and I certainly respect her career choice very much
That being said, is there anyway for me to tap into her real personality? How to I get her to open up to just be herself?
Thanks
La Roche said:Good advice there Twinklegirl!
See I don't know a whole lot about her yet. I am very intrigued by what she's like in the real life and I certainly respect her career choice very much
That being said, is there anyway for me to tap into her real personality? How to I get her to open up to just be herself?
Thanks
Set up a dinner date app't. 2 and a half hours. Dinner followed by fun. You'll get to know her a bit better, and you'll have some nekkid fun too. A bit pricier than a regular appointment, but it may be worth it if you get the answers you're looking for.
Only one client that I can qualify as a really bad date. It doesn't 'haunt' me, but I do remember the guy and the date very well.smylee52 said:
He was extremely pushy, in insights he was probably baked on coke, and wouldn't take no for an answer. Mid session, after asking me for the X times to do something I had already clearly told him I don't do, I refused again with a slightly annoyed tone, and he replied: "oh come on now, don't be such a bitch". I wasn't a bitch until then, but I can tell you that I instantly transformed into one after that.
I picked my clothes, called the driver and left him with his boner.
Other than that, I can think of a handful of calls where I could tell that it wouldn't go well, but I did the smart choice and left rather than going on with the appointment.
I don't know what the big deal is about the passing of the envelop. I personally don't care if it's in an envelope or not, or if you give it to me or put it on the dresser/night table. The only thing I care about is that you pay before you play.BallzDeep said:
I think for many (SPs and clients), it's coming from a desire to avoid "ruining the fantasy" by making the exchange of money too obvious. Me, I like the money aspect of the encounter/fantasy: it adds a 'dirty', 'taboo', layer to it that I'm very fond of.
69: I've said it before, I don't care much for it. I'm not good at multi-tasking, and when I'm having sex, I really don't want to multi-task. I'd rather take turn, be able to focus on what I'm doing (or what is being done to me), rather than ruin both by trying to do both at the same time. Whether it's a 69 with a man or another woman makes no difference to me: I still don't like multi-tasking.
A little bit of both. Also, I don't own a TV, so Terb is one of my main source of entertainment/procrastination.alphanig said:
Do you read the reviews to learn how to do your job better or just for fun.
Before I started in the biz, I did some research and read quite a few reviews to get a sense of how things work, what is being done, how, etc. Now, I do read my own reviews as a source of constructive and productive feedback, but I've also read enough reviews now (both my own and that of others) to read them with a little more detachment than I used to. I also scan other girls review randomly, mostly the extremely positive and extremely negative ones to get a sense of what makes you guys really happy/unhappy.
Are there reviewers who you know are so full of shit but you bite your tongue because it is a losing battle .
*biting my tongue*
Do you PM other providers after reading a review about them to congratulate them on the positive press or lend support because some guy has done a hatchet job on them .
Not to congratulate them, but offer support and encouragement, yes, I did a few times.
Have you added items to your menu as a result of reading what the "boy
's " are getting from the other girls .
No. I decided when I started in this biz that I would not make the important decisions regarding the services I offer, to whom, and when, based on money or what other people do.
Have you ever read review on yourself that made you question if the guy who wrote it was actually in the same bed as you . Either you thought it was a so so encounter and he's praising you to the god's or maybe you had a really good time and the review us just " meh " .
I wouldn't go so far as saying that it sounded like we weren't in the same bed/room, but yes, sometimes I have been suprised to read a guy praised something I did which I didn't consider that important or significant, or comment on something that didn't really registered for me when it happened. That's where reviews are actually important to me: they give me a completely different perspective on what I'm doing, and this help in adjusting my services accordingly.
Before I started in the biz, I did some research and read quite a few reviews to get a sense of how things work, what is being done, how, etc. Now, I do read my own reviews as a source of constructive and productive feedback, but I've also read enough reviews now (both my own and that of others) to read them with a little more detachment than I used to. I also scan other girls review randomly, mostly the extremely positive and extremely negative ones to get a sense of what makes you guys really happy/unhappy.
Are there reviewers who you know are so full of shit but you bite your tongue because it is a losing battle .
*biting my tongue*
Do you PM other providers after reading a review about them to congratulate them on the positive press or lend support because some guy has done a hatchet job on them .
Not to congratulate them, but offer support and encouragement, yes, I did a few times.
Have you added items to your menu as a result of reading what the "boy
's " are getting from the other girls .
No. I decided when I started in this biz that I would not make the important decisions regarding the services I offer, to whom, and when, based on money or what other people do.
Have you ever read review on yourself that made you question if the guy who wrote it was actually in the same bed as you . Either you thought it was a so so encounter and he's praising you to the god's or maybe you had a really good time and the review us just " meh " .
I wouldn't go so far as saying that it sounded like we weren't in the same bed/room, but yes, sometimes I have been suprised to read a guy praised something I did which I didn't consider that important or significant, or comment on something that didn't really registered for me when it happened. That's where reviews are actually important to me: they give me a completely different perspective on what I'm doing, and this help in adjusting my services accordingly.
Dear Miss Hooker,
During that 5 to 10 minute period from the end of the "formal" session until the client walks out the door (in an incall), do you hang around starkers or do you throw some clothes on? I am assuming that during that 5 to 10 minute period, the client is taking his end of session shower, getting dressed and saying his goodbyes while walking to the door.
During that 5 to 10 minute period from the end of the "formal" session until the client walks out the door (in an incall), do you hang around starkers or do you throw some clothes on? I am assuming that during that 5 to 10 minute period, the client is taking his end of session shower, getting dressed and saying his goodbyes while walking to the door.
I put my on my heels (if I took them off), and sometimes put on panties, sometimes not. But I never get dressed right away, as I prefer to take a shower first before putting my clothes back on. That, and I want to give my clients a few more minutes of eye candy before they go back to the world.Rockslinger said:
