One I suspected, we became friends and she showed me her ID. She was 23 pretending to be 18. I've asked 3 clients for IDs, that's super awkward too. Two of them showed me two IDs from their wallets and covered their names, one of them refused. I paid him a cancellation fee and asked him to leave.fuji said:
I started in the industry shortly before my 20th birthday at 19 years old. I did my research, knew the industry as best I could, and still made a poor decision in terms of agencies. I learnt fast and switched quickly, but I don't think 18-20 is too young for the industry: I wish we could have an SP-training-program, where every girl (not just young) got a smart and collected mentor to help her with things she couldn't have predicted from the outside. My mistake had nothing to do with age and everything to do with girls not talking about their work while working. (Where does a fledging SP go except directly to an agency owner and who is to say that owner isn't a corrupt one?)genintoronto said:
Just finished my undergrad, in a postgrad program now. Add Kaitlyn to the list of undergrads, add Noir and Dawn to the list of finishing their undergrads... There's a fairly large group of girls who are studying or have finished their degrees, I'd say maybe even more than half.squash500 said:Here's another question. How many sps actually have university or community college degrees?
If I was to guess I would say Kyra, Gen, Becky and Angela.
Cliche and predictable answer, but for me its way more about the sexual fantasy than money, although the money plays into the fantasy. Where else, as a 21-year-old girl, can I meet this many amazing people at different places in their lives, and learn from it?Hank250 said:
I've been honest this whole thread and said there are women who work that I believe should NOT be in the sex industry. A lot of these girls have a history of past sexual abuse, and I'd argue strongly that there is a higher incident of sexually abusive pasts in escorts. Correlation is not causation, however.Hank250 said:
I've answered this previously.Hank250 said:
I'd say that's the last reason on the list. You're assuming they're leaving on their own terms. Owners will often not work with someone who is constatnly late for appointments, intoxicated at work, etc. On the girl's side not getting along with the owner and/or not getting enough calls.Hank250 said:
I'm a redhead and EVERYTHING shows up. I do get little red welts, but recently I found a product for men who shave their heads called BumpStopper and I haven't had a problem since.Hank250 said:
Carefully.Hank250 said:
I'll be honest: some agencies are AWFUL. We've just exposed one such agency recently. For the most part though, agencies look out for the girls number one, even overzealously.Hank250 said:
Agency bookers are busy, they flag clients that have been perceived as problems in the past for future benefit (this is the fastest and most effective way) and they tend to treat people the way they have been treated. That having been said Chris@Mirage was VERY overworked for awhile, now he has help and clients are saying its much better. He's never in over a year spoken to me rudely or shortly.
PS. Andy isn't "my boss", technically, as I'm paying him: it's the other way around. But he also doesn't have time to read this thread unless someone directs him to a direct post/page.
