That gets me so WET!!!!

[ExGFE]

Ok so since I have been reading more and more I have come to understand this whole ymmv thing. I always thought it was a given that all encounters could possibley be different. I mean isn't that obvious, that just because one client got a session that was mind blowing, doen't mean the next guy gets the same.

Anyways, to prevent this I know we have come to the defining of terms, and perhaps rule or parameter as to how the sessions should go. I am here to ask something different. I want to know what sexual positions are tried, things that keep the sessions interesting, fantasies, even the person themselves. I just want to know what others think.

For example, I enjoy sucking dick. I like getting on all fours beside the bed, while the guy sits on the edge of the bed and fce fucks me. I mean this one act solves so many problems. If we are arguing, I can totally defuse the situation by giving him head, especially if he is winning the argument. If I want to punish him I'll leave him with a hard-on. This made the whole thing mutual considering he hates going down on me. God I miss all you guys sometimes.

 

[Davy.Biggie]

I have no idea.
Every GF I have I always make sure they know I hate going to bed angry so all issues are resolved before entering the bedroom. I just think that with calm rational discussion everything can be resolved. But sometimes you must agree to disagree.
as for anything else I have no idea this whole hobbying thing is virgin territory. God I wonder how often that word is used in here, if ever.
Hope you get the answers you need from the other guys.

 

[torontojohn]

I have no idea.
Every GF I have I always make sure they know I hate going to bed angry so all issues are resolved before entering the bedroom. I just think that with calm rational discussion everything can be resolved.

I have to disagree with this - while going to bed angry is a bad idea, it's sometimes better than continuing to argue. Some things you say can't ever be taken back, so unless you're prepared for the fight to explode and possibly start you down the path to a separation, you go to bed angry.

I've done it a few times.

 

[Stoo]

I can totally defuse the situation by giving him head, especially if he is winning the argument. If I want to punish him I'll leave him with a hard-on. This made the whole thing mutual considering he hates going down on me.

Using sex as a weapon is a dangerous game. Nothing will piss a guy off faster than be lead on and then "left with a hard on"...

Have you ever asked him why he won't go down on you? With my ex, over the years, that "act" became less and less appealling, in part because I didn't really love her anymore, and because, frankly, her personal "grooming" left a lot to be desired...

 

[STASH]

Using sex as a weapon is a dangerous game. Nothing will piss a guy off faster than be lead on and then "left with a hard on"...

..

Oh ya....had that done to me before. But then I figured out a new plan that women can't undo......Hobbying......my own little personal bit of revenge.

 

[tekguy]

Using sex as a weapon is a dangerous game. Nothing will piss a guy off faster than be lead on and then "left with a hard on"...

That's exactly one of the reasons I'm on TERB again after all these years ... Lack of sex from the SO and being left high and dry ...

 

[Stoo]

God I miss all you guys sometimes.

You know, you could always take up hobbying... or reverse-hobbying. JFK has offered his services and I suspect that you will be flooded with offers before the day is over!

 

[a 1 player]

I have had an all out fight with a partner exactly once in my life. Don't adults discuss things? I know if I'm upset, I explain where my feelings are coming from, state them rationally, and try to work out a way so that I will not feel that way again. That just seems rational to me.

 

[Cycleguy007]

I just think that with calm rational discussion everything can be resolved.

Totally agree, but sometimes a calm rational discussion is not possible with someone who has FAR too much anger (be it misplaced or otherwise) or emotion at the time? That is what the DOGHOUSE is for... or in my case the basement couch!

 

[Davy.Biggie]

Totally agree, but sometimes a calm rational discussion is not possible with someone who has FAR too much anger (be it misplaced or otherwise) or emotion at the time? That is what the DOGHOUSE is for... or in my case the basement couch!

This is why I own the house. LMAO

 

[Cycleguy007]

This is why I own the house. LMAO

So do I... I am married and for the most part I get along very well with my SO... except in those rare occasions that I do something stupid or she does... It happens...

BUT, that is why I have my basement! Fully finished- nice and cool in the summer and warm in the winter, and has all my stuff down there! Home theater, surround sound, pool table, bar, my office, 3 pc bathroom, and my home gym... The wife calls it my bachelor pad! Only reason to go upstairs is for family meals and conjugal visits! Probably why we get along so well, we don't get on each other's case! LOL

 

[enduser1]

For example, I enjoy sucking dick. I like getting on all fours beside the bed, while the guy sits on the edge of the bed and face fucks me. I mean this one act solves so many problems.

That is the best damn post on terb this year. EU

 

[Timbit]

Yeah, go ahead and leave me with a hard on and you'll wake up in the middle of the night with my spooge all over your face after I beat off. Guaranteed you'll never make that mistake again.

There's only one thing a guy will do with an unrequited hard on...

Timbit

 

[ExGFE]

Yeah, go ahead and leave me with a hard on and you'll wake up in the middle of the night with my spooge all over your face after I beat off. Guaranteed you'll never make that mistake again.

There's only one thing a guy will do with an unrequited hard on...

Timbit

Although I do enjoy the occasional facial, I would be a little upset, but just laugh it off by trying to kiss him or get the "spooge" on him. Oh but by the way, next time his favorite shirt goes missing, a dent appears on the car door, breakfast is the same for a month, or the golf club he got for Christmas and is dying to use mysteriously goes missing, don't look at me. Nope not guilty at all. He has to pay for the facial I like getting anyways. Snap!!!

 

[Cycleguy007]

Oh but by the way, next time his favorite shirt goes missing, a dent appears on the car door, breakfast is the same for a month, or the golf club he got for Christmas and is dying to use mysteriously goes missing, don't look at me. Nope not guilty at all. He has to pay for the facial I like getting anyways. Snap!!!

This is exactly how wars start! Hee hee

 

[spankingman]

I don't know what to say. It's never a good thing to go to bed angry.

If you want a nice, clean, moist, sharp, strong and talented tongue to go to town on you, my services are complimentary to you

There was a "rumour" years ago about ole JFK .If he didnt have sex twice a day he would get a severe headache!!!!!!!!!!

 

[CapitalGuy]

Although I do enjoy the occasional facial, I would be a little upset, but just laugh it off by trying to kiss him or get the "spooge" on him. Oh but by the way, next time his favorite shirt goes missing, a dent appears on the car door, breakfast is the same for a month, or the golf club he got for Christmas and is dying to use mysteriously goes missing, don't look at me. Nope not guilty at all. He has to pay for the facial I like getting anyways. Snap!!!

Hopefully you are joking. If you are, lol!!

If you aren't, you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of unhappiness, probably an eventual divorce and all that crap. When you are a bitter lonely 50something with no man in your life, you'll wish you had been a better friend and wife. Real life relationships aren't like the ones you see in sitcoms.

And if its a joke, then just slap me for not having a sense of humour. D'oh.

 

[Rockslinger]

BUT, that is why I have my basement!

If things get overheated at home, you can always take refuge in Joy's closet. Are you sure you didn't hear MLAM knocking on the adjacent wall when you were held captive there? (War of the Roses starring Douglas and Turner. Marriage gone bad.)

 

[Cycleguy007]

If things get overheated at home, you can always take refuge in Joy's closet. Are you sure you didn't hear MLAM knocking on the adjacent wall when you were held captive there? (War of the Roses starring Douglas and Turner. Marriage gone bad.)

Nope- no mlam. He's still MIA... I was wondering about mlam myself earlier today in another thread or maybe was a PM with another terbie... Anyway I don't think Joy wants me in her closet any more... too many shoes in there now... (Joy really likes her shoes!) and since she found out I'm a shoe guy... well....