Texting SPs

finesse

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Anyone else also have a hard time communicating? Usually they either take a long time responding or I get ghosted completely. I usually text in the afternoon.

For reference, I start with:
"Hi (their name), hope you're doing well! I'm (My name), (Age), (Ethnicity), and I'm looking to meet for hh (today) if possible!"

Am I doing something wrong?
 
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JakeChill&Tall

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Anyone else also have a hard time communicating? Usually they either take a long time responding or I get ghosted completely. I usually text in the afternoon.

For reference, I start with:
"Hi (their name), hope you're doing well! I'm (My name), (Age), (Ethnicity), and I'm looking to meet for hh (today) if possible!"

Am I doing something wrong?
I don't see any issue. If using Leolist, often best to see if it has been posted recently. Otherwise, I'm not sure what to say. A followup 24 hours after won't hurt. Or trying to book further in advance rather than same day!
 
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legion

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Anyone else also have a hard time communicating? Usually they either take a long time responding or I get ghosted completely. I usually text in the afternoon.

For reference, I start with:
"Hi (their name), hope you're doing well! I'm (My name), (Age), (Ethnicity), and I'm looking to meet for hh (today) if possible!"

Am I doing something wrong?
Hey..
I do not see anything wrong with what you are texting.. Just a suggestion. keep it more simple. When I text. I say "Hello I saw you add on Leolist ( NAME ) I am hoping to hear back from you."
I do not give any info to start. NAME, AGE and stuff. I wait for a response. If you ask for half hour in your first text. The SP will scroll through all her texts and pick what is best for her...
If you want HALF HOUR and others are asking for HOUR. You will most likely might not get a response. If she makes more doing hour APT. plus if you give her your age and she does not want to she people at your age .
She already knows not to respond. once she has responded to you. then sent age and HALF HOUR stuff. Remember If they are busy they will not respond right away. If you are with a SP do you like it when they are on there phone
texting there next person or spending there time with you.
just my opinion. just a suggestion.
 

kwpanda

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Keep it simple.
Ask if they're available at a time, and your requested booking time and mention anything in particular you're interested in for the session and wait for their reply. They'll ask questions if they have any. No need to write a novel.
They need time to read and keep in mind if they're popular, they'll have 100 messages waiting for them to respond.

If they don't respond, it usually means they're busy/not working.

Just try again later
 

Ryan_Coke

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Send your message, then send a second one right after that says READ ME FIRST!!! so that's all they see in their message list lol. Also send just before the top or bottom of the hour, since most appts will start or end at top or bottom, so you increase the chances of your text being closer to the top of her list. No guarantee of course that she is finishing a session right then but I think it's an odds thing. I also will add in a text that it's ok to reply to me when the message is received, as many SP's won't reply after a given period of time in case they reach the prospective client at a bad time.
 

speakercontrols

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I mean, it looks great. I like Ryan_Coke's idea of timing. I suppose you could add something along the lines of, "If today is unavailable, would [insert second date here] be more convenient".

Pure opinion but LL is good for same day (I think) but most prefer more notice.
 
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