Texting an Appointment Setup - She asks: "Do u live alone?"

[McKenna King]

should have been the other way around for me
went to private in call for MA services. She had very nice set up in the Dinning room curtained off with Spa decorations .
Halfway through the session before she asks for extras she says '' don't worry if you here noises upstairs .That's just my 2 kids .
They have their I pads so there occupied .''
Needless to say I opted out , but the massage was good .

I really don’t want to criticize another provider. We do all operate differently. But there’s still many survival SWs who have very limited options in how they operate within the industry….But there’s definitely a line in this industry that should never be crossed. And that’s having kids anywhere near your work.

 

[DDDCash]

I once went to a private residence for a massage with extras, and her husband was upstairs.
I only found out AFTER the extras were enjoyed.
I got out of there pretty quickly afterwards.

 

[DaddyJesus]

Could indirectly be asking if you're married but even knowing that should be irrelevant for the service she is providing.

I've had girls ask that. Just because she is an SP doesn't mean she isn't worried about becoming a home wrecker. Some do honestly have that concern. SP are still human.

Back to the OP, he got his answer from the SP. She was trying to smoothly convert it to an outcall. But the wording choices set off the wrong vibe. Sometimes just being direct and not beating around the bush would be the best approaches.

"Hey John, my incall ideally would be before 2pm. I want for us to meet, if you're okay with an outcall, that would be awesome . But if you got the same problem as me, lets try to book it between these times."

 

[SIRLOKI]

Or,
How many times have you replied to the wrong person while texting ?

I once sent a text to an SP that was intended for my Bondage provider , that was awkward