Lila was amazing compared to this whackadoodle. She at leasr edged you over and over and gave you a solid O! Ya she was nuts but better than this chick.
Tantra Massage
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I agree 100% Lila was the queen of edging. My mistake was asking how much extra for topless. Im still amazed I made it out of her place alive. Hope retirement is treating her well
That sounds frustrating.
It is also odd consider the link on her web page:
What Is a Tantra Massage?
A tantra massage isn’t just about feeling good. That what is it about? It's an ancient practice that blends touch, breathwork, and energy.
sacrederos.com
I thought the whole idea was to massage the lingam to the edge and then back you off? You know, keeping "your energy" or semen inside?
Anybody else experience the same as adam4singh?
It's perplexing how they have no problems doing what they're doing but asking about topless is what sets them off? I really don't understand haha.
Happy to help illuminate your understanding! It's fairly straightforward once it's explained. There are two parallel rationales:
First is consent. Second is the tantric practice itself.
Reason the First:
They consent to touching you in order to give you pleasure;
They do not consent to getting naked.
That's... fairly straightforward.
Like, a legit RMT consents to massaging you all over but obviously would kick you out if you asked them to get topless. Right? Well, for legit tantra massage providers, the only difference is they touch one extra part of your body. Your junk. Same deal. These aren't escorts looking to suck and fuck you (bless those escorts, how I adore the work they do!) tantric massage providers are something else entirely: Tantric providers are willing to massage you with their hands into bliss. And that's it. Just because someone's willing to do X doesn't mean it's weird to be unwilling to do Y.
Reason the Second:
For many, tantra massage is a therapeutic and/or a spiritual practice. Asking to see titties demonstrates that you don't get it. Tantra is about connecting with your own body. Distracting yourself with titties means you're leaving the experience of your own body by concentrating on their body instead of the experience they're working very hard to provide for you. By asking to see titty, you're rejecting the fundamental purpose of tantric massage. You're denying the intention of pure attention on your own mind/body connection by looking outwards instead of focusing inwards. You don't need to agree with their outlook but you can't deny it's a coherent philosophy and makes total sense within their spiritual paradigm.
Hope that helps!
First is consent. Second is the tantric practice itself.
Reason the First:
They consent to touching you in order to give you pleasure;
They do not consent to getting naked.
That's... fairly straightforward.
Like, a legit RMT consents to massaging you all over but obviously would kick you out if you asked them to get topless. Right? Well, for legit tantra massage providers, the only difference is they touch one extra part of your body. Your junk. Same deal. These aren't escorts looking to suck and fuck you (bless those escorts, how I adore the work they do!) tantric massage providers are something else entirely: Tantric providers are willing to massage you with their hands into bliss. And that's it. Just because someone's willing to do X doesn't mean it's weird to be unwilling to do Y.
Reason the Second:
For many, tantra massage is a therapeutic and/or a spiritual practice. Asking to see titties demonstrates that you don't get it. Tantra is about connecting with your own body. Distracting yourself with titties means you're leaving the experience of your own body by concentrating on their body instead of the experience they're working very hard to provide for you. By asking to see titty, you're rejecting the fundamental purpose of tantric massage. You're denying the intention of pure attention on your own mind/body connection by looking outwards instead of focusing inwards. You don't need to agree with their outlook but you can't deny it's a coherent philosophy and makes total sense within their spiritual paradigm.
Hope that helps!
What gets me is finding out she had a manyvids afterwards and another porn selling type of website wear she was selling pics of her tits lol. Like...come on now. A guy can't say anything about your tits and yet your selling them online.
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And both times I saw her she was wearing a low cut top with her nipples protruding. Definitely stood out. I could see if FS or DATY was requested but just topless and she had a meltdown. She could classify herself whatever she wanted to but if she had me naked laying on her living room floor jerking me off for money she was just another sex worker. Enjoy retirement
Good point about the low cut top. Her tits were practically popping out. And the context of the situation matters. Most guys would know not to ask for extras at a legit RMT place.
But tantric massage is inherently sensual so it's not completely out of context to ask. And at a more basic level, you can politely decline someone instead of freak out at them. If the guy is being pushy and not respecting boundaries, then yes firm responses are warranted. But to go nuclear when the guy is asking for the first time is a bit much. Most guys would respect the boundary if asked.
Anyways, didn't mean to derail this thread away from the original provider in question. Good discussion though, lads!
Missed this Lila woman, perhaps a good thing!
Has anybody else seen Siobhan and confirm adam4singh's experience? Her pic is kinda cute.
Has anybody else seen Siobhan and confirm adam4singh's experience? Her pic is kinda cute.
