Every so often, I see a post where the guy has taken his favourite SP away on vacation with him. I've talked to a couple ladies about it, not in a serious way, because no way I could while still married, but just to see how they deal with it. I'm interested in hearing some experiences about it, from either ladies or gents. One lady said she only agreed to go if the guy got her a separate room. The other said they were like a couple. How do you settle on a rate for this? Do you pay for the trip and then pay for her time on a session by session basis while away? Do you pay a flat fee for services for the week and just act as if you were an actual couple? I suppose there's as many variations as there are couples doing this.
Taking an SP On A Trip
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Lots of ladies post a set amount for a weekend away..or a week...some will go as far as to state...min 8 hrs of sleep per night..or 10 or whatever. ...
I can't see some guy pounding away for an entire week let alone a weekend...but there's a few ladies I'd LOOOOOVE to try it with
I can't see some guy pounding away for an entire week let alone a weekend...but there's a few ladies I'd LOOOOOVE to try it with
I think this is a setup for disappointment, based on past threads on this and from reading a few of the ladies' menus. In the extreme cases, the guy expects to be able to f^&% whenever he wants, since he's paying huge money for the trip and the ladie's rates on top of that. He essentially thinks he's renting a loving and horny girlfriend for the duration, and thinks the price of the trip and that he's taking her to some (exotic?) location should be enough to justify him getting banged on demand, let alone the fees the lady charges. The lady expects to be on a reasonable work schedule where she gets ample time alone, a night's sleep, maybe a full day off during the trip, and as we see above, perhaps even her own room. She considers it as a business trip (which it is, of course) and sees lost income from not working at home, as opposed to a free flight and hotel that makes her want to f^#$ all week long. You're still just some customer, and she can most likely afford a week in Cuba or Mexico on her own dime, without having to bang some old dude. So, guy wants GFE, lady has boundaries.
Those are the extreme views. You might get lucky and be a guy with reasonable expectations who contracts with a lady who is happy to give a little bit more than the girl who wants her own room and 10 hours sleep a night. But if not, you may be better off offering a free trip to a randy civilian lady who won't charge you, who will share your room, who will be happy to have a free vacation (rather than see this as a work trip), and if you're really really lucky, still won't expect you to call her after you you get home!
Those are the extreme views. You might get lucky and be a guy with reasonable expectations who contracts with a lady who is happy to give a little bit more than the girl who wants her own room and 10 hours sleep a night. But if not, you may be better off offering a free trip to a randy civilian lady who won't charge you, who will share your room, who will be happy to have a free vacation (rather than see this as a work trip), and if you're really really lucky, still won't expect you to call her after you you get home!
I went away to a cottage for a weekend once. It was pretty terrific. More like a couples retreat than anything. I didn't ask for (or want) my own room, or much alone time at all. I suppose if it were for longer perhaps, but if you're taking someone away I'd hope you get along well enough to not need a lot of time off.
Interesting subject, I would say it depends on her comfort level with you and vise-versa I might note. What she accepts with one, she might not with another person.
and not every woman accepts overnighters either I might add. Again it depends how she feels around you. Don't forget, there has to be a good match for this
to happen successfully. But I would start with an overnighter and not just once and see how that goes. If it works out for both of you then you graduate to a
week long trip together. I remember bringing a stripper with me to Florida, It was a nightmare. And she wasn't even charging me for her time, we just
weren't compatible. It was a long ride coming home I tell you. We are all human, with different needs and wants!!
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I had a client want to take me on a 7 day cruise. He was going to pay for the cruise food and drinks and pay me 2000. I only did a few multi hour appointments with him so I wasn't sure about it, So I told him I can't do it and maybe another escort can go, So he asked someone else and guess what they ended up not getting along after the first 2 days, So when he got back from the cruise he booked me for a few hours and told me about the disaster wishing I would've went. I would have to see someone a long time before going on a trip with a client there has to be trust.
I was gonna take a SUPER vip with me, she wouldnt charge me directly and even offered to pay for half of her cost.. thats when she "loved me" :hand:
Even if that is a case... A couple of visits a week is very different from a week together. (that hold for regular relationships also, btw)
Very true, unless you talked on the phone every night and saw that you guys had a thing goin on
I think there are many layers to this, the separate room is more so the lady can use the bathroom in privacy (what? Ladies do not do THAT!), do her hair and makeup without being watched, and yes, to catch some sleep where she is not worrying about snoring in front of you or you snoring in front of her. From what I hear, most times the SP will still end up sleeping with you for most of the trip but it is a comfort to have that private space should she need it for those little womanly things.
Of course you should still pay her something! She is giving up work during that time, I don't mean her regular hourly wages, but work something out that you are both happy with. If you can't afford it than let it go, don't be angry with SPs for not being able to run away for a week and shirking their bills and expenses.
Of course you should still pay her something! She is giving up work during that time, I don't mean her regular hourly wages, but work something out that you are both happy with. If you can't afford it than let it go, don't be angry with SPs for not being able to run away for a week and shirking their bills and expenses.
I would be more incline to do a three day getaway, like Vegas (good deals there), or something like that. And that would have to be, with someone I'm very comfortable with and she with me.
I took an MPA to Vegas. Awful awful awful experience. We got into a verbal fight. I do not recommend. Take a buddy instead a d find chicks when you are there. Plenty there.
I took a now retired SP to Deerhurst for 5 days and it worked out really well. No issues and we had lots of laughs in and out of bed. We had good chemistry before the trip, and I still see her for the occasional meal since she retired. Even so, it was a one off and I do not think I would do it again.
If a trip together is going to work, I fully agree with the above post. I guess thats what I was alluding to.
I have taken my favorite sp away to las vegas for 3 days and it was one of the best times I ever had . I have been a regular for 3 years and she felt comfortable with me .They have to develop a trust with you because they share with you there real identity, You mush also explain what you like to see and do and must agree on the same sort of things .I paid for the trip all food and drinks and give her a 1000 and we shared the same room bed and had great sex 3 times a day .The only thing about doing one of these trips and every thing goes well is you my get attached to her.
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I guess you didn't read my post. Money or Non money is not the issue here, Its about compatibilty and respect for one another.
If your going away as a couple, for an extended periode of time, with delusional thoughts, and not really knowing the person, my suggestion is, you better think again.
For this is a recipie for disaster !
I echo what Titalian says.
I can think of two ladies where it could work. Of course we won't be in the bedroom every minute. But if you know each other and have done overnights or long dates, a trip together could be a like an adventure. I'm sure I would have more of a good time then when I was on my honey moon eons ago.
I can think of two ladies where it could work. Of course we won't be in the bedroom every minute. But if you know each other and have done overnights or long dates, a trip together could be a like an adventure. I'm sure I would have more of a good time then when I was on my honey moon eons ago.
