Taking a GF on an SP tour

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I met a pretty cool chick a couple of weeks ago. I put "GF" in this topic but that is pretty loose, we don't have a relationship, just friends plus, I am married, and she has a naive boyfriend that loves her and thinks she is pure and sweet. However, really, she is pretty open minded, and gradually, bit by bit, I have told her what a nasty person I am. She seems to like it. She likes to hear all about SP's and what goes on and she thinks it's pretty interesting overall. So I have been thinking of taking her along. I don't know that she is into chicks, I kind of doubt it, but you never know, so this is not automatically a lesbian/bi or 3some situation. She might not even get naked. I dunno, but I guess it could happen.

What I was thinking was it'd be fun taking her on a tour of various incalls, say, hit three in a night, kind of like a club crawl, and mix in dinner, a movie, or trips to bars or a club or something while I "regenerate". Make it kind of an adventure, drag her around the city to see the nasty side or whatever, start out with a nice cdn. SP early evening, EE or black later on, and ending at one of those 24hr asian incalls or something.

So one question is, anyone ever done this? How's the SP gonna react to it? I know some of them are cool with it because they'll do women. Out of the rest, they gonna get freaked out by it if she doesn't participate? If I just stick to the ones that will have sex with women I could really be limiting myself; on the other hand, I don't want any big scene.

I don't think she will want to do this as a regular thing, I think she probably just wants to see what it's like. About the most involved I expect her to get is maybe trying to learn some techniques from SP's, I would aim at visiting some that are particularly skilled. It's not a stretch to imagine her becoming an SP herself at some point after all this, but she is not one now. She's certainly open minded enough.

Any experiences? I am going to start asking SP's what their reaction would be, but I might do this as soon as a week or two, so I don't have a lot of time to ask questions.
 

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zanner69 said:
what does your wife say about all this???:D
I tried getting my wife interested in this stuff once, but she said she would rather not hear about it. That was a couple of years ago. I haven't bothered her about it since, I respect her wishes.
 

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fuji said:
I tried getting my wife interested in this stuff once, but she said she would rather not hear about it. That was a couple of years ago. I haven't bothered her about it since, I respect her wishes.
Funny I respect her wishes too. Thanks for being so busy;)
 

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zanner69 said:
what does your wife say about all this???:D
She doesnt mind at all, it gives her and I more time together.

oh and fuji did I see you call a female a "woman" in that thread? are you starting to respect women now? you old softy you.
 

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fuji said:
I have a lot of respect for chicks.
That whole bird flu thing has you worried?
 

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zanner69 said:
listen I don't know you - its your life - you do what you choose - but why stay married?
Marriage isn't all about sex you know. Life may be, but a relationship isn't. I wouldn't go to an SP for a loving relationship, and I wouldn't turn to my wife for a sex tour of Toronto.
 

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Well, being as how your "gf" is going to be there, if she participates in the least I'd say the sp would call this a duo and there'd be an up charge.....I'd stick with indies as they will most likely be more flexible....ie: if your gf just watches then decides to join in, there might not be an upcharge....
 

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Im sure alot of people here have an SO and thats all well and good but you really dont hear alot of them so blatantly talking about how they are screwing around on them and making fools of their spouses like you fuji. Its pretty much about discretion respect i guess...lol did i just say that? But i mean it
 

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I don't why so many on this board are "offended" by Fuji's posts. He's just being honest with himself, and as honest as possible with his wife. Just because other people don't share their experiences, doesn't mean they treat their SO's any better.
 

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mmouse said:
I don't why so many on this board are "offended" by Fuji's posts. He's just being honest with himself, and as honest as possible with his wife. Just because other people don't share their experiences, doesn't mean they don't treat their SO's any better.

Its obvious that Fiji is the only married Terbite .... (sic) :rolleyes:
 

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It's funny when guys on terb have a bigger problem with my activities than my own wife does. Am I on the right board? I feel like I accidentally posted my sex crawl inquiry on a bible study forum or something.

Anyway, back on topic: I went out with this chick and gently brought the conversation around to this topic. I got her talking about how her BF took her to a SC once and it was pretty exciting for her to see what goes on there. She said she wanted me to take her to one, and I asked her if she'd want to get a dance from a hot chick. She said no, it was exciting to see the guy getting teased, but she wasn't into chicks (so that answers that bit). I said I'd take her to something a bit more exciting than that, we talked about MPA's and SP's a bit, but I didn't lay out any specific plan because by then I had her out of her clothes and playing stripper on my lap, and I decided I had better things to do than talk.

Anyway, I see her about once a week, so I could potentially do this either sometime late next week, or the week after. That means I've got another couple of days or so to figure out a plan. One of the things I'm still tossing around is exactly what I should set up--a bunch of short sessions with different SP's, or one long one with a single SP. I kind of want her to see how things are different, and I don't want her to get jealous which I'm afraid she might (a little anyway) if I spend too much time boinking one woman in front her, so I think the sex crawl is a better plan.

Thoughts?
 

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problem I have is that fuji's wife doesnt know he's a self proclaimed womanizing slimeball and he comes on here puposefully making her look like a fool. Of couse many terbites are in relationships with other women but they dont come here filling their threads with the fact that his wife is at home while hes out fillandering. Just my personal thoughts. To each their own, carry on
 

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Mojo, I have never made my wife look like a fool. I am pretty sure she has cheated on me too at some point, but I don't know, because I don't check into her private business. She certainly knows I have something going so it wouldn't surprise me a bit if she "equalized" it somehow. Why don't you go back to the bible study forum and give me a break. My opinion? Everybody cheats. I am just a bit more honest about it than you are. Maybe you are not in a relationship now, but when you are in one, I bet at least once, you'll cheat. So will your wife/GF/SO. The difference between you and me is that you probably will have a life crisis over it, while I'll be out having fun with the chicks.
 
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