My opportunities to partake in the hobby are few and far between so I don't branch out much once I meet someone who is easy to book (sometimes on the same day), trustworthy, and provides consistently great service. I sometimes feel like I'm missing out on meeting new people but at this point I really value not being disappointed when I do get the opportunity to indulge.
Switching it up or sticking to the same provider?
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When I find an MA/SP that I really connect with and they provide the service I am looking for, I stick with them. For me there is a lot more than the just the physical part when spending time with MA/SP. There are the sensual, mental and emotional components as well. I think Alisonxox summed it up nicely in her response.
I still venture outside the box once in a while but many time have been disappointed.
I still venture outside the box once in a while but many time have been disappointed.
Even tho I am a very loyal regular customer who will stick to a great provider, I do worry in this day and age of references, I may box myself in a corner, and when a fave girl moves on, I won’t have any recent references from active girls, and I’m not cool with deposits for the most part. But, I’d rather enjoy the most of a good thing as long as I can, rather than roll the dice. Esp since I hobby less than 4-5 x / yr.
In my opinion, the more I see someone that I have a connection with, and just genuinely vibe with, the better.
I do understand how it can feel but if you have a good connection with the Sp’s you see then you shouldn’t worry.
In this case, I would simply suggest asking the Sp’s you have a genuine connection with, if you can become a frequent regular. 🩷
Meeting a provider that pushes your best buttons is a total rush and warrants repeat visit no doubt......but then there are so many beautiful providers out there tempting me on Twitter/LL daily I can't help myself but to visit as many as I can.....what can I say I am weak!
In the ideal world I would love to see new providers but the fact that doing so would mean having to wade through fakes, poor services, crazy up charge fees and general high probability of disappointment makes me stick to my regulars.
I prefer to see new well reviewed providers but there are some special ladies I will repeat with every now and then.
I don't do consecutive visits with the same lady because I get bored easily and also there are chances of things getting personal and catching feelings sometimes. Been there done that, not anymore
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I don't do consecutive visits with the same lady because I get bored easily and also there are chances of things getting personal and catching feelings sometimes. Been there done that, not anymore
.Always on the lookout for an SP that's into my fruit salad of perversions. Always hesitant when a key kink is missing, BBBJ being one. Found some that do some things; yet to find one that does all things that I love. Oh where are you my lovely unicorn? lol
ThisMy regulars are walking in my condo like they live here. No stress , super relax
They feel home sweet home and most of them do not wish to seek for other providers because they like the security & comfort.
Too many attractive girls out there to just stick with one. I go out of my way to change it up all the time.
I switch until a girl gives me a good deal on rates and or services. I've been with the same girl for several months now. GFE at $150 with no clock will keep me away from switching.
I usually like to see the same regular providers. But, once in a while, I like to feel a new body and I go look elsewhere.
Although I like to have that good chemistry with her, there's a reason why I don't have a GF, in real life. I can't be exclusive.
I had 4 real regulars in the last 15 years, I saw each of them more than 20 times. I stopped seeing them, each because of retirement. One came out of retirement and is currently active, but I saw her only twice since then (I don't really know why, it's like I moved on...).
Beside of that, I like to repeat, but usually after 4–5 times, I look elsewhere.
Although I like to have that good chemistry with her, there's a reason why I don't have a GF, in real life. I can't be exclusive.
I had 4 real regulars in the last 15 years, I saw each of them more than 20 times. I stopped seeing them, each because of retirement. One came out of retirement and is currently active, but I saw her only twice since then (I don't really know why, it's like I moved on...).
Beside of that, I like to repeat, but usually after 4–5 times, I look elsewhere.
I have (half jokingly) told my regular of 10 years she should make me a spare key 
