Why would anybody take a paid escort to a swingers party. i would sure hate to have to pay her and then watch her have fun with every one else on my money. My best advice is find a girlfriend who would like this lifestyle or just stay home until you find one. One thing i have noticed at different clubs its the older folks who are more secure and never jelous when they see their mate having fun . My wife and I have a saying when we feel like going to a club. "lets go do some sport fucking" we have been in this lifestyle for about 7 yrs. now and have thouroly enjoyed it, but its not for everybody.