Figure out what you want and then do some research or ask more specific questions. For example..
"I'm recently divorced after over 10+ yrs. of being married. I've never been to a strip club in my life, much less seen an SP. I'd known my ex since she and I where in HS and, frankly, have only been with one other girl since I met her. I think I'd really like to explore some things, sexually, that I've only fantisized about before. I might be a little shy so it would probably be good for me to be with an SP who would be comfortable with that..."
This should help get you started and will probably lead to more accurate advice from this board.
