Sugar Relationship 2026

[NadiaLovechanko]

Where are people finding their sugar relationships in 2026, back in my day everyone was using SA but its full of scammers on both sides...

Asking for the masses where are we looking?

 

[degen]

leolist

 

[Billking]

So many scammers

 

[Timmy0427]

I've been trying SA in addition to Secret Benefits and What's Your Price. Mostly a big waste of my time.

 

[TheShadowKnows]

Mostly LeoList, just out of curiosity and to see who is available.

However, now that I have a few MAs whom I've visited repeatedly and have developed good relationships with, I tend to stick with them. They are discreet, have impeccable hygiene (so do I), are attractive, quite interesting to talk to, offer very good massages/services and have fair rates. I feel they genuinely enjoy my company as well, therefore I don't know why I'd visit elsewhere at the present time.

 

[Kayleighwade18]

It’s sad to know SA is filled with scammers now. When I was 19-23 SA was where I had the most luck, and it was a great site.

 

[MikeO]

Mostly LeoList, just out of curiosity and to see who is available.

However, now that I have a few MAs whom I've visited repeatedly and have developed good relationships with, I tend to stick with them. They are discreet, have impeccable hygiene (so do I), are attractive, quite interesting to talk to, offer very good massages/services and have fair rates. I feel they genuinely enjoy my company as well, therefore I don't know why I'd visit elsewhere at the present time.

I echo your sentiments. It's a great formula and, after achieving a high level of mutual trust, I enjoy having them entertain me at my residence. It's very private and I no issues with an SO or nosy neighbours so I can make it more personal (choice of music, wine, and foods...gotta love them strawberries with whipped cream and the chocolate-stuffed raspberries). Why... one of them might even be reading this now.

 

[blacklabdog]

SA and SB are terrible. I rely on meeting through a regular visit (s) to first see if there's potential compatibility

 

[Theredmilf]

I genuinely don’t understand why we can’t just post what we’re looking for in regular dating apps. For example, why can’t I say I’m looking for someone with the capacity to cover my mortgage and that would free me up for a couple of dinner dates a month for a “cunning linguist” who loves great conversation? If we can be frank and say we’re just looking for a FWB, someone who is into kinky fun, or a person who is financially stable etc, i truly don't see why it's such a big deal to put our cards on the table? There's so much unnecessary stigma around offering a value exchange and yet throughout all of human history men and women have always exchanged resources in the context of unions of all kinds.

Maybe TERB should have a separate advertising section for arrangements to facilitate this?

 

[HoopyFrood]

Short answer: a small number of joyless people who have self-appointed as gatekeepers on the mainstream dating sites who religiously prowl for any accounts that step outside the usual relationship dynamic.

I'm not much for SB arrangements (but, no harm, no foul), but man, the hoops to jump thru to finding consenting adults who enjoy joining couples (the mythical 'unicorn' ) is way more complicated than it needs to be. As much as I enjoy the alternative dating sites (fetlife, etc.), they just don't have the reach of a Tinder or Hinge.

Wish more folks took the live and let live approach!

I genuinely don’t understand why we can’t just post what we’re looking for in regular dating apps. For example, why can’t I say I’m looking for someone with the capacity to cover my mortgage and that would free me up for a couple of dinner dates a month for a “cunning linguist” who loves great conversation? If we can be frank and say we’re just looking for a FWB, someone who is into kinky fun, or a person who is financially stable etc, i truly don't see why it's such a big deal to put our cards on the table? There's so much unnecessary stigma around offering a value exchange and yet throughout all of human history men and women have always exchanged resources in the context of unions of all kinds.

Maybe TERB should have a separate advertising section for arrangements to facilitate this?

 

[Theredmilf]

Short answer: a small number of joyless people who have self-appointed as gatekeepers on the mainstream dating sites who religiously prowl for any accounts that step outside the usual relationship dynamic.

I'm not much for SB arrangements (but, no harm, no foul), but man, the hoops to jump thru to finding consenting adults who enjoy joining couples (the mythical 'unicorn' ) is way more complicated than it needs to be. As much as I enjoy the alternative dating sites (fetlife, etc.), they just don't have the reach of a Tinder or Hinge.

Wish more folks took the live and let live approach!

Oh, they don’t allow that anymore on Tinder? What a shame, that’s how I had my first couple threesome. In fact, I remember there were two guys out of Montreal who used to advertise MFM together. SA has always been full grifters but on Tinder, I actually met a straight GF. dude friend I’m still pals with today,, the couple I mentioned, some pro hockey players looking to kill time during hockey camp and a Parisian model, but I digress…

 

[HoopyFrood]

@Theredmilf 's "Dear Penthouse Forum..." channel would be outstanding!

 

[NadiaLovechanko]

I genuinely don’t understand why we can’t just post what we’re looking for in regular dating apps. For example, why can’t I say I’m looking for someone with the capacity to cover my mortgage and that would free me up for a couple of dinner dates a month for a “cunning linguist” who loves great conversation? If we can be frank and say we’re just looking for a FWB, someone who is into kinky fun, or a person who is financially stable etc, i truly don't see why it's such a big deal to put our cards on the table? There's so much unnecessary stigma around offering a value exchange and yet throughout all of human history men and women have always exchanged resources in the context of unions of all kinds.

Maybe TERB should have a separate advertising section for arrangements to facilitate this?

I’ve been banned on all the apps before for simply MENTIONING my job

I would love if terb had a section for this!

 

[MikeO]

@Theredmilf 's "Dear Penthouse Forum..." channel would be outstanding!

Ha Ha... but seriously... Penthouse Forum is where this good Roamin' Cat-lick boy received his sex ed back in the 70's. No wonder my mind fantasizes every time I see a pretty lady.

 

[gf1288]

those sites usually need 800 to 1k for a single date/fuck, got to be balling to be able to use

 

[madappl3s]

I’ve been banned on all the apps before for simply MENTIONING my job

I would love if terb had a section for this!

I genuinely don’t understand why we can’t just post what we’re looking for in regular dating apps. For example, why can’t I say I’m looking for someone with the capacity to cover my mortgage and that would free me up for a couple of dinner dates a month for a “cunning linguist” who loves great conversation? If we can be frank and say we’re just looking for a FWB, someone who is into kinky fun, or a person who is financially stable etc, i truly don't see why it's such a big deal to put our cards on the table? There's so much unnecessary stigma around offering a value exchange and yet throughout all of human history men and women have always exchanged resources in the context of unions of all kinds.

Maybe TERB should have a separate advertising section for arrangements to facilitate this?

Where are people finding their sugar relationships in 2026, back in my day everyone was using SA but its full of scammers on both sides...



Asking for the masses where are we looking?

I honestly think all the various platforms got tired of handling all the reports. The general public does not understand sugar-based relationships let alone a healthy sw environment.

It's really hard to mingle with a closed minded public who get angry at people with a little bit of money to spend and those who are open-minded with their bodies.

And, I've been using SDM(sugar daddy meets) everything moves a lot slower but it's safe to speak freely in an attempt to establish expectations. It's what seeking was ten years ago but with half the user base. Probably only useful if near a major metro area.

 

[William St]

Where are people finding their sugar relationships in 2026, back in my day everyone was using SA but its full of scammers on both sides...

Asking for the masses where are we looking?

I don't even consider it. I don't want a relationship and could not afford the constant layout of $$$ anyway. If I want a regular, many women are quite amenable to that.

 

[Billking]

I honestly think all the various platforms got tired of handling all the reports. The general public does not understand sugar-based relationships let alone a healthy sw environment.

It's really hard to mingle with a closed minded public who get angry at people with a little bit of money to spend and those who are open-minded with their bodies.

And, I've been using SDM(sugar daddy meets) everything moves a lot slower but it's safe to speak freely in an attempt to establish expectations. It's what seeking was ten years ago but with half the user base. Probably only useful if near a major metro area.

What site do you use? SDM?

 

[madappl3s]

What site do you use? SDM?

I've used Seeking since 2013, but over the last year, the site has become unusable. Way too much time spent in the pre-meet phase, explaining the dynamic to new members. It was getting boring quick.



Decided to try one of the other sites and, based on Reddit feedback, chose SDM. Seems okay, but needs more members, which again, makes it similar to Seeking in that you'll need to be prepared to spend more time searching and texting before meeting someone.

I don't have time for that anymore; I need simplicity and clear boundaries right now. And a hug