HealthWhy would you care if she's seeing other people?
Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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This one I found is a real civie and i found her linkedin after some investigstive work . She talks about her work alot haha
Well you will never know for sure will you. Wrap it up and be as safe as you can. You can’t really go into the world of sex workers and expect everyone to follow a morality clause. We don’t so why should we expect the ladies to? Even in civie life as many in a relationship using said services can agree to.
Agreed, if you want exclusivity, find a virgin and get married.
Loyalty always comes with a price, even in the SW industry. It’s called an exclusive arrangement. A companion or SB who is well taken care of(including extremely well paid) usually won’t feel the need to look elsewhere for extra. Sometimes, exclusive arrangements even have better outcomes than marriage contracts lol.
I think that is a major oversimplification. A companion has a great deal of overhead, costs she must incur that have to be subtracted from her bottom line. Very simply, It costs a great deal more more out of pocket to be a companion. A SB, whatever her allowance, takes home pure profit. To compare “hourly rates” just doesn’t work that neatly. Also, a companion takes on much more risk as her profession here in the States is illegal. A SB has no legal risk. Also, many SDs supplement an SBs allowance with gifts and experiences that definitely add value. Yes, some companions get gifts and experiences, but they tend to come from regular, multi-hour clients. Companions who see primarily one hour clients tend not to have these same level of benefits.Can someone explain to me the difference between a sb and a companion, other than being lower paid and spending longer hours as a sb?
Based on my experience I remember having over 10 sd and being selective as I’m still doing as a companion. Ahahahah
Also, it is much easier to become a SB than a companion. No website to set up, no ads to buy, no real admin work handling client questions and requests. You make it seem like SBs are somehow foolish or are being taken advantage of. No…it is simply another form of sw and a way for a woman to supplement her income as a consenting adult
I don’t think an SB who works out an arrangement that works for her is “being taken advantage of.” She might choose not to become a companion and simply want the easier, less risky route of being an SB
I take it you gone raw and it’s a risk to take
They are low mileage so chances are unlikely but never know.
Had one Sb insist on doing Std test to verify for both our safety.
I agree that professional companions develop the skill of screening. But…most successful companions begin their careers with agencies. They spend what can be years exploring sw sharing 50% or more of the revenue. No one would say that top agencies are taking advantage of a woman as they provide many valuable services for their fee. I guess my point is that the road to becoming a successful, independent companion is not an easy one and can explain why a woman would choose to become an SB. Comparing companions to SBs based on hourly rate is just not an accurate comparison…they are so very different
Some have a hybrid method. SW (say you have a day job. Create civie persona) and have SDs to supplement as a combined source of income. Some days they may just want to chill with someone they are not turned off by completely and still bring in some money.
Lower lip stud seems fashionable .... smh ( plus dermal(s), cum brellas, sleeve tats )
No no I only do covered sex but not covered bj.
its still risky i know. I am thinking to ask my potential SB to take a health test. But will see.
How do they SCREEN for health? If its a random guy who got her number from her site or lisitng?
Is Seeking still the absolute meta for this, or are people actually finding good luck freestyling these days?
All great suggestions/things to do
I think I am done trying this segment for this reason
My goal is to check if they are "normal" enough to hang out with, I find them attractive/chemistry. But keep in mind, most of these girls have issues and are not gf material
I have had some good experiences but almost everyone of them have come with some kind of drama attached.
Maybe I just ended up finding/choosing those women but I am just not prepared to keep trying.
I tried this for a couple months too and was always comparing it to what I know is available from Escorts. Essentially I like I assume a lot of guys are looking to get some variation of more for less.
I chatted with a lot of girls and ultimately met with 2:
-One was a young college student, 21 I believe who does this on the side while in school. She was very forward and direct, offered PPM and didn't ask for a second meet, just said "lmk if you want to meet again"
It was $500 plus I had to grab a hotel, we had great sex, chatted for a while. Altogether 3 hours, cost me $650. I could have gotten the same or similar with an SP, but the allure of someone new was exciting and it was exciting to meet someone who was not an escort (although I would call her an Escort-lite or Escort in training). I could tell she wasn't a pro because her boundaries were different.
-2nd one was more interesting. A bit older, closer to my age which was nice. Mid 30's I believe. We chatted and she said she was ultimately looking for an arrangement but was willing to start with PPM.
We had a nice chat and I treated her nice, didn't ask for nudes, didn't get explicit day one. She mentioned how I "deserved and award" which tells me most guys are dogs on there.
Anyways my patience was rewarded nicely. The next day she sent me a tasteful nude, which led to some flirting, which led to 2-3 days of some of the filthiest dirty talk I've ever engaged in while we waited for our date to arrive.
She sent nudes, told me all the things she wanted me to do to her, and let me tell you this girl had very little boundaries. In fact she hit one of my boundaries, but I never hit one of hers.
We met and had really hot sex. Probably some of the hottest, sleaziest, crappy motel sex that I've ever had in my life.
Problem is I felt like she was actually digging me as a potential partner. Kept gushing how she felt like a schoolgirl etc
As stated above, some of these girls have rough lives and this one was no exception. She came across as sweet on text but was loud and brash in person, kept talking over me etc
Safe to say the post nut clarity was strong on that one. But still that sex though....
But ultimately the reason I stopped is because I realized that I like the clarity of SPs. There's no confusion on what it is
With the SBs I felt a bit conflicted. It's almost an adversarial relationship. The girls are almost all hoping for ongoing relationships, whereas I (and a lot of guys) only want to PPM and/or treat them like a new pool of escorts
I don't want to lie to anyone about what my intentions are, I'd rather just be upfront
If money was no object or if I was planning on staying in transactional relationships for longer, I might stay active and meet the odd girl who is perfect for me. It is exciting no doubt and provides a little of the "thrill if the chase" that you get in real dating but not in SPs.
I chatted with a lot of girls and ultimately met with 2:
-One was a young college student, 21 I believe who does this on the side while in school. She was very forward and direct, offered PPM and didn't ask for a second meet, just said "lmk if you want to meet again"
It was $500 plus I had to grab a hotel, we had great sex, chatted for a while. Altogether 3 hours, cost me $650. I could have gotten the same or similar with an SP, but the allure of someone new was exciting and it was exciting to meet someone who was not an escort (although I would call her an Escort-lite or Escort in training). I could tell she wasn't a pro because her boundaries were different.
-2nd one was more interesting. A bit older, closer to my age which was nice. Mid 30's I believe. We chatted and she said she was ultimately looking for an arrangement but was willing to start with PPM.
We had a nice chat and I treated her nice, didn't ask for nudes, didn't get explicit day one. She mentioned how I "deserved and award" which tells me most guys are dogs on there.
Anyways my patience was rewarded nicely. The next day she sent me a tasteful nude, which led to some flirting, which led to 2-3 days of some of the filthiest dirty talk I've ever engaged in while we waited for our date to arrive.
She sent nudes, told me all the things she wanted me to do to her, and let me tell you this girl had very little boundaries. In fact she hit one of my boundaries, but I never hit one of hers.
We met and had really hot sex. Probably some of the hottest, sleaziest, crappy motel sex that I've ever had in my life.
Problem is I felt like she was actually digging me as a potential partner. Kept gushing how she felt like a schoolgirl etc
As stated above, some of these girls have rough lives and this one was no exception. She came across as sweet on text but was loud and brash in person, kept talking over me etc
Safe to say the post nut clarity was strong on that one. But still that sex though....
But ultimately the reason I stopped is because I realized that I like the clarity of SPs. There's no confusion on what it is
With the SBs I felt a bit conflicted. It's almost an adversarial relationship. The girls are almost all hoping for ongoing relationships, whereas I (and a lot of guys) only want to PPM and/or treat them like a new pool of escorts
I don't want to lie to anyone about what my intentions are, I'd rather just be upfront
If money was no object or if I was planning on staying in transactional relationships for longer, I might stay active and meet the odd girl who is perfect for me. It is exciting no doubt and provides a little of the "thrill if the chase" that you get in real dating but not in SPs.
