I'd assume she's seeing multiple guys. These girls ain't loyal and realistically, they're only "yours" when you're paying to hang out.
Looking for a "loyal" SB is peak delusion imo, but you can find some gems and sweet ones out there
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Looking for a "loyal" SB is peak delusion imo, but you can find some gems and sweet ones out there
At that point you are crossing the line from SB to full on mistress if you want a level of exclusivity. And thats where only high rollers can play
How would you know? And honestly it’s not your concern what they do outside of you. Just go with the knowledge that yes they probably are and will say no when asked. It’s just another hustle. Most are escorts saying they are new to this and pokey the game of innocent ‘ I’m new to this’ blah blah blah. Like any form of SW it’s a fantasy they are selling with the element of exclusivity.
HealthWhy would you care if she's seeing other people?
This one I found is a real civie and i found her linkedin after some investigstive work . She talks about her work alot haha
Well you will never know for sure will you. Wrap it up and be as safe as you can. You can’t really go into the world of sex workers and expect everyone to follow a morality clause. We don’t so why should we expect the ladies to? Even in civie life as many in a relationship using said services can agree to.
Agreed, if you want exclusivity, find a virgin and get married.
Loyalty always comes with a price, even in the SW industry. It’s called an exclusive arrangement. A companion or SB who is well taken care of(including extremely well paid) usually won’t feel the need to look elsewhere for extra. Sometimes, exclusive arrangements even have better outcomes than marriage contracts lol.
I think that is a major oversimplification. A companion has a great deal of overhead, costs she must incur that have to be subtracted from her bottom line. Very simply, It costs a great deal more more out of pocket to be a companion. A SB, whatever her allowance, takes home pure profit. To compare “hourly rates” just doesn’t work that neatly. Also, a companion takes on much more risk as her profession here in the States is illegal. A SB has no legal risk. Also, many SDs supplement an SBs allowance with gifts and experiences that definitely add value. Yes, some companions get gifts and experiences, but they tend to come from regular, multi-hour clients. Companions who see primarily one hour clients tend not to have these same level of benefits.Can someone explain to me the difference between a sb and a companion, other than being lower paid and spending longer hours as a sb?
Based on my experience I remember having over 10 sd and being selective as I’m still doing as a companion. Ahahahah
Also, it is much easier to become a SB than a companion. No website to set up, no ads to buy, no real admin work handling client questions and requests. You make it seem like SBs are somehow foolish or are being taken advantage of. No…it is simply another form of sw and a way for a woman to supplement her income as a consenting adult
I don’t think an SB who works out an arrangement that works for her is “being taken advantage of.” She might choose not to become a companion and simply want the easier, less risky route of being an SB
I take it you gone raw and it’s a risk to take
They are low mileage so chances are unlikely but never know.
Had one Sb insist on doing Std test to verify for both our safety.
Professional companions ( I said professional companions) are usually very good at screening lol, not always SBs. A lot of companions actually transitioned from SB to companion work, and honestly that’s part of the reason why. I feel like men should sometimes learn to think like women to understand certain things. Sometimes the answer is literally right in front of you.
I agree that professional companions develop the skill of screening. But…most successful companions begin their careers with agencies. They spend what can be years exploring sw sharing 50% or more of the revenue. No one would say that top agencies are taking advantage of a woman as they provide many valuable services for their fee. I guess my point is that the road to becoming a successful, independent companion is not an easy one and can explain why a woman would choose to become an SB. Comparing companions to SBs based on hourly rate is just not an accurate comparison…they are so very different
Some have a hybrid method. SW (say you have a day job. Create civie persona) and have SDs to supplement as a combined source of income. Some days they may just want to chill with someone they are not turned off by completely and still bring in some money.
This is prostitution in the digital age now !
No no I only do covered sex but not covered bj.
its still risky i know. I am thinking to ask my potential SB to take a health test. But will see.
How do they SCREEN for health? If its a random guy who got her number from her site or lisitng?
