Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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I never have - never had to because I can tell but if I ever meet someone who in person seems really young I will for sure ask to see ID!
And if underage... I'm 100% outta there.
And if underage... I'm 100% outta there.
True I mean I wouldn't pay 500 for a first meet either. Sb's understand that as well unless there trying to scam you. My first dates usually involve taking the girl out for coffee and then a mini shopping date where I might spend $100-$200 on her buying her something that she likes.
I had one ask for 300 for the first few dates (yes plural) and no intimacy and another ask for 600 for the first meet and no intimacy.
Obviously neither worked out.
It’s never been an issue, I’m into younger women but not that young. If she gives the wrong vibe then I’m outta there. It’s also a good idea to chat about life before you even meet. It gets a conversation going and some trust established and you can get some clues. Is she a university student? yeah, second year of a fine arts degree? Over 18.
To be fair it's not really the norm. Pretty much everyone understands what's fair and what's not.
I can also see how some guys would actually be fine with that, particularly if you're quite wealthy it really isn't anything outrageous.... and no doubt some guys get off on being able to do that, so then everyone's happy. I think the weird one is when girls go on there and they say online only or platonic. But once again, some guys might be into that and all the power to the girls to get paid without getting laid. As long as everyone is happy and healthy that's all that really matters.
Agreed, whatever floats your boat as long as you’ve got the money I guess. Personally I want to get wet if I’m gonna go near the ocean.
I chatted with one girl for quite a while who was quite open about her kinks and and those of the guys she’d seen over the years. One guy was totally into findom. “Wtf is that“? I asked naively. He paid her, she strung him along, even insulted him, and he paid her handsomely. They never touched each other. I will never understand some guys kinks, mo money mo problems I guess.
I don't know if this whole thread is fake... oraybe its my search criteria of 28-45 year olds...but I've tried the one who sponsers several times over the past 5 years or so and 70% of the profiles are fake. They send messages that make no sense and you have to pay to read them. Multiple multiple profiles pop up as new, yet I recognize them from when I first signed on... I've recognized 3-4 sp's that I know that all either denied ever having set up accounts, or said they'd deleted them years prior... so the host is clearly reusing old accounts and spamming guys to get them to cash in their credits. There's even a noticeable change in frequency depending on your credits... last year I went so far as to change my profile picture and rewrite it to a vertically challenged unemployed chainsmoking alcoholic and the likes and private pictures thst require payments went thru the roof... probably having spent thousands I've only connected with 4-5 girls, 2 were posting 20 year old photos of themselves, 2 were professional SP's and 1 was a crazy recently single mom of 4.... to each their own, but to me it makes more sense to try and build a fun pay as you go relationship with a professional SP so everyone knows where they stand right from the start.
The one who’s a sponsor here is noting but a scam IMHO. Pay for credits, use credits for every fucking thing, get a message and your reply seconds later is never read. Most profiles I’m sure are BS, but the odd real girl is in there just to keep you spending the fucking credits. I also noticed that when your credits got low (and most guys have said screw this never again) you’ll actually get a reply or two. I think what happens is your message goes to the top of a real girl‘s inbox when you get low, then once you’ve paid for some more credits, back to the bottom you go sucker. I have actually met one real girl from there but it was a pure fluke that she saw my message weeks after I sent it with my Snapchat contact. She reached out to me there.
I’ve had the most success with SA. You pay a flat monthly fee and contact and chat with as many girls as you can. It not cheap, but much better results in my experience.
This whole thread reads like a commercial for SB sites.
Had a similar experience a while back, these SB sites are total scams.
You sign up, your inbox gets flooded with messages even though my profile had no picture and little details,
nothing but bots messaging you to ask the stupidest questions, anything to get you to buy and spend credits.
Had a friend try to look up my profile and she couldn't find it, I couldn't find hers either.
Yes, this thread is real. I have an awesome SB and we have a great time together.
Having said that, there are a lot of scammers and time-wasters on these sites.
You have to be prepared to spend a lot of time on the site to find the gems.
On a related note, my SB and I saw each other last night and chatted about this very topic.
She said it's challenging for the women as well - they have to deal with a lot of weirdos and guys who want free stuff. She had to message and meet a lot of men before finding me. She was lucky to do so .... haha!
Having said that, there are a lot of scammers and time-wasters on these sites.
You have to be prepared to spend a lot of time on the site to find the gems.
On a related note, my SB and I saw each other last night and chatted about this very topic.
She said it's challenging for the women as well - they have to deal with a lot of weirdos and guys who want free stuff. She had to message and meet a lot of men before finding me. She was lucky to do so .... haha!
How many other men heard this line from her ??
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I’ve had similar discussions with girls I’ve seen too, their inboxes are full of messages from creepy guys and assholes and it’s a job to wade through the crap and finally find a normal guy. The hot girls on the sites get a ton of attention, like 100 messages the day they post a profile, so if she doesn’t reply within the hour don’t panic or get pissed off.
I’m 100% sure that the reason I’ve had success is because I’m polite, don‘t come off as creepy or desperate, and just communicate like a gentleman. “Hey Cindy, wanna hook up?” isn’t going to get you anywhere. I’m not a hot guy by any means, just an average joe with a bit of a dad bod creeping in. My approach is the key to success.
Another tip. The hot blonde cheerleader is going to get a message from every guy on the site with a brain cel and a hard on. But that geeky looking girl with the thick glasses and an anime fixation might just have a fucking gorgeous body under that hoodie, and be an absolute horned up tiger in the sack. She’s getting a fraction of the messages and your odds are way better. I speak from experience here
. Bonus points if shes got a tongue stud and knows how to use it the right way 
You’re not wrong. Terb is a treasure trove of deep pockets for SB. Terb is a perfect place to poach regular clients from agencies.
