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A real SB won’t get shared. They’re real civvies. They have families etc and aren’t SPs. Some might argue what they’re doing is the same as an SP but they definitely don’t have a body count even close to an SP or angle themselves that way. The real ones like a girl in college who likes a more mature guy that treats her with respect and spoils her a bit. Tons of them out there or young that are working and appreciate not just the help but the interaction is great too. Different than a set time with an SP it’s way more real and fluid, especially sleep overs.
SBs can and do cheat on their underwriter as do married women . Often they give themselves to their lover for free .
 
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It's nice finding ones who want less than $200 and they are perfectly fine with you crashing the night too. I've met about 3 like that and 2 were BBWs. They put out a few times throughout the night craving some cock and we'd smoke up and order pizza. Good times. I might get back into that game later this year.
 

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You asked for someone to share their known SB. He said no then gave an explanation that said essentially "if she's a real SB, she won't let herself be shared. So if someone shares an SB with you, she isn't an SB"

It was basically a wordy "no" to your request.
Yeah that’s basically it. It’s fair to share experience of an SP and identify them but a regular girl being a temporary SB isn’t fair. She’s not a pro. Many are 19-30 and need a bit of extra cash and will connect only if they’re attracted to you as well (from my experience). An SP will pretty much put up with getting smashed by anyone unless otherwise noted in their profile. And they’ll do it multiple times in a work day with different guys. SBs don’t. At least from my experience anyways.
 
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It's nice finding ones who want less than $200 and they are perfectly fine with you crashing the night too. I've met about 3 like that and 2 were BBWs. They put out a few times throughout the night craving some cock and we'd smoke up and order pizza. Good times. I might get back into that game later this year.
Hell yeah! Talk and smash all night it’s no different than dating. And for someone married like I am, it’s exciting and new each time. Dozens from small and a bit chubby to tall and hot model. Everything in between. Elite athlete 20 year olds, facially 6 MILFs with kinda a dumpy body to semi fit to extremely fit. So many that are just as wanting to smash as us guys. And just as importantly the huge range of great conversation and connection to “what the hell I can’t wait to get her out of here”
 
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You asked for someone to share their known SB. He said no then gave an explanation that said essentially "if she's a real SB, she won't let herself be shared. So if someone shares an SB with you, she isn't an SB"

It was basically a wordy "no" to your request.
I’m talking about sharing her profile on Seeking and I’d contact her through there to see if she’s interested just as I’d contact anyone else.
Not planning to mention anything about here.
Not asking about contact info or anything like that.
 
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Hell yeah! Talk and smash all night it’s no different than dating. And for someone married like I am, it’s exciting and new each time. Dozens from small and a bit chubby to tall and hot model.
Your wife must be ok with your sugaring. I can't imagine how you can be married and hide dozens of SB's over years from your SO
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Decided to give it a try.
Day 1 had someone who proposed PPM later that evening after just a few nessages. No pretense or anything. Wanted $450 without hosting. Maybe a 6 or 7
Also had another girl ask for a fee just to meet and stated “no intimacy on the first date”
Day 2 had another girl ask for $1,000 🤣 and she wasn’t even that hot. Again a 6 or 7. Don’t even know if the sex would be any good.
I declined. No way I’m paying that. I can get an SP for 3 or 4 hours for that or a high end SP for 2 hours.
Actually you could get a sp for two hours if you’re going outcall route
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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For me. Other men might enjoy it but the price and service doesn't add up especially if she's a 6. A high end escort would be more worth it. I require DFK & BBBJCIM so if it's not an option from a SB then meh.

I'd rather give a 8/10 or higher SP who wants less than 200 for HH offering a good size menu plus we do nice cuddling and that's more than enough for me.
This isn’t even a guarantee from all sp for bbbj and cim. Also you’re asking a lot for under half an hour!
 

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Yeah that’s basically it. It’s fair to share experience of an SP and identify them but a regular girl being a temporary SB isn’t fair. She’s not a pro. Many are 19-30 and need a bit of extra cash and will connect only if they’re attracted to you as well (from my experience). An SP will pretty much put up with getting smashed by anyone unless otherwise noted in their profile. And they’ll do it multiple times in a work day with different guys. SBs don’t. At least from my experience anyways.
Sugar babies become sugar babes eventually
 

FunInToronto2023

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Your wife must be ok with your sugaring. I can't imagine how you can be married and hide dozens of SB's over years from your SO
She doesn’t know about it and my behaviour has been really horrible. I’m a secret sex addict. All you really need to pull of this kind of behaviour is a couple of hours here and there and if you’re away on business or she is away it can be done pretty easily. It creates mental health issues for sure though and the ability to be attracted to your partner becomes extremely difficult. I don’t recommend but am stuck at this point.
 
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She doesn’t know about it and my behaviour has been really horrible. I’m a secret sex addict. All you really need to pull of this kind of behaviour is a couple of hours here and there and if you’re away on business or she is away it can be done pretty easily. It creates mental health issues for sure though and the ability to be attracted to your partner becomes extremely difficult. I don’t recommend but am stuck at this point.
Exactly the same scenario for me
 
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On Benefits you can upload pics to the secret pictures album so you give access to which ladies you want to see the pictures then can revoke the access too. Some ladies do that too so the entire pic is blurred to the general public. Most ladies aren't blurring all their pics.
 
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