My rule of thumb has always been if she wants to meet right away without a meet and greet she's either an escort or sketchy.
In general an escort who's using a sugar site as a form of advertising isn't interested in a M&G without getting paid.
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In general an escort who's using a sugar site as a form of advertising isn't interested in a M&G without getting paid.
I feel some might be if they are planning an end game and are willing to invest in future profit. I have seen ladies that I know are escorts playing off as regular civie girls in order to lock in their ‘men with money’ rosters years ago on seeking. Don’t fool yourself they play both sides nicely knowing what is expected as coming off as a SB
sb sd its just labels
the whole thing is about money
anyone pretending otherwise is lying to themselves
the whole thing is about money
anyone pretending otherwise is lying to themselves
No question. It is all sex work, and it's all about the $$. No illusions.
However those of us who dabble in the sugar world, and have the time and patience, know that the experience can be quite different with the right SB. Thats the allure for me.
i hear you
the illusion is nice when the chemistry is right
but we all know what pays the bills
The odd times I've hooked up with a SB it was to fuck the first hangout unless it was some meet and greet that I didn't have to pay for her time.
The ones I encountered (which wasn't that many) we fooled around the first hangout. I guess you could say I treated it more like a SP type situation including watching movies and more.
We both mutually agreed prior to the first hangout of course. Communication is def key. I don't start a transaction until I know certain things.
The ones I encountered (which wasn't that many) we fooled around the first hangout. I guess you could say I treated it more like a SP type situation including watching movies and more.
We both mutually agreed prior to the first hangout of course. Communication is def key. I don't start a transaction until I know certain things.
I've been dabbling in Sugar relationships now for about 15/16 years now, back when I just had to post on Craigslist to find girls. So I've really seen all the changes over time and yes, the prices for the sites now are crazy.
Seekings rebrand to not allowing any Sugar talk is such a pain in the ass, having to talk in code constantly. Sadly it's still the best source for girls though. Outside of that, I've had luck with Secret Benefits, but you have to be really smart about who you choose to message (mostly only girls with verification videos) and not reply to people messaging you directly (all bots).
The absolute peak of Sugaring (IMO) was 2016 - 2021, especially during and right after COVID. Girls were desperate to make some money and bored out of their minds.
These days the numbers on the sites are waaaay down compared to the hay day... I blame all these Millenial Dads spending time with their daughters and being good role models
No more Daddy issues damn it!Heyday for me was from '06-12. Back in the early days of Seeking and even on POF. Most of my SBs back then would be happy with a nice meal and maybe an outfit, at max a brown or two would provide a night to remember.
Also way more 18-21 year old girls back then. These days I'm seeing mostly 25-30 with young ones just kinda peppered in with their pick of the SD litter.
Even compared to 3-4 years ago when I started the SB scene seems kinda dead so I can't imagine how amazing it was in mid 2000-2010s. The demographic is kinda weird like you said. I see some photos/profiles where I question who should be paying who
And you pay $150usd for the pleasure of finding that out
The last time I went on a search (May) between Seeking and SB it ended up costing me like $350 for the search alone.
