I've been curious about this but damn..I get bad head from very popular sps. Appreciate this trinket of information..
Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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Hey Virtus3,
You seem like a pretty reasonable guy. I'll just give you my opinion on your situation.
In my experience, Seeking is still the best sugaring site. I know people complain about it but there are still gems there.
I think having 0 unhidden pictures might be hurting you. These girls are being HOUNDED on these sites with dozens of messages a day. If they can't even see what you look like they might just ignore. I'd say put a few on there. Toronto is a big city, and the only one seeing the pics are sugar babies. Worst case scenario and someone finds out, just say that a friend of yours put the profile up as a prank.
There's no getting around that there is a LOT of nonsense in the sugar world. Flakes, scammers, you name it. The girls have to deal with even more of it than we do. And even if you find a good candidate, either of you can pull the plug on the arrangement at any moment, so the odds of having a fantastic SB relationship for years is quite low. One night stands or short term arrangements seem far more common.
An escort could be a good option. You'd have to be ok with not being exclusive (obviously) and you'd be on a ticking clock when you saw her. But I've found seeing an escort multiple times you can sometimes develop a friends with benefits kind of feel.
Be discerning. Only agree to do meet and greet if she really seems to have potential. If you're unsure you can always do a zoom call.
It's not easy. Be patient and enjoy the variety if you can. New girls join these sites every damn day.
You're doing fine. The sugar relationships are about you, the SD. You need to partake when convenient for you and your work schedule. 30 M&G's in a year is a lot. Every other week you are having a date, which as a supplement to normal dating is great. However, if you are not "dating", e..g married, then you want your M&G to lead right after (same day) to intimacy.
For me, 98% of M&G end up the same day with sex. Once I met someone because I wanted to meet first and told her if we hit it off the next meeting includes intimacy. That relationship lasted off and on for a few years, still there if I wanted, but don't. I use seeking, but i'm sure they are all similar. Personally, seeking works well for me.
It sounds like you’re making out decently well on the sugar site but keep in mind how messed up a site like that is at the same time. If you’re not married then maybe if you find a girl like the one that you met up with for 4 months maybe take her on a week long vacation somewhere? It’s like dating in the real world trying to find a temporary unicorn. Many many girls want a relationship long term for good reason so that they can settle down as well, unless they’re also sex addicts. SPs are a very temporary fix I’ve found, no different than most SBs.
If you find an SB that’s a student then that’s probably the most ideal situation. They’re getting more educated and into a more worldly guy with life experience. Birkin bag girls yes there’s some of them but I’ve found there’s tons that aren’t into that stuff as well.
Hey everyone, I've used seeking on and off for a bit with middling success. I want to give it another go, but the membership keeps going up. I remember getting discounts previously when starting up again. Now there's no place for promo codes or anything. Does anyone have any insight on this?
Yeah, they got rid of the discount, unfortunately. You can still sign up for free to view profiles and see if there are girls on there you like. Then sign up. When you go to cancel your subscription after a month, they will offer you a discount to stay. That's the only 'deal' I'm aware of right now.
