Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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Good luck finding PPM below $300.
The normal asking is $500-$1,000
There are lots of pros there that start off offering to host at $600 + with little pretense of being a SB
Beware the ones who want big bucks for a first M&G
If you’re good looking and in great shape there are tons of girls that are good to meet for 4-5 hours or even overnight for $500 (some I’ve been with for a lot less). Best time I’ve found getting a five star hotel, getting room service and FS and cuddling all night with showers and morning fun for that amount is a total win/win where they feel special, pampered and make them finish multiple times. Just like dating actually
That sounds nice but if I were good looking and in great shape, couldn't I just get laid for free on any of the dating/hookup apps?
Do you have a face pic on your profile? I've never put one because I'm worried that my kids or work colleagues might see a screenshot one day, but this makes me wonder how much I'm missing out on. If you don't have a pic on your profile, when/how do you share one?
Exactly what I was going to say !
Or you could pick up at any club on any day.
Also just re reading the post. He says $500 plus 5 star hotel, room service etc. So what's that a grand all in?
I mean I totally get the appeal of finding a hot young "civvie" (let's agree to use the term loosely here) and having a night of passion.
But that's a bit rich.
Nope, for the reasons you stated.
I have one I share once I’m communicating with a girl and it looks promising. I know its a trade off, and I might get more interest if I had a face pic on the public profile, but anything more isn’t worth the risk. TBH most girls understand this, as many assume the guys they’re going to meet are married.
I find Seeking to be the best forum to meet legit sb's and ppm. I tried the Reddit Sugarlifestyleforum, etc al. the problem is Reddit girls want an allowance before you have even seen them! They are delusional asking for $5K before even meeting and then immiedielty after offering $500 "sorry, we are not a match, good luck." They also have no business sense! I was tempted with s cute Chinese girl univesity student who wanted $1K ppm. I said no because she admitted it was a game that she wants someone to say she is worth $1K for a fuck. That attitude didn't sit right with me. TBH, I paid $1,200 a few times for an amazing looking French Canadian who shared her social media, sexy pics, smart, hot and she had a legit job. She was in her dirty 30's a real MILF, too bad she just wasn't great in bed. $500 is where SB's need to be if hot, upfront who they are etc.
That sounds very reasonable - thanks. Is the pic you share when things look promising a private pic you uploaded on seeking (or similar site)?
I try to use SnapChat for communication off the sugar site. (most girls in the age range I’m into have it) Again it sounds a bit paranoid but I like that the pic can be seen and then disappear.
Again sounds like a great approach. Did you do the selfie verification on the site? Also, if a girl does not have Snapchat, do you just tell her it won’t work out and move on?
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Telegram, Whatsapp, Instagram, twitter. People generally have at least one
Quick story time and a cautionary tale for anyone thinking about the Sugar world.
I’ve been on Seeking for quite a while. Before the current verification requirements the pic specifications were much looser thankfully.
Snap is useful because pics disappear but not a deal breaker. Another form of text like communication is ok (use your pooner phone to text, Whatsapp, signal etc…) My first rule however is to see her face before I send a pic of mine. I was always careful that the pic can't come back to haunt me later, but that's not the #1 reason.
The first month I got on Seeking I was chatting with a girl who’s profile was pretty new, she seemed fun and responsive and all looked promising. The next day I saw that she’d added some pics to her profile and I knew her!!! She was a high school friend of my daughter FFS!!! After my heart beat returned to normal and I stopped shitting myself I knew what a bullet I’d just dodged.
Thats when I set up a Snapchat account and got much more careful about how and when I shared my face. I also stopped messaging girls in the age range of my kids.
