Has anyone been in this type of relationship? Any advice for starting one? Ie setting up rules, amounts, time spent etc...
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i've been in one. pros : predictable cost, better access to the lady, not beating around the bush. cons : it's all about the $$ and inevitable she gets the bright idea to hit you up for more - marriage, more bucks, et al... but while it lasts it's great fun. just think of it like having a lawyer on retainer instead of per hour. you pay the same overall, but you feel better about it
Been there, Doing that
Have had two, long-term sugar friends: 6 and 2 years. NEVER put anything in a letter or contract form: as your lawyer, I advise against it.
A sugar arrangement is as good as the lady is honest. I search a long time before committing. I go away on week-ends - paid for but at far less than escort rates [wink wink] - to kind of see how it goes. I've done many of those as the ladies put their backs into that time, believe me.
I like the arrangement but never let it get maudlin. You do become friends as you can't carry on without some friendship/feelings. Keep them in perspective.
Muse
Have had two, long-term sugar friends: 6 and 2 years. NEVER put anything in a letter or contract form: as your lawyer, I advise against it.
A sugar arrangement is as good as the lady is honest. I search a long time before committing. I go away on week-ends - paid for but at far less than escort rates [wink wink] - to kind of see how it goes. I've done many of those as the ladies put their backs into that time, believe me.
I like the arrangement but never let it get maudlin. You do become friends as you can't carry on without some friendship/feelings. Keep them in perspective.
Muse
I wouldn't want to put it in writing. Giving cash gifts is legal. If you want to end the relationship, stop giving the gifts. If she wants to end it, she can stop seeing you/taking your calls. If she doesn't honour the original agreement, doesn't see you as per your deal, sees other guys if she agreed not to, etc you do have recourse - it is to stop giving her money and stop seeing her.
The only reason to have a legal agreement is to get some other legal body to enforce it. Are you going to sue her in court for seeing another guy when you're paying her to see only you as a violation of the contract? LOL - double LOL if you get a female judge.
The only reason to have a legal agreement is to get some other legal body to enforce it. Are you going to sue her in court for seeing another guy when you're paying her to see only you as a violation of the contract? LOL - double LOL if you get a female judge.
For me the whole attraction is finding someone who has NOT been in this industry. There are chicka's out there who would never, ever work as escorts because of the volume of people who would eventually recognize them, but who will do the sugar thing discretely with one guy (or a small #).
I am not too bothered by the exclusive thing either though I would be bothered by escort volumes in a sugar relationship.
Whether it's cheaper or more expensive than the escort alternative seems to vary a LOT from woman to woman. Some are way more. Some are way less.
I am not too bothered by the exclusive thing either though I would be bothered by escort volumes in a sugar relationship.
Whether it's cheaper or more expensive than the escort alternative seems to vary a LOT from woman to woman. Some are way more. Some are way less.
MrIncredible said:Has anyone been in this type of relationship? Any advice for starting one? Ie setting up rules, amounts, time spent etc...
PM if needed.
Cheers
Never been in one, but I think it goes like this;
1) Get as much sex as you want, upon request, saying no is not an option
in return.....
2) Provide your girl with enough $$ to take care of the necessities of life
jimmyt said:Never been in one, but I think it goes like this;
1) Get as much sex as you want, upon request, saying no is not an option
in return.....
2) Provide your girl with enough $$ to take care of the necessities of life
True, but be aware that "necessities of life" covers a wide rabge of
things for some of these honeys.
