Sugar bear...I too think of the cereal...then my mind goes to huggy bear...which takes us to starsky and hutch lol...
Don't spend a single brain cell on reality tv. However, I think Autumn-desilva's actual point was a really good question - about admission of experimentation...how many guys may have had a gay experience that they have not admitted? I only knew one guy who told me that back in the mid 80's out at some remote military outpost...occassionally a guy would hj another, in exchange for getting one back. Keeping in mind it was the 80's...Ill be honest it did make me see him just a little different, and not for the better. But only a little..and with time I actually respected the fact he trusted me enough to tell me that and like him better for it. Like a lotta things in life, ya gotta go all atticus finch on this and to not cast aspersions about someone else '...until you climb into his skin and walk around in it". Hey, as long as you don't spook the horses....
