strap-ons
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Supposedly, according to sexTV, this is becoming more and more popular among couples etc. I can understand it as the anus has a tremendous amount of nerve endings.
IMHO tho this is not something I would personally enjoy. After about 3 colonoscopies, and other exams, this part of my body is "exit only".
Now, watching or being a part of, a woman doing another woman, that is a whole new ballgame!!! YEEEHAWWW
As for pointers I would assume it would be the same as a man doing a woman anally:
1) lube, LOTS of lube, you can't have enough LUBE (did I mention lube?) The anus doesn't produce ANY natural lubricant so without additional support........
2) patience, you can't just push your way in like getting on a crowded subway
3) Don't pull out all the way, the worst part is the re-entry
4) did I mention lots of lube?
5) if he' or she's a newbie, don't buy that 14" 3" diameter strap on. WHile a woman's vagina is meant to expand to allow the passing of a babie's head, the anus ISN"T (unless one eats a LOT of mexican food first!! LOL)
IMHO tho this is not something I would personally enjoy. After about 3 colonoscopies, and other exams, this part of my body is "exit only".
Now, watching or being a part of, a woman doing another woman, that is a whole new ballgame!!! YEEEHAWWW
As for pointers I would assume it would be the same as a man doing a woman anally:
1) lube, LOTS of lube, you can't have enough LUBE (did I mention lube?) The anus doesn't produce ANY natural lubricant so without additional support........
2) patience, you can't just push your way in like getting on a crowded subway
3) Don't pull out all the way, the worst part is the re-entry
4) did I mention lots of lube?
5) if he' or she's a newbie, don't buy that 14" 3" diameter strap on. WHile a woman's vagina is meant to expand to allow the passing of a babie's head, the anus ISN"T (unless one eats a LOT of mexican food first!! LOL)
If you are comfortable with your sexuality...
Why not? It gives you a whole new perspective on yourself and your partner.
But you have to be careful since your standard strap-on dildo attachment is rather large and designed for a woman's vagina. If you are a rookie or if this is not a regular activity, something considerably smaller (dildo or smooth vibrator) should be used initially.
Why not? It gives you a whole new perspective on yourself and your partner.
But you have to be careful since your standard strap-on dildo attachment is rather large and designed for a woman's vagina. If you are a rookie or if this is not a regular activity, something considerably smaller (dildo or smooth vibrator) should be used initially.
i agree with shredder, i would suggest that u first get really relaxed maybee wearing it prioir to your appointment to get the feel of it, make sure that u have lots of lube on had. Start of by fingering him first to loosen him up then slowly insert the strap on, go very slow at first and ask him how it feels. then i would bang the shit out of him, just like i would want to get fucked,
Have fun and let us know how it goes.
Good luck!
Have fun and let us know how it goes.
Good luck!
I have seen strap-ons in stores that have a harness that comes with attachments that will stimulate the woman's genitals (and optionally anus) when she's using it on her partner. It sounds like it could be a win-win proposition.
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this is a fabulous and intense feeling and no its not gay...assuming its a woman your doing it with, word of warning, choose a girl, sp. whateer whos experienced and enjoys this, otherwise its gonna be damn painfull.
daynna of cuteandkinky.com is one of the best, a true master...oops mistress of the art, if you can ever get hold of her..haha
this is a fabulous and intense feeling and no its not gay...assuming its a woman your doing it with, word of warning, choose a girl, sp. whateer whos experienced and enjoys this, otherwise its gonna be damn painfull.
daynna of cuteandkinky.com is one of the best, a true master...oops mistress of the art, if you can ever get hold of her..haha
I much prefer
to use my hands. I find it much more intimate (with a direct connection and feeback) and I have considerably more control (giving rise to fewer bad jabs).
As I’ve mentioned before, this is the source of the male multiple orgasm. It takes a little pracitce, so go slow. It should NEVER hurt.
Good For Her ( www.GoodForHer.com ) offers workshops on anal play and the use of a strap-on. In addition, there are a myriad of really good books and videos. (Bend Over Boyfriend is highly recommended). Good For Her will point you in the right direction.
Since this topic continues to pop up, here are some good resources FYI.
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/analrule.html Ten Rules of Anal Sex
http://www.fetishclub.com/exchange/analsex01.shtml Anal Sex 101
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html Advanced Anal Sex Techniques
http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm Extensive FAQ organized into subcategories written by the author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2246.html Massaging the Prostate (and other links)
http://www.touchsensual.com/resources_male_gspot.htm More on Prostate Massage
http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/strapons.asp Guide to Strap-Ons and dildoes
http://www.dildoguides.com Sex toy guide. Check out the dildoe and anal sex sections
** Happy, happy, happy, LeatherDoll smiles with glee.
Once again she struts to the box of blue vinyl gloves and grabs a pair. She tugs one on with a slight SSNNNAAAPP!
"Finally, ...." ****
to use my hands. I find it much more intimate (with a direct connection and feeback) and I have considerably more control (giving rise to fewer bad jabs).
As I’ve mentioned before, this is the source of the male multiple orgasm. It takes a little pracitce, so go slow. It should NEVER hurt.
Good For Her ( www.GoodForHer.com ) offers workshops on anal play and the use of a strap-on. In addition, there are a myriad of really good books and videos. (Bend Over Boyfriend is highly recommended). Good For Her will point you in the right direction.
Since this topic continues to pop up, here are some good resources FYI.
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/analrule.html Ten Rules of Anal Sex
http://www.fetishclub.com/exchange/analsex01.shtml Anal Sex 101
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html Advanced Anal Sex Techniques
http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm Extensive FAQ organized into subcategories written by the author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2246.html Massaging the Prostate (and other links)
http://www.touchsensual.com/resources_male_gspot.htm More on Prostate Massage
http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/strapons.asp Guide to Strap-Ons and dildoes
http://www.dildoguides.com Sex toy guide. Check out the dildoe and anal sex sections
** Happy, happy, happy, LeatherDoll smiles with glee.
Once again she struts to the box of blue vinyl gloves and grabs a pair. She tugs one on with a slight SSNNNAAAPP!
"Finally, ...." ****
*yelling in a faint voice from the other side of the room*
Not that there's anything wrong with it!
Not that there's anything wrong with it!
Ok..... the closest I have come to this was about a month ago.......go to the clinic for my first ever colostomy....a bit apprehensive.....do the nightgown open to the back routine .....am directed to the examination romm.....Doc comes in explains the procedure ....turns out he's not manipulating the "probe" but will moniter the camera action ...........in comes the technician/nurse ......goddess ........oh oh .......forgot the brazilian wax before hand , what will she think.......she asks me if I want drugs .....in yet another fit of male stupidity I say " who me ? Na who needs it "....... "ok turn over on your left side "......
..a little lube ....mmmm......."ok you might fell this a little bit "......wham .....OMFGX2 ........
Let me assure you there is absolutely nothing sexy or 'feel good ' about having something inanimate shoved up there . Granted the thing was longer than Peter North (by about 2 feet ) but even so......whatever miniscule temptation that ever might have crossed my mind about anything remotely associated with this was quickly dispelled .
..a little lube ....mmmm......."ok you might fell this a little bit "......wham .....OMFGX2 ........
Let me assure you there is absolutely nothing sexy or 'feel good ' about having something inanimate shoved up there . Granted the thing was longer than Peter North (by about 2 feet ) but even so......whatever miniscule temptation that ever might have crossed my mind about anything remotely associated with this was quickly dispelled .
What's good for the goose?
But we'll quickly turn around and expect the SPs to do the exact same thing we can't handle oursleves.
But we'll quickly turn around and expect the SPs to do the exact same thing we can't handle oursleves.
OUCH!
Doesn't sound enjoyable to me. Haven't had the pleasure of a colonoscopy, but Dr. Jellyfinger confirmed for me that inserting things there wasn't for me (not that I needed confirmation). I felt so used. No foreplay or a call or message the next day.
On a side note, I have to wonder though if this has ever led someone to play for the other team or at least a first step in that direction.
Doesn't sound enjoyable to me. Haven't had the pleasure of a colonoscopy, but Dr. Jellyfinger confirmed for me that inserting things there wasn't for me (not that I needed confirmation). I felt so used. No foreplay or a call or message the next day.
On a side note, I have to wonder though if this has ever led someone to play for the other team or at least a first step in that direction.
Guys, Medical Procedures are NOT sex
I hate to break it to you boys, medical procedures are not meant to be pleasurable or exciting. In fact, I think medicos deliberately make them uncomfortable so as not to be accused of inappropriate or unprofessional behaviour.
In fact, this is the reason that role play, like my Nurse Angel Payne, are fun. They cross the lines. All the more reason to use hands instead of dildoes!
Ask any woman who has ever had a pap smear how much fun they are. Do we then conclude that we don't enjoy having objects inserted into our ****s?
If you don't wish to explore, no problem, but don't make a conclusion based on an experience that was never meant to be sexualized.
I hate to break it to you boys, medical procedures are not meant to be pleasurable or exciting. In fact, I think medicos deliberately make them uncomfortable so as not to be accused of inappropriate or unprofessional behaviour.
In fact, this is the reason that role play, like my Nurse Angel Payne, are fun. They cross the lines. All the more reason to use hands instead of dildoes!
Ask any woman who has ever had a pap smear how much fun they are. Do we then conclude that we don't enjoy having objects inserted into our ****s?
If you don't wish to explore, no problem, but don't make a conclusion based on an experience that was never meant to be sexualized.
