Still Turned On?

goalie000

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So I've been seeing this Lady for over 18 months first as an Sp and now as my GF, and she still turns me on whenever we're together, not even doing anything provocative, lol. She's the one for me I guess!!
The question is, does your SO still get you reved up at all or are those feelings gone and hobbying is it for you?
Funny I don't see anywhere where it says anything about paying.
 
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how can she be your gf if you are still paying for sex? Im confused how she can be your sp and gf at the same time. But to answer your original question NO, Im too fickle to be turned on by the same person for too long. Its a curse..and a blessing
 
yes i know exactly what the OP means there was maybe 2 or 3 men in my life that could do that to me as well
 
So I've been seeing this Lady for over 18 months first as an Sp and now as my GF, and she still turns me on whenever we're together, not even doing anything provocative, lol. She's the one for me I guess!!
The question is, does your SO still get you reved up at all or are those feelings gone and hobbying is it for you?

Marry her. Then, in a year or so let us know how hot the sex is. Then have a kid or two, and give us another report.

Brings to mind the "penny in the jar" story. Goes something like this:

Put a penny in a jar each time you make love with your SO before you get married. Then, after you're married, take a penny out of the jar each time you make love. You'll never empty the jar!
 
You're a lucky guy, I'm glad your girlfriend still turns you on.
Have you moved in together? If not, that might be the reason and it could be a good way to keep the relationship hot.
 
I love that penny line. Never heard that one yet. So true.. Well we need to take out 10 pennies every time we visit a sp. See if we can catch up then. Course we will be broke. But what a way to go broke with a smile.
 
Goalie, so are you allowed to see other sp.'s now that's she's switched to gf status?
 
how can she be your gf if you are still paying for sex? Im confused how she can be your sp and gf at the same time. But to answer your original question NO, Im too fickle to be turned on by the same person for too long. Its a curse..and a blessing

So I've been seeing this Lady for over 18 months first as an Sp and now as my GF, and she still turns me on whenever we're together, not even doing anything provocative, lol. She's the one for me I guess!!
The question is, does your SO still get you reved up at all or are those feelings gone and hobbying is it for you?

so he was paying but now gets the cookie for free
 
Marry her. Then, in a year or so let us know how hot the sex is. Then have a kid or two, and give us another report.

Brings to mind the "penny in the jar" story. Goes something like this:

Put a penny in a jar each time you make love with your SO before you get married. Then, after you're married, take a penny out of the jar each time you make love. You'll never empty the jar!

Cute but it's not always so. Mind you, I had 20+ years to tip the scales versus 3 years. Number 2 is about even to date and we've got a few more years to tip the scales again.
Luck maybe, skill/talant, definitely.

Ooow! I just hurt myself patting myself on the back, sorry.
 
so he was paying but now gets the cookie for free

his original post didnt say "FIRST" in it. He has since edited it and now makes more sense to me. Well a little bit more but not much ;)
 
So I've been seeing this Lady for over 18 months first as an Sp and now as my GF, and she still turns me on whenever we're together, not even doing anything provocative, lol. She's the one for me I guess!!
The question is, does your SO still get you reved up at all or are those feelings gone and hobbying is it for you?
Funny I don't see anywhere where it says anything about paying.

Goalie,

I envy you. Good luck my friend. Hope the trend persists!

My SO revs me up often but not always. Often is better than never though so I keep at it. I would think that 99% of you would find my SO to be very attractive as well but that doesn't seem to have much of an effect on my lustful variety seeking mind.
 
I don't want to sound too cynical, but another common quotation comes to mind:

"For every female you see walking down the street, who's so stunning and hot you can't believe it, and a little adrenalin rush starts tingling in your spine, there's some guy who's tired of f*cking her!"

Variety truly is the Spice Of Life.
 
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Hey, let's not throw cold water on the dude's happiness!

Goalie000, with all the sincerity I've got I truly hope it goes well for you and your special lady. Keep the haters out of the equation. If you've found someone that makes you happy, that's reason for celebration.
 
Hey, let's not throw cold water on the dude's happiness!

Goalie000, with all the sincerity I've got I truly hope it goes well for you and your special lady. Keep the haters out of the equation. If you've found someone that makes you happy, that's reason for celebration.

That's true. In looking back at my posts in this thread I can see where the "hater" label might fit.

I have seen lots of marriages amongst my friends in my lifetime, and there are a few couples that I would truly consider to have happy and mutually rewarding relationships, that have stood the test of time. They have managed to stay at least friends, if not friends & lovers, with mutual compatabilty and respect. If you can find that, you are indeed fortunate. Unfortunately, myself included, most couples I have known do not enjoy such a relationship past the first few years.

Goalie000, by all means go for it if you honestly feel you can be one of the lucky ones.
 
Hey, let's not throw cold water on the dude's happiness!

Goalie000, with all the sincerity I've got I truly hope it goes well for you and your special lady. Keep the haters out of the equation. If you've found someone that makes you happy, that's reason for celebration.

i'll second that!