SP's Wanting Personal Information

[Jimmy C]

So I have been in contact (pictures, many PM's and emails) with an indy SP trying to set something up over the last couple of months. She has been reviewed (well) before and has agreed to get together provided I give up my FULL NAME and a contact number (that part seems reasonable).

Something just doesn't sit quite right with me about this. Maybe I am paranoid but I can't understand the name request given that I initially responded to something she posted here and ones history is visible and easily researched.

Thoughts?

 

[Jimmy C]

I have to agree. Its a shame though since the person that saw her is a tremendously reliable source.

 

[wop]

Ask her for her full name, heck why not her home address too?...so much for an anonymous NSA tryst.
SHEEESH!

 

[smylee52]

Not worth it...move on Jimmy! Do NOT throw the dice!

What he said . If her inhouse security precautions aren't sufficient then she needs to look at that and not be putting your identity at risk . Having said that the fact is its her game and her rules so I would suggest you find another game .

 

[fuji]

Make up a name. How will she know? She going to check your ID?

Your cell phone sends some kind of ID string but if you ask nicely you can get the phone company to change it so that it is not your name.

Having done that make up a name.

 

[Jimmy C]

I understand your side, but what I have posted is the other side.

Thank you for the insight. I knew I could rely on a bunch of good answers here to chew on.

 

[drstrangelove]

Not sure what the big deal is when most SPs advertise they won't answer blocked phone calls. That means they'll see your phone number and name if they have call display. And exactly what are they going to do with this information, blackmail you for seeing them?

 

[papasmerf]

I don't think it is unreasonable to ask her for the same info. After all discretion is the name of the game not records.

 

[tboy]

As stated, your full or partial name should appear whenever you call her anyhow.

In addition: what's the big deal? One can't do too much with just a name. Now if she was asking for your Driver's Licence Number (like some do), home address (which is needed for an outcall service), SIN, DOB etc. then yeah, that's too much.

Give her your name, or don't and see someone else. Don't be a drama queen.

 

[The Houdini]

As stated, your full or partial name should appear whenever you call her anyhow.

In addition: what's the big deal? One can't do too much with just a name. Now if she was asking for your Driver's Licence Number (like some do), home address (which is needed for an outcall service), SIN, DOB etc. then yeah, that's too much.

Give her your name, or don't and see someone else. Don't be a drama queen.

I've been on here long enough, and never heard of an sp requesting a Terbite's full name. I don't think the OP is a drama queen at all.

Just tell the sp you're not comfortable with that and move on. Soooo many fish in the sea.

That's why I rarely see Indie's, too much baggage...

 

[tboy]

Sorry, you'll have to read or view more ads by indy's because it isn't that uncommon. I mean, if you call from your home or non-edited cellphone she has it already right?

As for your second line: you're right, just move on if you're not comfortable with it, why come on here and ask for justification? Either the OP finds it odd or not, he doesn't need us to tell him that.....

 

[great bear]

In the United States it is a very common practice to know the clients actual name, and phone number. In Toronto it is not a common practice.

 

[Mia.Colpa]

In the United States it is a very common practice to know the clients actual name, and phone number. In Toronto it is not a common practice.

Exactly!! We have it much better in this hobby in Toronto with respect to providing personal info.

As has been said by many posters on this thread, it's the lady's business, if she wants certain info or operates her busines in a certain way because it makes her feel safe and secure, why argue with her, don't challenge her, she has her reasons. If you don't like it and find it unreasonable, there are other ladies that run their business differently and maybe to your liking, so move on and let the lady be.