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Yeah, the incel attitude is complicated and often contradictory. These sorts of guys tend to be extremely narcissistic and shallow, but at the same time very insecure and have self-esteem issues. Many incels, in my experience, could probably get a girlfriend if they fixed their shitty attitudes, but the problem is that their standards tend to be sky-high. They don’t want a nice, sweet, average looking girl. They want, and believe that they DESERVE a 10/10 nymphomaniac whose mouth is firmly attached to their cock 24 hours a day, yet who is also, paradoxically, a pure, virginal girl. They absolutely refuse to budge in their sky-high standards because their inflated sense of self-worth won’t allow them to accept anything less.
Of course, this leads to constant rejection and a lack of validation of their believed self-worth. They think they deserve nothing but the best and are confused and angered when they don’t get it. Incels wouldn’t see sex workers because A. they believe only absolute losers pay for sex and already feel inadequate enough given their inability to get sex in the first place, and B. they believe that sex workers are all filthy, diseased streetwalkers and refuse to “sully” themselves by sleeping with them.
It’s really quite fascinating, the mixture of delusion, entitlement, and inadequacy that exists within the incel community. These are guys who hate themselves yet do all sorts of mental gymnastics to convince themselves that they’re kings amongst men (Elliot Rodger referred to himself as “the supreme gentleman”) and are entitled to only the best that life has to offer. They’re incredibly vain, selfish people who just can’t understand why life isn’t throwing infinite blowjobs at them. It’s sad, but also kind of entertaining to behold.
Of course, this leads to constant rejection and a lack of validation of their believed self-worth. They think they deserve nothing but the best and are confused and angered when they don’t get it. Incels wouldn’t see sex workers because A. they believe only absolute losers pay for sex and already feel inadequate enough given their inability to get sex in the first place, and B. they believe that sex workers are all filthy, diseased streetwalkers and refuse to “sully” themselves by sleeping with them.
It’s really quite fascinating, the mixture of delusion, entitlement, and inadequacy that exists within the incel community. These are guys who hate themselves yet do all sorts of mental gymnastics to convince themselves that they’re kings amongst men (Elliot Rodger referred to himself as “the supreme gentleman”) and are entitled to only the best that life has to offer. They’re incredibly vain, selfish people who just can’t understand why life isn’t throwing infinite blowjobs at them. It’s sad, but also kind of entertaining to behold.
Have you ever met any incels or read any incel forums? These are not marginalized people, these are delusional, misogynistic idiots who are the cause of their own problems. They are not victims except perhaps of themselves. I have absolutely no sympathy for them.
He is trolling you. Don't play into it.
This is his reverse commentary to the continued PC Mulsim/Terrorist debate.
I used the same to point out valid hypocritical behaviour between what some people do offensively to the Muslim community vrs what those who advocate for the Muslim community, equally do offensively to the mental health community. He is using that very valid argument here in a mockery fashion.
It's not trolling, simply pointing out the inconsistency of some people's thinking
I second that nomination.
Ladies, there's probably a few maniacs who enjoy beating girls to death (like Joffrey from GOT). Any volunteers to help some messed up brothers out? Any ladies enjoy being defecated on? Jeez, how many other bad suggestions can be made?
Sorry but I disagree. Her response, same as all the other ladies on here, are totally correct.
From what little I know, an incel is upset because he thinks he's entitled to sex and has been rejected. And as one person pointed out elsewhere, we don't know if they are limiting themselves to DDG women instead of considering women around them that are GND and (sorry) not playboy models. There are many available women and plenty of avenues for meeting them if one has fair and reasonable expectations.
But any man who feels he is entitled to sex is IMO a short step away from a potential sex offender.
if they wanted to pay for sex and just get it over with and at least get some semblance of what it's like to be with a real woman, they wouldn't be incels. i'm sure there have been many sex workers who have converted would-be lifelong incels into "regular men"
Seems like you are inferring that all regular men pay for sex and that is "regular" ?
Yair kkelso we have awesome doughnuts then the sugar high gets us all goofy...remember our last meeting ? You had us rolling on the floor with your incel impressions....lol
Obviously these men need some psychological help, but all of the SPs that are commenting on this should know that they’ve probably had many of them as clients in the past and will continue to have many of them as clients in the future. They just don’t know who they are.
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I didn't know what an incel was until ive read this thread and I must say If I didn't partake in this hobby, I definitely would have been an incel and a frustrated one.
I got rejected over 50 times this year so far. I do the approaching, I initiate conversation, display my interest and I get turned down after building the confidence to ask them out on a date and that's where the frustration comes in. I was unable to get to know beautiful women that I have desired on a personal level because of this and i was frustrated. I also grew envious towards men who are dating women who are physically my type because I was doing everything that I can to date those kinds of women yet they were all rejecting me which I felt it was something that was not under my control.
I'm so grateful that I got to meet beautiful women who are exactly my type in this industry. I don't have to deal with the complications of meeting civilians on a personal level anymore. I've also realized how much power money has when I'm out hobbying.
I got rejected over 50 times this year so far. I do the approaching, I initiate conversation, display my interest and I get turned down after building the confidence to ask them out on a date and that's where the frustration comes in. I was unable to get to know beautiful women that I have desired on a personal level because of this and i was frustrated. I also grew envious towards men who are dating women who are physically my type because I was doing everything that I can to date those kinds of women yet they were all rejecting me which I felt it was something that was not under my control.
I'm so grateful that I got to meet beautiful women who are exactly my type in this industry. I don't have to deal with the complications of meeting civilians on a personal level anymore. I've also realized how much power money has when I'm out hobbying.
I am actually really truly rolling on the floor and laughing my ass off!!
That said, I agree that it is no SP's job to "fix" these poor tortured souls. To me it seems like most incels suffer from a particular form of mental illness, and probably require professional psychiatric treatment to overcome their problems, if they are only able to realize and accept that.
I'm an old coot now, but even as a young man I was never "Brad Pitt", or even close. (Mind you I don't envy Brad now at all given what he's going through with Angelina re their ongoing divorce battles.) I got rejected lots of times in our first meetings by attractive girls/women, but interestingly, with those who were sufficiently attracted to me to give me a couple of dates and get to know me, I was quite successful. The point being there is more than looks involved in females being attracted to men. However if a guy is not only physically unattractive but also has a totally off-putting personality, I can see where he would have a lot of frustration.
Btw I agree with veryshy 2 that probably there are lots of female incels, given the way men are far worse than the ladies in judging the opposite sex on the basis of their appearance alone. I'm probably sticking my neck out way too far by speculating, but I'm guessing that male-rejected ladies tend to internalize rather than externalize their frustration, and sometimes turn to other women for the love and comfort they can't get from the opposite sex. Whereas a gay relationship is most probably an unacceptable alternative for an Incel male.
That's a red flag my friend IMO. You should never be so frustrated that you don't want to deal with non SP women. Slippery slope.
I've read her response numerous times and can't figure out how it was disrespectful or insincere. I think maybe you took it the wrong way....
If anything, your own response seems to lump married men into the cubby hole of being "broken".
I've read her response numerous times and can't figure out how it was disrespectful or insincere. I think maybe you took it the wrong way....
If anything, your own response seems to lump married men into the cubby hole of being "broken".
That and men are victimized by women because "sex is being sold on every street corner, on every newspaper and magazine page, on a ton of television and other commercials." LOL
I don't quite agree. Some of us just know that "coupling" type relationship is not for us. I am good with being an escort and never personally dating. I don't want to date personally. I just don't want to deal with bad that comes with dating when I can only have the good when seeing regulars. Admittly, I tailor my escorting to be more like dating then pump and dump sessions, but that is why it works. I can see clients for years, and again feel like I have all the good of "dating" with none of the bad.
So while it can be a slippery slope in some ways, it can actually be very freeing in others.
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