good advice!Keep that mentality. Sorry that you've ran into providers whose personal insecurities interfere with your hobby. Steer clear of those kind of people. Has drama written all over it.
PS - your website looks very classy, I like
good advice!Keep that mentality. Sorry that you've ran into providers whose personal insecurities interfere with your hobby. Steer clear of those kind of people. Has drama written all over it.
thank you! I put 25+ hours into it lol. These kinda comments make me happier than someone saying they like my tits lolgood advice!
PS - your website looks very classy, I like
Ha Ha - they are nice btwthank you! I put 25+ hours into it lol. These kinda comments make me happier than someone saying they like my tits lol
I'm surprised by this story - isn't it polite to talk to the SP before you use them as a reference? That's the standard I follow in hobby and in business.I have not experience jealously due to emotional attachment but I did come across one lady who was pissed about the money spent elsewhere.
I did a reference check with a SP out here in Durham. I start all my inquiries the same. "Hi, my name is Jessica, an escort in the area. I was hoping to confirm a client with you who used you as a reference".
She replied politely and warm with a "Hi, nice to hear from you. Sure, would love to help, what's the name?"
As soon as I gave her the name and number the client provided - dead silence. Lol No more response.
I found out from the client that she was pissed to say the least. I didn't understand it. We are hookers. We don't call dibs. That is for wives.
Funny enough, I had to use the client as a reference for his friend because we didn't want to ask her again, but I was always curious if it was just that one client or if she has a few she would be pissed about. Like his friend.
Depends on the girl. I have no qualms being used as a reference without being asked beforehand. Other ladies have other rules.I'm surprised by this story - isn't it polite to talk to the SP before you use them as a reference? That's the standard I follow in hobby and in business.
Ha ha. I figured you out he he.Ha. You've told me this story in person and I didn't get jealous
Interesting. She's marked her territory.I haven't had that. I did do a duo with a regular and her bestie-in-the-biz once many years ago, where the bestie disappeared as soon as the sex was over and left the regular and I to chat. It seemed a "turf" thing that the girls had arranged beforehand. I "belonged" to Girl #1 and the friend was there to spice up the sex, but was not to chat with me or get to know me afterwards.
You should read my subsequent account here. Luckily, I had extra funds and came up with more money to settle with the one who stayed in the room with me for the finale, cuz her 'friend' had both envelopes.WTF!!!! Never seen or heard anything of the sort before... duos are all about the client enjoying his time in a fantasy come true. That's ridiculous.
In my case, I was a regular, and my regular invited her real friend to join in our session (her friend was also an MPA there). It got pretty hot. Without saying much, my regular's friend and I had that "oh this is nice and new" and "geez, I've always wondered how it would feel to do you" moment. I think I got a slap in the face, and then a punch in my chest. I was flabbergasted. I reminded her that I paid for the duo, even though I still liked my regular. She allowed the duo to happen.I find some MPAs more likely to get jealous than SPs. Maybe it's just the environment of many girls working in one spa vs. at most 3-4 at an incall apartment. With walk-in clients at a spa, the girls are literally being compared against each other in a lineup. Sometimes it also makes a difference if the girls are just besties-in-the-business vs. best friends in their personal lives.
Wow! Who would have thought that ant SP had the gull to think they had dibs on their customers?!? Go back and see her and let her know all the things the other girl lets you do! Maybe she'll become more self aware!?!Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.
This is so weird to me lolI haven't had that. I did do a duo with a regular and her bestie-in-the-biz once many years ago, where the bestie disappeared as soon as the sex was over and left the regular and I to chat. It seemed a "turf" thing that the girls had arranged beforehand. I "belonged" to Girl #1 and the friend was there to spice up the sex, but was not to chat with me or get to know me afterwards.
Yes they do. It's crazy but some of them do get jealous and it doesn't make sense to me. I thought the point of this is to get your needs met without commitment? She does not hold sole rights over my P any more than I hold sole rights over her V outside our appointment. If they want something more exclusive and financially beneficial wouldn't some sort of arrangement fit their needs better?Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.
Fuck you haven't lived until you've had one infiltrate your personal life in an attempt to have you all for yourself.Yes they do. It's crazy but some of them do get jealous and it doesn't make sense to me. I thought the point of this is to get your needs met without commitment? She does not hold sole rights over my P any more than I hold sole rights over her V outside our appointment. If they want something more exclusive and financially beneficial wouldn't some sort of arrangement fit their needs better?
You're very fortunate! First hint of drama I suggest run and don't look back. If you ignore the signs it only gets worse.Reading this thread makes me so glad I've avoided any drama with the ladies I see regularly.
Now THAT shit is scary.Fuck you haven't lived until you've had one infiltrate your personal life in an attempt to have you all for yourself.
There is a logical flaw in your story.I once experienced a duo with a regular and one of her friends. Her friend wound up being significantly better than her. During the experience i spent most of my time enjoying her friend. After that the quality of service with my regular went down significantly. Time to move on. Lesson learned is to let them think they are "the only one" and never speak of others.