SPs jealous?

[GPIDEAL]

Ha. You've told me this story in person and I didn't get jealous

Ha ha. I figured you out he he.

I had a duo with two mature SPs. One of them is retired now. The other is not. The retired one got pissed off when I switched to her 'friend' for a bit. She complained that I had not touched her for a while. We were both shaking our head in wonderment. She left the room for a smoke and expected us to leave by the time she got back. Don't ask me who, and if I told you that story too, please don't mention names. Thanks.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I haven't had that. I did do a duo with a regular and her bestie-in-the-biz once many years ago, where the bestie disappeared as soon as the sex was over and left the regular and I to chat. It seemed a "turf" thing that the girls had arranged beforehand. I "belonged" to Girl #1 and the friend was there to spice up the sex, but was not to chat with me or get to know me afterwards.

Interesting. She's marked her territory.

 

[GPIDEAL]

WTF!!!! Never seen or heard anything of the sort before... duos are all about the client enjoying his time in a fantasy come true. That's ridiculous.

You should read my subsequent account here. Luckily, I had extra funds and came up with more money to settle with the one who stayed in the room with me for the finale, cuz her 'friend' had both envelopes.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I find some MPAs more likely to get jealous than SPs. Maybe it's just the environment of many girls working in one spa vs. at most 3-4 at an incall apartment. With walk-in clients at a spa, the girls are literally being compared against each other in a lineup. Sometimes it also makes a difference if the girls are just besties-in-the-business vs. best friends in their personal lives.

In my case, I was a regular, and my regular invited her real friend to join in our session (her friend was also an MPA there). It got pretty hot. Without saying much, my regular's friend and I had that "oh this is nice and new" and "geez, I've always wondered how it would feel to do you" moment. I think I got a slap in the face, and then a punch in my chest. I was flabbergasted. I reminded her that I paid for the duo, even though I still liked my regular. She allowed the duo to happen.

There's been other drama since, although both do not work together anymore.

 

[faveone]

Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.

Wow! Who would have thought that ant SP had the gull to think they had dibs on their customers?!? Go back and see her and let her know all the things the other girl lets you do! Maybe she'll become more self aware!?!

Hobbyist are faithful to SP's because of the service they provide. When I find someone who ticks every box, I usually stay with the lady because I know it's a sure thing and I will walk away completely satisfied every time! Sometimes you need to change it up but you'll always go back to your stable of tried and true ladies! If they start thinking that t hey own you, then its time to say bend over baby or its asta la vista baby !!

 

[Ana Maria]

I haven't had that. I did do a duo with a regular and her bestie-in-the-biz once many years ago, where the bestie disappeared as soon as the sex was over and left the regular and I to chat. It seemed a "turf" thing that the girls had arranged beforehand. I "belonged" to Girl #1 and the friend was there to spice up the sex, but was not to chat with me or get to know me afterwards.

This is so weird to me lol

 

[J Smoove]

Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.

Yes they do. It's crazy but some of them do get jealous and it doesn't make sense to me. I thought the point of this is to get your needs met without commitment? She does not hold sole rights over my P any more than I hold sole rights over her V outside our appointment. If they want something more exclusive and financially beneficial wouldn't some sort of arrangement fit their needs better?

 

[sexghoul]

Yes they do. It's crazy but some of them do get jealous and it doesn't make sense to me. I thought the point of this is to get your needs met without commitment? She does not hold sole rights over my P any more than I hold sole rights over her V outside our appointment. If they want something more exclusive and financially beneficial wouldn't some sort of arrangement fit their needs better?

Fuck you haven't lived until you've had one infiltrate your personal life in an attempt to have you all for yourself.

 

[Kadie Lux]

Thats insane! Why would SPs be jealous of other SPs?! We all have something unique to offer, different looks etc.

That isn't right. A hobbyist has the right to choose whichever SP he would like to see without any SP feeling jealous etc. Thats so petty!!! Some people make me laugh

 

[SexB]

Reading this thread makes me so glad I've avoided any drama with the ladies I see regularly.

 

[sexghoul]

Reading this thread makes me so glad I've avoided any drama with the ladies I see regularly.

You're very fortunate! First hint of drama I suggest run and don't look back. If you ignore the signs it only gets worse.

 

[onehunglow]

I once experienced a duo with a regular and one of her friends. Her friend wound up being significantly better than her. During the experience i spent most of my time enjoying her friend. After that the quality of service with my regular went down significantly. Time to move on. Lesson learned is to let them think they are "the only one" and never speak of others.

 

[J Smoove]

Fuck you haven't lived until you've had one infiltrate your personal life in an attempt to have you all for yourself.

Now THAT shit is scary.

 

[remedy555]

I once experienced a duo with a regular and one of her friends. Her friend wound up being significantly better than her. During the experience i spent most of my time enjoying her friend. After that the quality of service with my regular went down significantly. Time to move on. Lesson learned is to let them think they are "the only one" and never speak of others.

There is a logical flaw in your story.

 

[SexB]

One girl I was seeing semi-regularly came up with a theory about who some guys go to see SPs working out of sketchbag apartment buildings and hotels; they like that there's an element of risk involved.

By that same token, this thread has me thinking that some guys keep seeing girls like that because they like that there's an element of drama involved with them.

 

[sexghoul]

Now THAT shit is scary.

You have no idea how scary this shit is. Never in a million years would I have ever saw it coming. I'm living it along with one of the more popular SP's on this site.

 

[rthrow18a]

y 2 pet peeves are those guys who never book but message constantly for attention or those that only saw me 1-2 times and don't ever ask but throw my name around for a references for half a dozen or more SPs over a year after I've seen them. If you're not pulling crap like that, hopefully everyone can keep their feelings in check and be considerate.

It's unbelievable how many disrespectful people there are out there. I cannot imagine expecting a SP to provide a reference without talking to her about it first.

Outside of this world, I've had that happen as an employer as well. It always catches me off guard, never sounds legitimate even if I try to rescue the situation, and only makes us both look bad. If I haven't been contacted in advance, my answer is now "I'm sorry, I am unprepared to provide a reference for so-and-so".

 

[sexghoul]

It's unbelievable how many disrespectful people there are out there. I cannot imagine expecting a SP to provide a reference without talking to her about it first.

Outside of this world, I've had that happen as an employer as well. It always catches me off guard, never sounds legitimate even if I try to rescue the situation, and only makes us both look bad. If I haven't been contacted in advance, my answer is now "I'm sorry, I am unprepared to provide a reference for so-and-so".

That happened to me a few weeks ago! It was definitely an awkward conversation and without any notice I was being grilled and didn't enjoy the experience at all. For those unsolicited reference checks I will reply the same we you do. Thank you for that!

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Wow! Who would have thought that ant SP had the gull to think they had dibs on their customers?!? Go back and see her and let her know all the things the other girl lets you do! Maybe she'll become more self aware!?!

Hobbyist are faithful to SP's because of the service they provide. When I find someone who ticks every box, I usually stay with the lady because I know it's a sure thing and I will walk away completely satisfied every time! Sometimes you need to change it up but you'll always go back to your stable of tried and true ladies! If they start thinking that t hey own you, then its time to say bend over baby or its asta la vista baby !!

Yes they do. It's crazy but some of them do get jealous and it doesn't make sense to me. I thought the point of this is to get your needs met without commitment? She does not hold sole rights over my P any more than I hold sole rights over her V outside our appointment. If they want something more exclusive and financially beneficial wouldn't some sort of arrangement fit their needs better?

Thats insane! Why would SPs be jealous of other SPs?! We all have something unique to offer, different looks etc.

That isn't right. A hobbyist has the right to choose whichever SP he would like to see without any SP feeling jealous etc. Thats so petty!!! Some people make me laugh

I don't even feel like seeing her again, I had seen her umpteen times to the point where she didn't even have to ask me what I like or how I like to finish off, it is very unfortunate.

 

[Ana Maria]

Y'all need to start screening your ladies the same way we screen you. The thought of workers lacking this level of professionalism and acting like teenage girls is ridiculous.

Suggestion: start screening for MATURITY in your providers. Any sign of insecurity and drama should start raising red flags. Check their websites, forum posts, Twitter etc. for signs of their behaviour (Twitter is REALLY good at showing you people's personalities). Also most important: trust your lovely ol' gut

Some people can really get stuck in 15-year-old girl insecure mentalities. I'm bummed out because one provider behaving abhorrently (breaking confidentiality to be petty, or stalking a client WTF?) looks bad on all of us.