When I have a long day at work, I usually get headaches due to work related stress. How do SPs feel about their jobs? On the one hand, I think that it has to be stressful because they have to act and make the guy happy. Further, review boards, such as TERB perhaps adds a little stress on the SPs performance. On the other hand, a causal talk and sex with a person of opposite sex is a great stress reliever. So which one is it for the SPs?
SPs how stressful is your job?
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stress for SPs
I'm sure it varies from SP to SP, and their clients. The more popular SPs have a large "regulars" list who they eventually become a little more comfortable seeing. I know one popular SP on a personal/intimate level, and she says that despite being an incredibly sexual person, she can still do without all the sex.
Why? Because, generally SPs are genuinely attracted to a small number of their clients. And think about it, do you have a great relaxing time having sex with someone you're not attracted to? You could, but it's much harder. Which is one reason why being a polite gentleman is a welcome thing to most SPs. Even if they're not attracted to a client physically, personality makes a big difference, and the encounter could be made much more relaxing and enjoyable for both sides if there's some mental chemistry, if not physical chemistry.
This one particular SP would rather go dancing and drinking and simply having fun than work every evening, but then again, we all need a break from work. And also if you're that good looking it's probably not too hard for SPs to find a good night of passionate sex... lol.
I'm sure it varies from SP to SP, and their clients. The more popular SPs have a large "regulars" list who they eventually become a little more comfortable seeing. I know one popular SP on a personal/intimate level, and she says that despite being an incredibly sexual person, she can still do without all the sex.
Why? Because, generally SPs are genuinely attracted to a small number of their clients. And think about it, do you have a great relaxing time having sex with someone you're not attracted to? You could, but it's much harder. Which is one reason why being a polite gentleman is a welcome thing to most SPs. Even if they're not attracted to a client physically, personality makes a big difference, and the encounter could be made much more relaxing and enjoyable for both sides if there's some mental chemistry, if not physical chemistry.
This one particular SP would rather go dancing and drinking and simply having fun than work every evening, but then again, we all need a break from work. And also if you're that good looking it's probably not too hard for SPs to find a good night of passionate sex... lol.
Ummm Alexa......all you have to do is send me an email or pm.Alexa Taylor said:
I have a hot tub too remember?
Actually I can confirm Alexa's busy schedule. She was just finishing her running around when we hooked up. Then she had to order food because she hadn't eaten all day. (Stop doing that! Take time and have some breakfast!) But y'know what. That was actually o.k. In my opinion it kind of added to the experience. She had a tough and busy day and so did I. Now we were going to hook up and spend some time together. To me, it made her more real. Does that make sense? I looked forward to being able to take the time and help her relax and unwind.
Just thought I'd add that in. Alexa, I'll wait for a message. French Vanilla right?
At the risk of offending two of the very few TERB SP's that routinely post insightful, balanced and enjoyable messages, hold on a minute while I tune up my violin.....
Alexa and Kiarra, I appreciate that both of you have busy days and a job that at times can be demanding. But who among us doesn't? Kids, errands, housework, chores, shopping, traffic, travel, road-rage, paying bills, shovelling snow, mowing the lawn, yard work, house repairs, car repairs, grooming, irate clients, missed deadlines, laundry, homework, business appointments, cooking, visits to the gym, taxi-ing the kids to and from the soccer field, ball diamond, school events, hockey arenas, etc, etc, etc, etc, etc......
One word sums it up....Life.
Besides, the original question was about your job. I think Big Daddy was curious about the stresses and strains you might experience due to the "unique" nature of your chosen career.
Getting out my asbestos suit now....
h4p
Alexa and Kiarra, I appreciate that both of you have busy days and a job that at times can be demanding. But who among us doesn't? Kids, errands, housework, chores, shopping, traffic, travel, road-rage, paying bills, shovelling snow, mowing the lawn, yard work, house repairs, car repairs, grooming, irate clients, missed deadlines, laundry, homework, business appointments, cooking, visits to the gym, taxi-ing the kids to and from the soccer field, ball diamond, school events, hockey arenas, etc, etc, etc, etc, etc......
One word sums it up....Life.
Besides, the original question was about your job. I think Big Daddy was curious about the stresses and strains you might experience due to the "unique" nature of your chosen career.
Getting out my asbestos suit now....
h4p
Stress
Well I think the degree of stress depends on whether the escort loves what she is doing or not! If she is doing it just for the money, I am sure there is stress involved. It is like any other job you might do but not like.
If she truly loves being an escort I think a small amount of anxiety would be associated with when meeting someone new.
Laura
Well I think the degree of stress depends on whether the escort loves what she is doing or not! If she is doing it just for the money, I am sure there is stress involved. It is like any other job you might do but not like.
If she truly loves being an escort I think a small amount of anxiety would be associated with when meeting someone new.
Laura
Done it
I have driven to Ottawa from Toronto many times and it took me 3 hrs. no problem ! Have you heard of Radar Detector ? Lol
I have driven to Ottawa from Toronto many times and it took me 3 hrs. no problem ! Have you heard of Radar Detector ? Lol
Depends who drives !
Have you heard of BMW 735I 2002 model ? I have 3 or more clocks from cell , laptop to palm when , I travel No glasses required bud! You must driving a shitbox....lolLarryL said:
Horseshit
WTF are you talking about ? You just burried yourself . Get a real job ass . No company in Ottawa has a jet for someone like you.
Company jet? from a flea market for your kids ? You must be a crook ! I did a search in your handle and you can't even pay an MP .LarryL said:
WTF are you talking about ? You just burried yourself . Get a real job ass . No company in Ottawa has a jet for someone like you.
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Massage Anyone ???
Hi Kiarra. I almost always offer the lady a massage before she offers me one.
I find it a great ice breaker, and at the same time, very sensual and relaxing. Never had a lady turn one down, in fact most are suprized that I offer.
Never really thought about it until I read your post...
TJ
Hi Kiarra. I almost always offer the lady a massage before she offers me one.
I find it a great ice breaker, and at the same time, very sensual and relaxing. Never had a lady turn one down, in fact most are suprized that I offer.
Never really thought about it until I read your post...
TJ
Kiarra:
Come on over! For you I'll even waive my usual hourly rate
Even my ex, who didn't like much else about me, loved my nightly massages...
Come on over! For you I'll even waive my usual hourly rate
Even my ex, who didn't like much else about me, loved my nightly massages...
