SP's -have U ever refused a client & Y?

[feminista]

During my first week of hookerhood I was sent on a 3 girl call. We knew in advance that we were seeing 3 brother-in-laws who were staying at their wive's family cottage.

When we arrived one of the vehicles had a bumper sticker showing support for a political lobby group that I abhor. I told the other girls that there was no way I was going to do the guy who belonged to that group.

Once inside I asked who's car had the sticker on it. Goof#1 admitted it proudly. 2 & 3 chimed in with their support. It turned out that all the brother-in-laws were politically similar.

I couldn't go thru with the call.

I have since learned to stick to pleasantries, unless I have an inkling that we share similar philosophies.

 

[Spode]

During my first week of hookerhood I was sent on a 3 girl call. We knew in advance that we were seeing 3 brother-in-laws who were staying at their wive's family cottage.

When we arrived one of the vehicles had a bumper sticker showing support for a political lobby group that I abhor. I told the other girls that there was no way I was going to do the guy who belonged to that group.

Once inside I asked who's car had the sticker on it. Goof#1 admitted it proudly. 2 & 3 chimed in with their support. It turned out that all the brother-in-laws were politically similar.

I couldn't go thru with the call.

I have since learned to stick to pleasantries, unless I have an inkling that we share similar philosophies.

Feminista,

Unless Huey, Dooey and Louie were part of NAMBLA or WAR I can't imagine what could have gotten you so pissed off.

Just wondering if you have any biases against member of the He-Man Woman Haters Club. If it makes a difference I do keep getting suspended for my blatant infractions against the principle philosophy of the organization.

PS hookerhood is funny

 

[corena]

During my first week of hookerhood I was sent on a 3 girl call. We knew in advance that we were seeing 3 brother-in-laws who were staying at their wive's family cottage.

When we arrived one of the vehicles had a bumper sticker showing support for a political lobby group that I abhor. I told the other girls that there was no way I was going to do the guy who belonged to that group.

Once inside I asked who's car had the sticker on it. Goof#1 admitted it proudly. 2 & 3 chimed in with their support. It turned out that all the brother-in-laws were politically similar.

I couldn't go thru with the call.

I have since learned to stick to pleasantries, unless I have an inkling that we share similar philosophies.

Never for such a reason....1 refused to see 2 people, one who smelled like he called me after a long hot day of dumpster diving, and once when I got to a hotel room I was called to and found 3 guys there instead of the 1 who had booked me.

Someone's political views, religious views or any other views that don't affect my life would not have stopped me unless he said something like.."hey I'm in the Taliban: you got a problem with that?"


It is a very good idea to avoid such conversations if you get this affected by someone's political stance.

 

[Svend]

It's hard enough to fake enthusiam with some people and the session wouldn't be as hot for the guys. It's probably a good thing for them you cancelled.
It would have been funny if you told them you were also into BDSM and after handcuffing them you started to thrash the hell out of them and left them to be discovered.
BTW, did the other 2 women also support you in your desire to back out or were they pissed at you for passing up good money?

 

[tboy]

Now I've heard it all! Refusing a client because of his bumper sticker? I'd really be interested in hearing whether or not you would have seen him if you HADN'T seen his bumper sticker. During the pre-coital chat, do you try and find out what your client's politcal/social/life views are? If they say anything that you don't agree with do you bail?

I mean come on, you're not marrying the guy, you're just having sex.....This just supports my theory that many women can create 1,000,000 reasons not to sleep/date/talk with a guy instead of looking for 1,000,000 reasons TO sleep/talk/date with a guy.

 

[homonger]

Interesting admission by feminista, and I guess she should be applauded for her principles. In some ways, I guess it is fortunate to have a profession where one can choose not to provide service to a potential client for whatever reason. I wish I had that option, given how many jerks, idiots, and arrogant fucks I have to deal with on my job.

 

[tboy]

Go point ho but I mean, if one of your client's was ok other than the fact they supported the fur industry or believed that ppl should be allowed to wear furs, would that stop you from dealing with them?

 

[raverboy]

...When we arrived one of the vehicles had a bumper sticker showing support for a political lobby group that I abhor...

Lemme guess... the NRA?

 

[Svend]

Ducks Unlimited?

I'm glad to see some people are still idealists even if it costs them money.

 

[feminista]

they were Xians.....just kidding.
Seriously they were very much a version of He-Man Woman Haters Club.

you guys r funny.

It was just my first week and I hadn't adapted a more tolerant mindset yet.

I had had a physical confrontation during a demonstration with a member of that group at Queen's Park a couple weeks prior. And those guys were all screwing around on their wives at the wives parent's cottage and said they were planning to divorce them and scheming how hide their incomes and assets.

In the end one of the other girls did 2 of them.

I must admit I had a hard time adapting to guys cheating. I just realised that I was not causing it and that if they didn't book me they would have booked someone else.

I have now actually done calls where the wife was in the house asleep.
What progress.

Now I can cope with most adversarial view holders. I do generally tell them how wrong they are and why. And sometimes we argue a bit but it is usually fun. Sometimes I will pinch them kind of hard at some point or some slight wrestling may ensue.

I still couldn't do a pro-death penalty guy though. But that usually doesn't come up.

 

[Spode]

they were Xians.....just kidding.
Seriously they were very much a version of He-Man Woman Haters Club.

Not sure what an Xian is but those bastards in the Muskoka chapter of the HMWHC are giving all the rest of us los...I mean members, a bad name. You should have put a used condom in one of their coats

 

[Peace4u]

Hi Feminista,
I suggest asking some questions before booking the appointment, such as 'What are your fantasies and interests?'
When they say schoolgirls, tying people up and monster trucks, just move along!
Mind you, I have had great sex with Republicans..........

I didnt even think Republicans had sex..........

 

[Svend]

Xian is Christian, you know like Xmas.

Could you do a pro death penalty guy if he stated his arguments in an intelligent and thoughtful way?
Or suppose he was really "hung"?

 

[Keebler Elf]

Any woman has the right to decide who she "provides service" to, on a payment basis or not. I don't begrudge the decision of any woman to not provide service to someone they're not comfortable with. Whatever the reason is, it doesn't really matter. If a woman doesn't want to put out, she doesn't have to - no questions asked. Hell, if you don't wanna fuck a black/asian/east indian/whatever guy that's your perogative.

Don't let people try to guilt trip you into doing something you don't want to do...

 

[feminista]

and if an SP really doesn't want to do it she won't do it well. It is best for all concerned that she not have disdain for what she is doing.
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I could do a pro-death penalty guy if he was on death row....and was "really hung".
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ewwww spode. only a HMWH could think of that.

 

[JoyfulC]

I have refused many clients over the years.

They fall into three categories:

-- Clients who are refused at the first point of contact: either they're too young, too rude/explicit, too cheap or too weird to be dealt with.

-- Clients who have attitudes that put me off.

-- Clients who I have seen before and have had problems with (shorted me on cash, screwed around with my schedule, had hygiene problems, were otherwise upleasant, etc.).

Customers should not assume they're going to et an appointment. This is an intimate business and escorts make decisions based on how comfortable they feel with someone.

..c..

 

[Kathy P]

SP's - have U ever refused a client & ^?

When I was in the business (many thousands of years ago), the one that took the cake was: "I can only stay for a half hour, not an hour, because my wife and kid are waiting outside in the car." Not exactly a mood enhancing statement.

 

[MrLuvr]

feminista, you seem to have very strong convictions, but how do you resolve your feminist views with your career as an SP?

Don't feminists have a view that sex workers are victims of male exploitation? As a feminist, how can you let yourself be exploited in such a manner?

 

[Svend]

I'd say some escorts like feminista are empowered by being involved in the trade. I doubt she is exploited at all.

 

[Eli]

I have now actually done calls where the wife was in the house asleep.

OK. That's a little creepy, but not as creepy as the guy who double parked the wife and kids for a 1/2. Suddenly lesbianism makes sense.

As far as the turning down dates because of differences in political/social views well I say all the power to you. It's your body after all and who you choose to allow near or in it is entirely your choice. Must you sacrifice all your values to make a living? God, I hope not.

"A hooker with values" it should be on a greeting card. I love it, I love it!