SPs calling you

[heavyg2]

Got a call late last nite...from last SP, I experienced!

She was wondering if I would like her to come over...

Being fairly new to posting...I'm assuming this is not common practice? I felt a little weird when I figured out who was on the line...and I can only imagine if had a SO!! This was a big turn off! Even if I had liked this SP, this would only impact my future interest negatively.

I guess that's why incalls and MPs exist!!

Thoughts?

 

[slyjohn]

Erg.

Hopefully you mentioned to her about ‘discretion’?

Unless you made a great impact on her and this was a freebee!

I would imagine my wife picking up my cell phone on this one call I would not expect.

I did have some lady dancers call me when I used to be in Montreal. Yeah, after getting drunk and leaving my business card! But I was alone back then. To which I did not care that much.

 

[outoftownguy]

This has happened to me 3 times. The first I had comapny and did the wrong # thing. She called back another time to aplogize and more than made up for her mistake. another calle once and we met for drinks and a fun evening that ended the next day.
It was quite a shock for sure, OK for a single guy but could be drastic in another situation.

 

[JimboJ]

You give out your number so that they can call you for that one 'visit' - the number you are calling is not their 'real' number, more likely a cell or pager - this is for the SP's security

i wouldnt expect to be solicited at a future date by an SP - this person should be smart enough to know that most of us likely have others in their lives who might not appreciate knowledge of us using an SP - as Slyjohn said above, this is all about 'discretion' - i for one would be outraged if this happened to me - luckily it hasnt . . . yet

 

[The Baroness]

Personally I dont think there is any reason, right nor excuse for this.
As Jimbo said, that number is to be used one time only.

 

[knight66]

Even though I am sinlge an it makes no difference to me I agee that this is wrong.
Unless I told her directly it was ok then I do not expect nor desire her to call me again. If I want to see her I will call.

 

[Astra]

I totally agree with Miranda - the number is generally for verification purposes and should only be used in the context of that appointment. Discretion is paramount, not only for clients but for SPs as well and calls should not be made indiscrimately.

Ciao
Astra

 

[twobigo]

I,m single and most of the sp,s i,ve seen know this. a couple have phoned me to say hello and probably hoping i,d bite[i did!] Actually i didnt mind,after all i,m a pushover. One lady even gave me phone sex..a nice surprise..so naturally i went to see her the next week and i gave her an extra 20$ LOL!!

 

[gordo]

Well I must agree with Alexa I have been hobbying a long time and have had a couple problems like this when I levae a number I also leave a time someone can call me until as sometimes SO takes my truck and my cell phone is in it she may answer so discretion is a must

email like Alexa said works I have hotmail and yahoo and SO does not know them very safe as long as when you get off puter you clean history and temp files if you have SO that knows puters they can find out every site you have been to also

if you have a phone in the house like mine that keeps the last 5 numbers you have dialed you have to becareful I found the phone thing out the hard way when I was asked why I was calling Quest after all thats is where I met my wife 9 years ago

But one taht sticks in my mindis an SP I had seen several times years ago so me on the local TV news a few months back and thought she would call me as she had seen me in a coulple years yes TV news my jobs entails TV interviews for the news so DISCRETION is a must

She decide to call my office as my name and company was on the screen well she left a message at my office after hours and she got explicit on how I missed you want to feel you inside me want you manhood in me things of this nature

Thank god I was first in the office the next morning as that week my secretary was on holidays and I had my brothers fiance working in the office as a replacement for 2 weeks it would not have been pretty as her and my wife are very close

SO yes DISCRETION is what it sounds like and has to be maintained

 

[Mr. K]

I think we can all agree that discretion is what is expected.

I guess that it is one of the dangers everyone faces when providing personal information. I remember hearing a few years ago about some guy out in Mississauga/Etobicoke who got into a dispute with an SP about her service. Her methods of getting even was to call his employer and advise them that he was seeing a hooker!

This is the nightmare that every client fears - that they will be outed like this by a SP who for some reason feels the need to embarrass/punish.

On the other side of the coin, I visited one of my favorite SP's the other day (she'll remain nameless because it's not germane to the story) and she told me she had received a harrassing type phone call from some woman who wanted to know if she (the SP) was "Rachel?" My SP told me that she had spoken to another SP who had also received an "irate" phone call for this woman. I'm guessing here, but I suspect that some guy either left some evidence with the name Rachel lying around. Maybe the woman found a web page in the history of the web browser or a copy of the newspaper with a number of ads circled or something.

 

[heavyg2]

So she calls again...apologizing for calling last time???

Then goes on to ask if I'm free for her to come over...I say sorry but for the qualityt of service provided last time and for the lack of discretion, I don't think its a good idea...she promises not to call again but that she's really hard up for $ and wants me to call her next day...yeah right (I love my money to honey)!! No thanks...but you know she really begged maybe......NOT!!

Lets see if she stays true to her word (not sure this would exist in her world)...

As the sand through the hourglass, this another f*&%ed up day in Ottawa!!

 

[tracey]

I aggree with Kiarra

I have a friend in mtl that does this. I tell her that if the guy wants to see you again then he will call you.
But she is hard headed and doesn't care.
It has happened already that she call a guy and his wife answered the phone, it was not a pleasent situation.
His wife left him after he came clean. But that didn't stop her she still kept on calling.
I think it's wrong.
But what about customers that call us at the wrong number. I once called a guy back from my house phone and didn't block my #. He called me back at that number I asked him not too and to only call my cell phone, but when he couldn't reach me on it he would call my house. If that isn't the worse he got my address through a reverse number check and showed up at my house. So becareful this might happen to you.

 

[Rattlesnake]

sounds like a certain ottawa escort we aren't allowed to mention on here

 

[goalie000]

How about if the SP gives you the client, her cell AND home phone number. Anything to be read into here?

 

[newinottawa]

OK, I'm really curious... which SP is the subject of this discussion?

 

[too2shy]

lol. i've had a sp return my call from teh previous night the next morning while i was at the office. i freaked. mind you i played it off calm and didnt' mention it to her.. lol.. and THEN. as i was seeing this same sp on a regular of sorts. she calls me again( and again and again) .. once right when my SO got into the car with me.. after that i decided i was beginning to live a little bit of a double life as the sp began not to charge me and started calling everyday ... oh ya.. and she was lying about her having a SO.. I walked away from it all.. but still. funny position.