SP's--Are You Lying When You Tell a Guy He is Good Looking?
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Of course they don't wanna here that, why same something like that when your buisness is pobably 60% or more repeat buisness.I am saying most guys know what they look like and we don't need our ego stroked that much.If he treats you well just say something general like"your a nice guy and it would be nice to see you again".We all know when we are given a line of BS.i dont think clients want to hear... your an ugly guy with a small cock the only reason ID EVER see you is for the cash
Good on you to understand that my post was humourous, and not an attack.Lol,actually just answering the question that was asked.
We could use some common courtesy on TERB.Compliments and common courtesy are the lubricants of human interaction.
I always get the line "Wow, your cock is so big!!!!" that's code for " I hope he leaves me a big tip." I always laugh when I read a review by a guy who makes that statement in his reviews, as if us guys really give a shit about a guy's size, lmao.Lets be frank, here is the SP dicktionary (not a spelling error)
"You are so handsome" = thx for the $250
"I want to suck your cock" = thx for the $250
"Your cock feels so good inside me"= thx for the $250
"Your cock feels so good in my ass" = thanks for the extra $50 + the $250....
It's pretty hard to believe any of what an SP says, especially when your dick is only 3" when rock hard and you're short, fat and bald, but they still say how good looking you are, lol, but then again that's what we pay for , a fantasy of what we would like to be but never will be.
I am very shy. Physically I am at best average. Out there in the real world my chances of seducing a relatively attractive woman are non-existent. My chances with an ugly living breathing woman are not that much better.
That is why I see SPs. I like feeling close to a woman, and love BJs and sex. I like being told I am handsome have a big cock, and that I am charming.
I find it hard to believe I am an exception here. Some may lie to themselves, but seriously... So of course the SPs think building up our ego is part of the job. If I believed them, I would have to believe in the Easter Bunny. He is more credible.
That is why I see SPs. I like feeling close to a woman, and love BJs and sex. I like being told I am handsome have a big cock, and that I am charming.
I find it hard to believe I am an exception here. Some may lie to themselves, but seriously... So of course the SPs think building up our ego is part of the job. If I believed them, I would have to believe in the Easter Bunny. He is more credible.
I have personally witnessed plenty of examples of men who are physically average or below-average in a relationship with attractive women. The common factor in all of these examples is that the men had self-confidence, in the way they talked, carried themselves and behaved, without necessarily being arrogant.I am very shy. Physically I am at best average. Out there in the real world my chances of seducing a relatively attractive woman are non-existent. My chances with an ugly living breathing woman are not that much better.
That is why I see SPs. I like feeling close to a woman, and love BJs and sex. I like being told I am handsome have a big cock, and that I am charming.
I find it hard to believe I am an exception here. Some may lie to themselves, but seriously... So of course the SPs think building up our ego is part of the job. If I believed them, I would have to believe in the Easter Bunny. He is more credible.
I don't mean to sound judgemental, and I could be wrong about this, but it sounds to me from your above post that you lack self-confidence as a man. After all, if you sincerely believe that you are unattractive to women out there, then that will become a self-fulfilling prophecy and you will more than likely end up alone.
Now you may be correct that many male TERB members may indeed see SPs because they may believe that their chances of being with an attractive woman are nil, and being told they are appealing stokes their egos. I wouldn't conclude that this would be the only reason, however -- some members may just enjoy a little variety, or are married and want to have a sexual experience outside of their marriage. Or there are people like myself who live a busy, hectic life and cannot really afford the time or energy to date (and dating does take time and effort), but still want to enjoy the companionship of a lovely woman, not to mention hot sex.
Of course no client would want to hear this. The point is whether it is worth it to even make any comment at all on the client's physical appearance.i dont think clients want to hear... your an ugly guy with a small cock the only reason ID EVER see you is for the cash
If an SP doesn't make an comment on a client's physical appearance, what should she say to him?Of course no client would want to hear this. The point is whether it is worth it to even make any comment at all on the client's physical appearance.
I'm not an expert on what an SP should or should not say or do. Perhaps she could engage the client in light conversation about any particular topic (i.e. what he does for work, the weather, the news, arts & music, etc.) as a way of setting the mood, depending on what the client is comfortable or willing to talk about it. Or perhaps they could just go directly to the "active" session.If an SP doesn't make an comment on a client's physical appearance, what should she say to him?
I would think that any given interaction would depend on the particular chemistry or comfort level of the SP or the client. BTW, I'm not suggesting that an SP should not compliment the client on his physical appearance (regardless of whether the compliment is honest or not); I'm just wondering if it is really necessary to say anything about his appearance at all.
Maybe the question should be asked like this. If you are a male escort and have to fuck a few lonely grannies/cougars a day, would you make any comment on their physical appearance, tell them they are still somehow attractive, and make them feel desirable?I'm not an expert on what an SP should or should not say or do. Perhaps she could engage the client in light conversation about any particular topic (i.e. what he does for work, the weather, the news, arts & music, etc.) as a way of setting the mood, depending on what the client is comfortable or willing to talk about it. Or perhaps they could just go directly to the "active" session.
I would think that any given interaction would depend on the particular chemistry or comfort level of the SP or the client. BTW, I'm not suggesting that an SP should not compliment the client on his physical appearance (regardless of whether the compliment is honest or not); I'm just wondering if it is really necessary to say anything about his appearance at all.
Lets be frank, here is the SP dicktionary (not a spelling error)
"You are so handsome" = thx for the $250
"I want to suck your cock" = thx for the $250
"Your cock feels so good inside me"= thx for the $250
"Your cock feels so good in my ass" = thanks for the extra $50 + the $250....
Let's not forgetthat's actually pretty precise
"I love the taste of you load"
"Go ahead and shoot it all over my face"
That question only rises when there is self-doubt involved
dude! look in the mirror if you are not disgusted then no doubt you are what she says
even if you are disgusted just look at the hottest women in the world and judge their choice of spouse! un-f'n-believable, its like the fairy tale beauty and the beast
dude! look in the mirror if you are not disgusted then no doubt you are what she says
even if you are disgusted just look at the hottest women in the world and judge their choice of spouse! un-f'n-believable, its like the fairy tale beauty and the beast
Purely for argument's sake, if I was a male escort, I would try my utmost to make my clients feel relaxed and desirable, preferably without making reference to their physical appearance. I say this because complimenting someone on their appearance is tricky, especially if you don't really know that individual, and it's always possible to sound insincere (and insincerity will most likely offend the other individual).Maybe the question should be asked like this. If you are a male escort and have to fuck a few lonely grannies/cougars a day, would you make any comment on their physical appearance, tell them they are still somehow attractive, and make them feel desirable?
