SP's and Facebook

[goalie000]

Ladies do you have a page on Facebook? Is it in your real name or your working name? If you were contacted by a client to be added as a friend would you allow it?
I recently discovered an SP I know while surfing Facebook, she has a page under her real name. I was thinking of making a friend request but is there any point? or would I be Intruding on her regular life?

 

[Fabulous]

Yes, you'd be intruding. One of the reasons I just removed my picture from there.

 

[sp free]

you could send her a message without adding her as a friend. Ask.

 

[goalie000]

Funny how the only female response was from swingdancer and my take was that she rejected them because they were not recent visitors to see her.

 

[goalie000]

Thanks Guy, not really planning to do anything, just curious to get the Ladies opinion.

 

[rip_hymen]

Someone has created a Terb page on Facebook. There's only one member.

 

[goalie000]

How do you find these pages on Facebook? Just enter terb in the search area? for example.

 

[secret_touch]

Personally, I prefer to keep clients off my facebook. I have a personal life and like to keep it.

 

[goalie000]

Another Ladies opinion, thank You.

 

[elmufdvr]

face book is open to all..if they do not want you the be a friend then you will be rejected... i would not bother any of the ladies if i ever ran into them.. privicy is golden .. i enjoy mine and they would also enjoy thiers.. be respectfull and you will get respect back

 

[STASH]

Don't contact her.....it's her other life

 

[Cute In A Kilt]

You would be definitely intruding. Leave them be, please.

Thank you I would not only hate to be intruded upon I would promptly block you.... thanks to Sheiks info I set all the settings to "MY FRIENDS ONLY". Seeing you as a client does not make you my "friend" and would actually really creep me out if you did do that! Doing stuff like that would remind me of a stalker LOL

 

[baci2004]

Someone has created a Terb page on Facebook. There's only one member.

Gotta love his friends though.

 

[goodtime]

Seeing you as a client does not make you my "friend" and would actually really creep me out if you did do that!

Well said. One has to draw the line, however fine the line may be.

 

[starfcuks]

its a good rule of thumb to respect each others privacy in this vein of things... really no matter if its online or real life, unless you have previously discussed the matter steer clear! no one wants to be put on the spot, dont let the cat out of the bag!

Even worse. Facebook is a technological equivalent of kid playing with a loaded gun. We hastily leave traces on the net today and we will regret it tomorrow.

Past examples are quite telling:

- Ten years ago many got burned by posting comments/private info on Usenet groups under their real names and not being aware that one day search engines will make them visible. /for kiks, go to www.google.gom groups and see what you can dig about yourself/

-Many got burned with Napster not knowing where it will lead to.


Now, the Facebook will make many people sorry one day. Many log on Facebook while at work, and thus give their private life on a platter to their employers.

Tomorrows techology could make us sorry for what we have done today.

To Paraphrase Ontario Lottery Ad, your personal data is not worth one millon dollars, but one day it could be.

Privacy is precious commodity.

One word about Facebook : BEWARE !