SP Spending In A Depressed Economy

[spraggamuffin]

There are quite a few guys in higher M'gmt who rake in big bucks and hobby. They will definitely pick up the slack as many are lining their pockets well as people at the operations level lose their livelihood so they could make bonuses and increase their wages.

I'm not even talking CEO's, CFOs etc but people with minimal education who have moved up in large companies or government who hold high positions they aspired to based on everything except merit.

They do very little and so need something to do between twiddling their thumbs sitting in their Herman Miller Office chairs and spending time on the golf course.

In any event, you got to strike the iron while it's hot ie when you could perform without viagra etc and when those young hotties are still available in he industry. Both virility and the hotties won't be there forever.

 

[Petzel]

Milehigh, clear your messages. Your box is full.

 

[milehigh]

Sorry! My mailbox is completely empty now. I apologize.

 

[John Henry]

Talking with a certain SP who will remain nameless,she has recently increased her rates because she wants to see less people.It's her right and I respect that.She has to many other things going on outside of escorting to see lots of people .Her way of slowly getting out of the bizz.I will miss her when she does.

When that happens I say good bye . If she wants to cut back , fine go ahead but to make the same money and see less clients , sorry hun , I'll go see someone else .

Unless you are very well off, everyone is feeling a bit of a squeeze nowadays, both customers and SP's. I know myself, I actually budget out and set aside money. I plan the process a little better

And it is the same for SP's... they have expenses and bills just like we do, and they have to be fairly compensated.

I fell my situation is a win-win - fair for both of us. I have had many calls and texts however (from other SP's) - way more than in the past. I know that some need money and business badly.

However, you only have a cetain amount of money to go around. Before I started the regular I see now, I saw this other girl just a few times. We hit it off, but after a few times, she considered me to be a regular, and told me not to screw around on her. She was actually very pretty and very nice, but I had found someone who was an 11 instead of an 8.

That happened to me . Have seen a SP a few times myself and she said the same thing . Not to screw around on her . I'm thinking WTF is this !!!

As for SP's having expenses , so do I but I'm not getting $200 plus an hour on my job .

 

[Therese]

You have to look at that 250/hr objectively, some SPs only make that one 250/hr once in a day or once in a week depending on her popularity...so It is not really 250/hr and most of the independent SP working hours are spent doing administrative stuff like answering emails, posting ads, managing websites, answering and dealing with prank phone calls, people who just want to talk etc....The agency S.P has to pay out 1/2 or more of that money to the agency

Like with anything else in a reccession budgeting is key, and choosing the S.P that meets your budget, in this industry the price and quality is variable, you get rewarded for your search and how well you understand and can convey your needs

 

[milehigh]

Is a SP is good, the 200 bucks an hour is worth it. I don't make 200 bucks an hour. However I have to put up with a great deal from customers in my job and I can only imagine it is ten times worse for SP's. Obviously there would be some clients much less than attractive, also demanding and demeaning ones.

I get truly amazing sex for my money. The experience goes even beyond sex - the total package is amazing. Yeah, it adds up but it is worth it. I am limited in my scope of seeing anyone at a particular time... I want to be very comfortable with who I see.


To put it in perspective, I imagine selling sex to ladies. First of all... how many would you find attractive, how many would you have some "chemistry " with etc. How many would be a chore?

I also have had instances and this is in the past of having sex with someone just to appease them.

The last bunch of items I mentioned kind of puts in perspective for me.

I consider 200 bucks to be fair to both of us. They deserve every penny and to haggle with them is unfair. And they deserve a good time too plus respect.

As far as the bad ones out there, just don't go back to them.

 

[kaempferrand]

Given the price increases for the past few years I have opted out of doing dinner dates as I frequently used to do back in 2004 to 2008. Now is all just 2 hour trysts.

 

[Rockslinger]

Given the price increases for the past few years I have opted out of doing dinner dates as I frequently used to do back in 2004 to 2008.

Your old age will thank you when dinner dates are a lost memory but the money saved will put a roof over your head and steak on the table.

 

[Questor]

I consider 200 bucks to be fair to both of us. They deserve every penny and to haggle with them is unfair. And they deserve a good time too plus respect.

I don't know where you do your shopping, but I don't see too many SPs for $200, unless you are talking about a hh appointment. $200/h is really scraping the bottom of the barrel in terms of quality, looks, service level, etc.

And if you are talking about hh appointment, then that is beyond my budget. Either way, we are shopping in different universes. Average agency rates are $240 - $260/ h and $140 - $160/hh. I don't go outside that range very often.

 

[wet_suit_one]

Reading this thread, I'm so glad I have my sweetie and I'm out of the hobby. Mind blowing sex, as much as I want, whenever I want and when I don't want it because she wants it too! She nice, cares about me (not just my money, not that there's anything wrong with that, but it's still better), feeds me, dresses up for me.

Goddamn! It's good to be me!

Yeah, I know it might not last, but while I got it, I'm gonna enjoy it and rub it in your noses. Given the nature of karma, soon enough, I'll be on the sidelines bitching with you, so don't feel too sore about my crowing... And yes, she knows I come here and has no objection. Didn't I say she was great!

 

[milehigh]

I never go with agencies. There are lots of indies in the $200 range who are great.

 

[kaempferrand]

Your old age will thank you when dinner dates are a lost memory but the money saved will put a roof over your head and steak on the table.

Plus as I am getting older my values change. Now I just want to screw. Maybe a few years down the road I might want to build a dungeon and then lock them up after my two hour tryst. Who knows.