I am going to tell you CHUMPS right now since no one else has the balls....... NEVER give gifts to s.p.
Some of you who know me , know I have in the past 20 years been in one way or another operating escort services in different cities mainly in the U.S. Not any more. BUT.... in all the years here is the REAL take on gifts as expressed by thousands of escorts.
1) neutral, don't care. He is just a client & you will get the service you always got.
2) lower view of you. he is a sappy wimp. Giving gifts to someone you PAY for service.... PLEEEASE.
3) Worried: If this guys starts to get " feelings" for me I am going to have to cancell him. They see this happening to some regulars a mile away.
NOTE: they will never indicate or tell you these things. They will follow social norms & say , how sweet, smile & many thank-yous. Don't be fooled.HELL it is like them telling me they never thought I was that short, dated guys that are short & new girlfriends that dated short guys. If I believed the shit they told me I swear they come straight from a bizaro world. REMEMBER guys.... I heard the behind the scenes unvarnished truth about calls, clients & the like.
YOU guy are nieve!!!! 1) I do not expect ANY escort who receives money for services to say they do not appreciate gifts. I never said they hated getting a gift ....... only worried if they think the guy is developing emotional attachment. BUT for 20 years of chatting to the escorts who worked at my services & being buddies with them I never heard any gain respect or appreciation for a client who gave gifts. Quite the opposite.
NOTICE: this does NOT apply to the civilian women & I NEVER said girlfriends do not appreciate gifts. To the asshats who then extrapolate that I therefore do not recommend giving gifts to your mate & thus have a bad attitute , YOU are just looking for an excuse to vilify me. P.S. it is like what I am reading about in the P.O.A. community: chumps only buy girls drinks at a club & all the girls know it. To them a confident man never needs to buy a girl a drink. Never supplicate. THINKING back on it all the young escort girls who were clubbing made jokes about the guys who bought them drinks....... they lost all respect for the guys. They looked up to the guys that came & chatted them up without ever asking to buy a drink.
Since you are such an asshole I will take pleasure in pointing out some errors in your posts.
First, spelling mistakes;
I have a friend who is, like Jerry Seinfeld, a huge Superman fan so if I did not point out this one he would be on me. He reads TERB but never posts, I do not even think he has signed up. I have told him my TERB name, we are both football fans(he likes the Packers ... there is no accounting for taste).
So 'bizaro' is spelled with two rs, like so 'bizarro'.
Nieve ? Unless you are calling us a fist then I think you intended to spell 'naive' as in experienced and/or not knowing how the real world works.
Second and I find this absolutely hilarious;
You claim you ran several escort agencies and yet you still have trouble finding women, talking to women ? I cannot understand how you can spend as much time as you claim around women yet still have no clue as to how to approach them. In-fucking-credible !
And so on ...
Reading your posts I draw the same conclusions as many others have ... you are one bitter, little, fucked up, socially retarded child in a
short mans body.
Your problems do not come because of your physical height or your bald head. It is your fucked up view, sort loser, woe is me attitude that keeps you from finding ... whatever it is you are looking for. The U2 song "I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For" comes to mind and in your case you never will find it. Ever.
The Euro operation will not help. You will still be you.
Why the fuck does it bother you if guy bring SPs gifts ? Why are you jealous ? And that is what it is
Jealousy.
In a bar, no I do not NEED to buy a girl a drink, but just like buying an SP a gift, it make ME feel good. It is sometimes an ice breaker and has led to sex. Buy her a drink and it led to sex. I will not mess with that formula, because for all the drinks I may buy women, it is does work every now and then.
You are pissed off that most men CAN buy a girl a drink and she will accept it ... that is it is it not ?!