I got an well known agency sending a mass text wishing merry Christmas. I thought it was unprofessional. I did not even used that agency.. I had only tried booking a lady but I guess they have some database.
SP - Please stop doing this!
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Sorry, but I think using one’s real number is crazy, especially for those with an SO.
A text app can easily be concealed on one’s phone, with notifications turned off.
A text app can easily be concealed on one’s phone, with notifications turned off.
MOTHERFUCKERS!!!! All the business I have given agencies and not once have I received a Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, or Happy Birthday!!!
For what it’s worth. Merry Christmas!MOTHERFUCKERS!!!! All the business I have given agencies and not once have I received a Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, or Happy Birthday!!!
It happened to me couple of years back when the girl I had visited, called and texted me asking for money. I was with my family. Made a promise to myself not to share my number with anyone.
Couple of days back, a Durham-based SP wanted to do some reference checks on me and asked for my number before booking. Thankfully my head prevailed over my dick and I didn't share. Never use your personal number. Your safety is more important than anything.
This argument drives me nuts when I hear it from a potential client.
It basically means you think that your safety is
more important than mine, not "just as important."
A client is coming to my private residence
where I am alone and vulnerable, so any client who values their text app over my safety will not ever see me and gain access to my home address.
When I stopped accepting text apps, my business changed for the better.
I would say about 90 percent of text apps were time wasters, no shows and fuck arounds who just don't want to be held accountable.
You as clients have a VASTLY larger resource pool to do your research on who you see versus ours to vet our clients.
As for randomly texting a client without given permission, I would never.
This is not acceptable. We don't know where he is, who he is with, who can see his phone...
Discretion is key for most.
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I'm not saying that I value anything over your safety, what I am saying is that the random texts happen far too often and I for 1 wont take that chance. You ladies can do as you wish, we both have choices. I think we can all agree that people like yourself and Jenisis are professional ladies and wouldn't do this but the vast majority aren't thinking the way you both do and are unprofessional. As I said to Jenisis no harm no foul, we just agree that we both wont take the risk and move on.
I would think most sane people with a degree of self esteem and self respect would consider their safety more important than someone else.
Not to imply that one would purposely endanger someone else but I am more concerned with say, not having an 18 wheeler crush my car killing me on the highway than not having the same to someone else. Again not saying the other outcome is of 0 concern, but still.
Just sayin.
I have nothing to hide, but... not a text but I did have an escort about 10 or 15 years ago email me out of the blue 6 months after I contacted her. No mention of the 6 month wait or anything, just replied as if she just got the message that day. Keep in mind, never heard from her before the 6 month period.
She still works, still uses heavily photo shopped pictures [she was done other things] and apparently asks for deposits.
If you have a dual sim phone, which is most of them these days, just get a second sim and disable it when not in use.
What do you mean "hopefully she hears about this", didn't you text her giving her an earful, or did you just want to post a story on here?
I would think he did..but I'm thinking he meant..that other clients here who see this thread that see her(and we all know who she is...) will relay the issue to her and tell her
DONT !!
Yes thumper. I certainly did let her know that this was not OK. Yes, my point was for them to hear from other customers as well that it not OK to randomly text customers.
I Too have noticed a disturbing uptick in this behaviour, thankfully I never use my personal phone.
Just got back from vaca, turned my work phone on and BAM…. 3 messages from weeks ago inquires! CRAZY.
Problem is, the ones doing it don‘t come here and see this.
Just got back from vaca, turned my work phone on and BAM…. 3 messages from weeks ago inquires! CRAZY.
Problem is, the ones doing it don‘t come here and see this.
I got another one from sexy spinner last night with her menu prices and general location
Last year, I had a text a few days after seeing a well known SP with a very reputable agency. a simple "hi". I use a burner so this is not an issue, I responded back and they told me the girl I had met with tested positive for chlamydia. They were being responsible by just texting a simple Hi and waited for my response.
It was scary as heck, i went for a test and was fine, but I did appreciate the reach out so that I knew to go and get tested.
It was scary as heck, i went for a test and was fine, but I did appreciate the reach out so that I knew to go and get tested.
Sometimes it’s good & necessary to break the rules right? Adults would appreciate this approach.
