SP Falls for Client?

I have spent what seems my entire adult life...

Vancouver Femme Fatale said:
IMHO, if an SP allows herself to fall for a client, she's not mature enough to be an SP. The game is played as it is for a reason; as everybody knows, you pay us to go away.

And before I get flamed because 'love just happens', unless you're in junior high or mainlining wishful thinking, I think that's a crock. Everybody has decided to not pursue something because it's inappropriate at some point in their lives, and I don't see potential relationships getting a magic pass.

Heh...can you tell I'm not popular with the popular girls? ;)

And before I get flamed because 'love just happens', unless you're in junior high or mainlining wishful thinking, I think that's a crock. Everybody has decided to not pursue something because it's inappropriate at some point in their lives, and I don't see potential relationships getting a magic pass.

..trying to explain this to people...most recently with that guy who was "in love" with his pregnant stripper GF who kept threatening to abort the baby.

I think you are the first woman I've ever heard say this though.

I think women like to use this reasoning as an excuse for the mistakes they make with men...while men tend to just shrug and say "she looks hot and she is a great fuck"...
 
I just saw this post today & I've actually had it happen to me a few yrs. back. I was up from the States & the exchange rate was great (ah, the good old days) so I decided to try my 1st SP. Needlessly to say, it wasn't exactly a fantastic experience, but the following summer I saw her again twice. Then we started exhcanging emails & then phone calls. Spent the wknd. together at a friends the following summer & then that's when I started falling for her. Unfortunately due to the distance, a serious relationship never materialized, but it was definitely something I won't forget. Had an MP fall for me too. Then there was the infamous MP who wound up dating a friend of mine last yr. after I had a fling w/her, but that's another story. God, sometimes I love being a musician & living the rock n roll life w/the ladies. Btw, ladies, I want to move to TO & I'm single, so if you're interested...LOL