I am posting this at the risk of being the laughing stock of terb but I hope that others can learn from my experience.
Many months ago I decided to see an SP. I was scammed and lied to in many previous relationship and thought that this was easier. I did my research and thought I found someone intelligent and didn't do assembly line work (ie. only saw one person per day).
I saw this SP and thought she very intelligent, kind and level-headed. I started to really care for her. Over time she confided in me with a lot of things and I really felt sorry for her. She told me about her past relationships, her miscarriages and the abortion that her current boyfriend got her to have even though they are now happy together. Then on one visit she told me she did a porn and her boyfriend found out it and her employer fire her because of this. She told me she was going to retire but will still continue to see me. The last time I saw her she told me she needed 3k to pay off her bill but she didn't have the money because she just bought a property, her boyfriend is in debt, blah blah blah. Over the next two weeks I tried to see her but she was busy and I even asked her whether it's because she doesn't want to see me. She replied that she was sad to know that I could think this way.
Almost a week later I get a email back from a person identifying himself as an investigator who is going to track me down and tell my wife about everything. I wasn't scared because I'm not attached but was just pissed. I was actually scared that something had happened to her and tried to find out more about what happened. It turns out that this person was her boyfriend and he didn't know what she was doing. Then I get a tirade of emails just mocking and ridiculing me. I also found out that almost everything she told me were lies.
Presently, I am in touch with a lawyer trying to get back my money. Part of me just want to forget about the whole thing but I just want justice being served. Being scammed is one thing. Being scammed and then ridiculed after is another. In the end anyone who hurt those who care about them is hurting themselves in the end.
Many months ago I decided to see an SP. I was scammed and lied to in many previous relationship and thought that this was easier. I did my research and thought I found someone intelligent and didn't do assembly line work (ie. only saw one person per day).
I saw this SP and thought she very intelligent, kind and level-headed. I started to really care for her. Over time she confided in me with a lot of things and I really felt sorry for her. She told me about her past relationships, her miscarriages and the abortion that her current boyfriend got her to have even though they are now happy together. Then on one visit she told me she did a porn and her boyfriend found out it and her employer fire her because of this. She told me she was going to retire but will still continue to see me. The last time I saw her she told me she needed 3k to pay off her bill but she didn't have the money because she just bought a property, her boyfriend is in debt, blah blah blah. Over the next two weeks I tried to see her but she was busy and I even asked her whether it's because she doesn't want to see me. She replied that she was sad to know that I could think this way.
Almost a week later I get a email back from a person identifying himself as an investigator who is going to track me down and tell my wife about everything. I wasn't scared because I'm not attached but was just pissed. I was actually scared that something had happened to her and tried to find out more about what happened. It turns out that this person was her boyfriend and he didn't know what she was doing. Then I get a tirade of emails just mocking and ridiculing me. I also found out that almost everything she told me were lies.
Presently, I am in touch with a lawyer trying to get back my money. Part of me just want to forget about the whole thing but I just want justice being served. Being scammed is one thing. Being scammed and then ridiculed after is another. In the end anyone who hurt those who care about them is hurting themselves in the end.