Ahah I will not comment on that but I think women are often raised pitted against each others. You can see it everywhere. So I guess women will compare themselves more unconsciously and it may result some sort of jealousy or some sort of threatening sentiment. It's unfortunate. I wish this is something that could be unlearned because by acting like that you miss out on some great friendship.
SP broke down crying during session
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It's not just women, but some men do this too. I remember being on hockey teams where egos of some guys thought they were better than you and brought more value to the team and chirped their teammates.
Only till after we won the championship, he tried to treat be better. That's when I told him to go fuck himself and find another goalie who could win key games for them next year....lol. I left for another team and the other team did not win.
Great thread, thanks to everyone who’s shared their stories here, particularly JohnAMacdongnot and Rhuard29. Regarding JohnA’s account, my inclination would have been to go to dinner with her, out of curiosity and as a sort of adventure. But I’m not saying that he should have.
The part of JohnA’s story about the lady bringing condoms that were too small triggers a similar (but lighter) memory that I’d sort of forgotten.
It was my first appointment with a certain SP. When it was time for the condom, she brought out a box of Magnum condoms, which I have to admit were too big for me. That first session with her was amazing, except that I kept worrying that the condom was going to slip off. I had to repeatedly reach down to pull it back on! A bit of a distraction, but she was so hot and the sex was otherwise so incredible that, afterward, I was just thinking about how wonderful she was and sorta forgot about the condom problem.
So I saw her a second time. When she pulled out the Magnum box again, I thought, Oh shit — I forgot about those damn Magnums! But I was horny and couldn’t be bothered to complain, so on went the baggy Magnum. Again it was an amazing session, so, after it was over I again was just focused on all of the positives and forgot about the condom issue
So I saw her a third time. Yet AGAIN she pulls out the Magnum box. Again I just go ahead and fuck her with this stupid loose condom. But this time, after the amazing sex, I explained to her that the Magnum brand is too big for most guys and, by continuing to use them, she was risking having a condom accident of some sort. She was a sweet newbie and just didn’t know any better — I had been one of her first clients. A condom was a condom to her.
After that, she provided regular-size condoms, and I got to have fun without worrying that I was about to slip out and accidentally have unprotected sex with her.
Yes, I know, we clients should have our own condoms on hand for situations like this.
The happy ending to the story: that was years ago, and I’m still repeating with that beautiful woman now. And she’s still amazing.
The part of JohnA’s story about the lady bringing condoms that were too small triggers a similar (but lighter) memory that I’d sort of forgotten.
It was my first appointment with a certain SP. When it was time for the condom, she brought out a box of Magnum condoms, which I have to admit were too big for me. That first session with her was amazing, except that I kept worrying that the condom was going to slip off. I had to repeatedly reach down to pull it back on! A bit of a distraction, but she was so hot and the sex was otherwise so incredible that, afterward, I was just thinking about how wonderful she was and sorta forgot about the condom problem.
So I saw her a second time. When she pulled out the Magnum box again, I thought, Oh shit — I forgot about those damn Magnums! But I was horny and couldn’t be bothered to complain, so on went the baggy Magnum. Again it was an amazing session, so, after it was over I again was just focused on all of the positives and forgot about the condom issue
So I saw her a third time. Yet AGAIN she pulls out the Magnum box. Again I just go ahead and fuck her with this stupid loose condom. But this time, after the amazing sex, I explained to her that the Magnum brand is too big for most guys and, by continuing to use them, she was risking having a condom accident of some sort. She was a sweet newbie and just didn’t know any better — I had been one of her first clients. A condom was a condom to her.
After that, she provided regular-size condoms, and I got to have fun without worrying that I was about to slip out and accidentally have unprotected sex with her.
Yes, I know, we clients should have our own condoms on hand for situations like this.
The happy ending to the story: that was years ago, and I’m still repeating with that beautiful woman now. And she’s still amazing.
That's why I did not try to work out a side deal cos I literally just met her... try to build some rapport with me first you know. I was pissed when she told me to cum as fast as I could, that just shows she did not want to put in any effort.
Also if we go to dinner for an hour, do I pay same rate for her time or just the food? Should I risk my privacy by letting her see my license plate...I want to help but don't want to lose $1000, I'm not Jeff Bezos. I make decent money, but these days due to the economy I don't even throw away $20 on tips.
She is new to the biz and is probably there to pay off debt. It is not something she is enjoying or wants to do. She has not slept for three days maybe because she is taking every available slot and has some guilt. Her offer of direct service is to increase her income and clear her debt faster. Other than meeting her through the agency or the direct route there is not much you can do. Unless you want to take on her debt obligations.
With men you do have to seperate between hazing that is a method of testing for suitability for group membership, and hazing the is pure assholishness (or worse).
A note for the less social TERB guys is that you should try to seperate the two. At least if you want to be part of a group.
Nah, he was just a complete douche. I always hold back during the season and play my "A" game for the playoffs. It's beer league and everyone makes the playoffs...lol.
Probably what he didn't know was at the time we had won two consecutive years and then won our third in a row.
I don't doubt. It sounds that way. (I was having a late night, middle aged, ramble, lol.)
exactly nobody has the duty to wine and dine them, if they wanna be like Julia Roberts in pretty woman they need to go on dating site and find their 80 year old Richard Gere.
