SP broke down crying during session

[JohnAMacdongnot]

Booked this lady who's new to the agency, I secured a spot in the early afternoon, and booker said I was lucky cos that's the only spot left.

Ran into her in the hotel lobby, recognized her from photos, as she asked front desk for more fresh towels, good looking girl, big tits, late 20s, so I was excited.

Towels caused bit of delay, finally went up to the room, she was friendly, started with kissing and then sucking her tits, BJ was very aggressive, had to tell her to take it easy, and then I returned the favour by eating her pussy and proceed to fingerbang her with 2 fingers, and she asked me put more fingers in there, so I ended up putting 4 fingers inside her, and she said she'll let me fist her another time...

For the sex, this is when it became really weird, first the durex condom she gave me was very small, and as soon as I entered her, she said "I want you to cum as fast as you can cos we're running out of time", and this was such a mood killer, I quickly lost my hard-on while doing missionary with her, I pulled out, and asked "how much time is left", cos it was only like 15-20 minutes in...she wouldn't answer me directly, instead she said the agency is taking a big cut of her earnings, and she wanted to give me cheaper rate with a private session, and suggested going to dinner together...I thought first I'm not prepared for the extra expenses, plus we haven't even had a good session yet, cos you just ruined my mood...so I did not accept her offer, then she begged me not to tell the agency about the side deals, so I promised not to tell, saying it's not my business.

I started to suck her tits again, trying to regain the hard-on, and she said "yeah suck my tits as hard as you can", as I got hard, I started fucking her tits vigorously, then I jerked off sitting on her and cum in her mouth...then she suddenly broke down crying and said "I'm not a whore...this is not my life!", and she explained she had been working for 3 days and slept very little, I told her "no judgement from me...I'm sorry that you fell on hard times", then she told me she was abused by her ex-husband some old dude plus other stories about her life...when time was up, we said goodbye...

As I left hotel, booker texted me to ask if lady was drunk, guess another client complained. I said I did not detect any smell of alcohol, and booker thanked me for the feedback. Then later I thought about it, maybe she was drunk....and 1 hour later, her entire shift got cancelled, and now her profile was removed from the website...I feel really bad for her. I should have recognized that she was seeking help when she asked me to take her out...

 

[slyjoker666]

Never forget that the SPs are humans too. It’s a tough life and not for everyone. Always treat them with kindness. Hopefully she will be ok.

 

[HEYHEY]

I'm pretty sure you dodged a bullet there.

 

[HOLLYWOODG]

The "booker" or his associates could have laid a beat down on you or worse. Good on you for thinking with your big head.

 

[Callmerey]

Booked this lady who's new to the agency, I secured a spot in the early afternoon, and booker said I was lucky cos that's the only spot left.

Ran into her in the hotel lobby, recognized her from photos, as she asked front desk for more fresh towels, good looking girl, big tits, late 20s, so I was excited.

Towels caused bit of delay, finally went up to the room, she was friendly, started with kissing and then sucking her tits, BJ was very aggressive, had to tell her to take it easy, and then I returned the favour by eating her pussy and proceed to fingerbang her with 2 fingers, and she asked me put more fingers in there, so I ended up putting 4 fingers inside her, and she said she'll let me fist her another time...

For the sex, this is when it became really weird, first the durex condom she gave me was very small, and as soon as I entered her, she said "I want you to cum as fast as you can cos we're running out of time", and this was such a mood killer, I quickly lost my hard-on while doing missionary with her, I pulled out, and asked "how much time is left", cos it was only like 15-20 minutes in...she wouldn't answer me directly, instead she said the agency is taking a big cut of her earnings, and she wanted to give me cheaper rate with a private session, and suggested going to dinner together...I thought first I'm not prepared for the extra expenses, plus we haven't even had a good session yet, cos you just ruined my mood...so I did not accept her offer, then she begged me not to tell the agency about the side deals, so I promised not to tell, saying it's not my business.

I started to suck her tits again, trying to regain the hard-on, and she said "yeah suck my tits as hard as you can", as I got hard, I started fucking her tits vigorously, then I jerked off sitting on her and cum in her mouth...then she suddenly broke down crying and said "I'm not a whore...this is not my life!", and she explained she had been working for 3 days and slept very little, I told her "no judgement from me...I'm sorry that you fell on hard times", then she told me she was abused by her ex-husband some old dude plus other stories about her life...when time was up, we said goodbye...

As I left hotel, booker texted me to ask if lady was drunk, guess another client complained. I said I did not detect any smell of alcohol, and booked thanked me for the input. Then later I thought about it, maybe she was drunk....and 1 hour later, her entire shift got cancelled, and now her profile was removed from the website...I feel really bad for her. I should have recognized that she was seeking help when she asked me to take her out...

This is like a juicy gossip story

 

[JohnAMacdongnot]

The "booker" or his associates could have laid a beat down on you or worse. Good on you for thinking with your big head.

My favourite SP gave me her number when she decided to do some indie work, but she was too flaky and never showed up for those shifts, after a few cancellations, she probably felt bad and couldn't face me, and guess what she did, she told the agency booker not to book for me in the future as well, so I lost touch with her completely.

Lesson learned: never take a number from the SP or contact them directly, it never ends well.

 

[OntGuy2010]

Very interesting! This for sure is not for everyone, on both the provider and client side.

 

[Terbyguy]

Poor girl. This is a prime example of why I only like a sensual GFE, where the SP seems passionate and likes being there. I wish her the best.

 

[newguy2201]

That's really sad. My heart goes out to her. That was my biggest reservation about this lifestyle before I started. I want to be reasonably sure that everyone is here of their own accord and doing what they want because they want to.

Makes me sad to think that some people might be miserable, but I guess that can happen in any job.

Sounds like you handled it with respect which is good. I hope she is feeling better.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Hopefully the SP can get some help for herself and some needed rest.

 

[itheprocrastinator]

My favourite SP gave me her number when she decided to do some indie work, but she was too flaky and never showed up for those shifts, after a few cancellations, she probably felt bad and couldn't face me, and guess what she did, she told the agency booker not to book for me in the future as well, so I lost touch with her completely.

Lesson learned: never take a number from the SP or contact them directly, it never ends well.

A favourite SP gave me her number when she did indie. She never flaked on our appointments but on last appointment I confirm the day, she says all good, I show up, and just she just ghosts me. I'm thinking, did something happen to her? Nope, she's posting on Twitter less than an hour later. Wtf? No explanation.

 

[rhuarc29]

It's such a complicated issue. The problem with this line of work is that it pays insanely well. That's a very powerful allure, especially for people with low skill sets, or people who are in a pinch financially, which is increasingly more likely these days. Heck, even people of less modest means are likely to be attracted to this line of work, both for how lucrative it is and how flexible it is. But many do not want to think of themselves as being industry girls, and I think they often glamorize what they're getting into, which means when the reality check hits...it hits like a Mack truck. Hence the emotional breakdown in this case. Lots of people get disenfranchised with their work, but for this industry I think it's worse due to the stigma involved. I'm sure it's not what she envisioned for herself, but unless she was coerced into it (in which case society has a duty to help her IMO), it was her choice and her responsibility. Many, many others have chosen to do grueling jobs at 1/10 the pay to make ends meet rather than make that choice.

There are two ways to make the industry less alluring for people. One, improve the affordability crisis, so that people don't look for such lucrative avenues just to survive. And two, legalization and destigmatization, to make the industry less lucrative and hence less financially appealing.

I've only once had an SP break down crying on me. It was on maybe our 6th session together, and we were talking about some personal life things prior to our fun. AFTER our fun, I hopped in the shower, and when I came out she was sitting on the bed with tears rolling down her cheeks. I, of course, immediately worried it might have been something I had done and asked her what was the matter. Turns out we had brushed on a couple things in her personal life earlier that were being a major drag on her, and then it brought a lot of that to the surface when she was waiting for me to come out from the shower. Some real tragedies that she was dealing with. We ended up talking on the bed for 10 minutes about it, with me trying to cheer her up, which seemed to be working, but then she mentioned she was going to be late for her next (and last) appointment. I told her I'd take the appointment instead and pay her directly, and told her to call the agency and tell them she had come down ill, throwing up, and wouldn't be able to take the next appointment, which is what she did. Hell, we ended up talking for another two and a half hours on the bed, and I learnt she was trying to support her mother, who was in poor health, dealing with the recent death of her father, and her brother was in prison for drug-related charges, and that was hugely time consuming and expensive, which she was also helping out with. She got into the industry because her friend (also in the industry) had suggested it to her, and she saw that her friend was living large, new Mercedes, bought a second property, all new clothes, etc. I guess she thought the life would be more glamorous based on the appearance of her friend's life.

I got her laughing by the end of the night, and her whole attitude changed towards me. She was like a whole new person over the next few weeks and it's probably my favorite moment in the hobby. I don't want to have appointments with ladies who loathe being there, even if I do think it's ultimately their choice and their responsibility. I understand the allure of the industry and how powerful that is, especially to people in a jamb. So helping her out in that moment has stuck with me. And heck, we became friends after that for a long time. And yes, I continued to support her at her work, which she continued in for the next 3 years, at which point she married and retired. Even after she married and moved, we kept in touch another 5 years, until our communications eventually dwindled to nothing. But she was in a good place, last I knew.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Probably said it before, but I don't know how so many women can do it for a living.

 

[tastingyou]

Booked this lady who's new to the agency, I secured a spot in the early afternoon, and booker said I was lucky cos that's the only spot left.

Ran into her in the hotel lobby, recognized her from photos, as she asked front desk for more fresh towels, good looking girl, big tits, late 20s, so I was excited.

Towels caused bit of delay, finally went up to the room, she was friendly, started with kissing and then sucking her tits, BJ was very aggressive, had to tell her to take it easy, and then I returned the favour by eating her pussy and proceed to fingerbang her with 2 fingers, and she asked me put more fingers in there, so I ended up putting 4 fingers inside her, and she said she'll let me fist her another time...

For the sex, this is when it became really weird, first the durex condom she gave me was very small, and as soon as I entered her, she said "I want you to cum as fast as you can cos we're running out of time", and this was such a mood killer, I quickly lost my hard-on while doing missionary with her, I pulled out, and asked "how much time is left", cos it was only like 15-20 minutes in...she wouldn't answer me directly, instead she said the agency is taking a big cut of her earnings, and she wanted to give me cheaper rate with a private session, and suggested going to dinner together...I thought first I'm not prepared for the extra expenses, plus we haven't even had a good session yet, cos you just ruined my mood...so I did not accept her offer, then she begged me not to tell the agency about the side deals, so I promised not to tell, saying it's not my business.

I started to suck her tits again, trying to regain the hard-on, and she said "yeah suck my tits as hard as you can", as I got hard, I started fucking her tits vigorously, then I jerked off sitting on her and cum in her mouth...then she suddenly broke down crying and said "I'm not a whore...this is not my life!", and she explained she had been working for 3 days and slept very little, I told her "no judgement from me...I'm sorry that you fell on hard times", then she told me she was abused by her ex-husband some old dude plus other stories about her life...when time was up, we said goodbye...

As I left hotel, booker texted me to ask if lady was drunk, guess another client complained. I said I did not detect any smell of alcohol, and booker thanked me for the feedback. Then later I thought about it, maybe she was drunk....and 1 hour later, her entire shift got cancelled, and now her profile was removed from the website...I feel really bad for her. I should have recognized that she was seeking help when she asked me to take her out...

Obviously this life is not for everyone. All of the providers that I see are 40+ and have been in the life for 5 or 10 years or more. This usually means that they are happy with their work and can mentally deal with it.

 

[tastingyou]

It's such a complicated issue. The problem with this line of work is that it pays insanely well. That's a very powerful allure, especially for people with low skill sets, or people who are in a pinch financially, which is increasingly more likely these days. Heck, even people of less modest means are likely to be attracted to this line of work, both for how lucrative it is and how flexible it is. But many do not want to think of themselves as being industry girls, and I think they often glamorize what they're getting into, which means when the reality check hits...it hits like a Mack truck. Hence the emotional breakdown in this case. Lots of people get disenfranchised with their work, but for this industry I think it's worse due to the stigma involved. I'm sure it's not what she envisioned for herself, but unless she was coerced into it (in which case society has a duty to help her IMO), it was her choice and her responsibility. Many, many others have chosen to do grueling jobs at 1/10 the pay to make ends meet rather than make that choice.

There are two ways to make the industry less alluring for people. One, improve the affordability crisis, so that people don't look for such lucrative avenues just to survive. And two, legalization and destigmatization, to make the industry less lucrative and hence less financially appealing.

I've only once had an SP break down crying on me. It was on maybe our 6th session together, and we were talking about some personal life things prior to our fun. AFTER our fun, I hopped in the shower, and when I came out she was sitting on the bed with tears rolling down her cheeks. I, of course, immediately worried it might have been something I had done and asked her what was the matter. Turns out we had brushed on a couple things in her personal life earlier that were being a major drag on her, and then it brought a lot of that to the surface when she was waiting for me to come out from the shower. Some real tragedies that she was dealing with. We ended up talking on the bed for 10 minutes about it, with me trying to cheer her up, which seemed to be working, but then she mentioned she was going to be late for her next (and last) appointment. I told her I'd take the appointment instead and pay her directly, and told her to call the agency and tell them she had come down ill, throwing up, and wouldn't be able to take the next appointment, which is what she did. Hell, we ended up talking for another two and a half hours on the bed, and I learnt she was trying to support her mother, who was in poor health, dealing with the recent death of her father, and her brother was in prison for drug-related charges, and that was hugely time consuming and expensive, which she was also helping out with. She got into the industry because her friend (also in the industry) had suggested it to her, and she saw that her friend was living large, new Mercedes, bought a second property, all new clothes, etc. I guess she thought the life would be more glamorous based on the appearance of her friend's life.

I got her laughing by the end of the night, and her whole attitude changed towards me. She was like a whole new person over the next few weeks and it's probably my favorite moment in the hobby. I don't want to have appointments with ladies who loathe being there, even if I do think it's ultimately their choice and their responsibility. I understand the allure of the industry and how powerful that is, especially to people in a jamb. So helping her out in that moment has stuck with me. And heck, we became friends after that for a long time. And yes, I continued to support her at her work, which she continued in for the next 3 years, at which point she married and retired. Even after she married and moved, we kept in touch another 5 years, until our communications eventually dwindled to nothing. But she was in a good place, last I knew.

You dealt with the situation in a very classy way. Good on you. I am very careful who I see but do my utmost to make most provider's that I see a regular and also to always make their day better.

 

[Josephine]

I am so so sorry she feels like that. Nobody really talks about this stage where you have to accept that this is what you are. That the stigma revolving around the profession is a little bit inside of you too and its an internal battle that will last a while. I hope that she has a support system. I hope that the agency has a couple of girls that will support her. I am sending her a big hug.

 

[reaper29]

I am so so sorry she feels like that. Nobody really talks about this stage where you have to accept that this is what you are. That the stigma revolving around the profession is a little bit inside of you too and its an internal battle that will last a while. I hope that she has a support system. I hope that the agency has a couple of girls that will support her. I am sending her a big hug.

I hope this lady has a support team to help her. I'm glad that there are other SP's who will offer their support, but could never understand when the girls become catty to each out and try and sink them even lower.

It's not just in this industry, but in any industry. It's true what they say that you get all kinds in all industries. It doesn't take much effort to be a decent human being!

 

[Little Stick]

It's such a complicated issue. The problem with this line of work is that it pays insanely well. That's a very powerful allure, especially for people with low skill sets, or people who are in a pinch financially, which is increasingly more likely these days. Heck, even people of less modest means are likely to be attracted to this line of work, both for how lucrative it is and how flexible it is. But many do not want to think of themselves as being industry girls, and I think they often glamorize what they're getting into, which means when the reality check hits...it hits like a Mack truck. Hence the emotional breakdown in this case. Lots of people get disenfranchised with their work, but for this industry I think it's worse due to the stigma involved. I'm sure it's not what she envisioned for herself, but unless she was coerced into it (in which case society has a duty to help her IMO), it was her choice and her responsibility. Many, many others have chosen to do grueling jobs at 1/10 the pay to make ends meet rather than make that choice.

There are two ways to make the industry less alluring for people. One, improve the affordability crisis, so that people don't look for such lucrative avenues just to survive. And two, legalization and destigmatization, to make the industry less lucrative and hence less financially appealing.

I've only once had an SP break down crying on me. It was on maybe our 6th session together, and we were talking about some personal life things prior to our fun. AFTER our fun, I hopped in the shower, and when I came out she was sitting on the bed with tears rolling down her cheeks. I, of course, immediately worried it might have been something I had done and asked her what was the matter. Turns out we had brushed on a couple things in her personal life earlier that were being a major drag on her, and then it brought a lot of that to the surface when she was waiting for me to come out from the shower. Some real tragedies that she was dealing with. We ended up talking on the bed for 10 minutes about it, with me trying to cheer her up, which seemed to be working, but then she mentioned she was going to be late for her next (and last) appointment. I told her I'd take the appointment instead and pay her directly, and told her to call the agency and tell them she had come down ill, throwing up, and wouldn't be able to take the next appointment, which is what she did. Hell, we ended up talking for another two and a half hours on the bed, and I learnt she was trying to support her mother, who was in poor health, dealing with the recent death of her father, and her brother was in prison for drug-related charges, and that was hugely time consuming and expensive, which she was also helping out with. She got into the industry because her friend (also in the industry) had suggested it to her, and she saw that her friend was living large, new Mercedes, bought a second property, all new clothes, etc. I guess she thought the life would be more glamorous based on the appearance of her friend's life.

I got her laughing by the end of the night, and her whole attitude changed towards me. She was like a whole new person over the next few weeks and it's probably my favorite moment in the hobby. I don't want to have appointments with ladies who loathe being there, even if I do think it's ultimately their choice and their responsibility. I understand the allure of the industry and how powerful that is, especially to people in a jamb. So helping her out in that moment has stuck with me. And heck, we became friends after that for a long time. And yes, I continued to support her at her work, which she continued in for the next 3 years, at which point she married and retired. Even after she married and moved, we kept in touch another 5 years, until our communications eventually dwindled to nothing. But she was in a good place, last I knew.

Impressed with the way you handled that situation... The whole industry is very complex for both SPs and their clients ------ due to the considerations noted in your response and for other reasons - it becomes more than purely transactional ($ in exchange for sexual services).

 

[MiguelRojas]

This happens more often than not. As men we have the instinct to help or fix but I remind that its often not our problem or without our control what happens to the ladies.

What we can control is our respect, attitude, vibes and hygiene during the session. Whatever happens outside of that transaction, well, its not for the faint of heart.

I've done my fair share of white knighting and it comes down to how much energy you are willing to give.

 

[kherg007]

I reckon its underappreciated that It takes a couple of different kinds of courage to do this job and to do it well. I've always felt the blokes don't fully understand that part, cuz if they did it might affect how one approaches the encounter. This also means it's not for everyone. And clearly she thought she could manage and it turns out she can't. This happens in all jobs but this job has so many more unique and personal requirements. Godspeed to her.