To all the women who take care of our needs...................Happy Thanksgiving
"RESPECT FOR SELF" First and for most, stay clear of the nay-sayers. Secondly, Don’t follow the pack, in other words, be a leader not a follower. Thirdly, Have your own ideas and your own mind. Be careful not to get caught up in other’s gossip and misery. Gossip is ugly and empty, fill yourself up with joy and surround yourself with positive people. I am sure you will get caught up in gossip and drama at some point in your life, the same as I have, but recognize it and run. It too is draining and toxic to your soul. People who don’t care about or respect them selves cannot possibly care for or respect you. Respect the privacy of others. Don’t worry so much about the way other people live their lives, so long as it doesn't affect you. Put that energy into yourself and the things you want out of life. And when life gets too busy, retreat to yourself and do the things that make you feel good and strong inside. The people that really do love and respect you will be there when you’re feeling better. For the people that take it personal, well, that’s there issue. You have the right to “be “ and do not always need to explain your self to everyone all the time.
“The 10 commandments are still the best rules for living”. It’s not always easy to do the right thing but I believe that you will be stronger in the end. It’s called choice. Although we may want a certain thing or a situation to turn out a certain way, you need to think of the consequences that will follow, ask yourself “is it worth it” and make what you believe to be, the right choices.
I hope that you will not need to compete with others. It is a waste of time and energy and in my opinion, is not a loving or healthy way to be. People are beautiful and unique in their own ways. I believe jealousy to be one of the weakest character traits, so, LOVE YOURSELF! And have the ability to recognize, accept and even admire the beauty in-of others.
Stand by your convictions. That means I want you to stand up for what you believe in. Also know that everyone is different and others beliefs might be different from yours. What’s best for another person might not be best for you and vise-a-versa. Try to have an open mind and always try to put your self in someone else’s shoes before judging them. Don’t have the need to be perfect (none of us are) otherwise, it will be hard for you to see your faults and you will hurt people in the process. If you’re honest with yourself you will be able to do the noble deed of righting your wrongs by apologizing and admitting when you’re at fault.
“LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE” “Never ever, shrink or downplay yourself so that others around you will not feel insecure or inferior.” You are deserving!
Thank all of you for giving us the comfort we need...............here is cheers to all of you who take us away from our everyday life ...1 Hour at a time ...........More men need to respect that you are people to and have feelings and have 1 of the most difficult jobs around my Hat is off to all of You ......
