SP’s on dating apps..
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You need to play dumb and approach the date like she's not a SW. Don't bring it up, if she's working she won't waste too much time before she makes the proposition. Unless she's just fishing for a few free meals... Honestly if I recognized a SW on a dating app i'd avoid like the plague.
Someone encouraged me to do this but I thought it was misguided. Why advertise as a paid service in a venue where everyone is looking for it for free? It seems like a lot of time wasting, disappointment on both the man and the ladies end.
I agree.
I know someone who uses dating apps to find clients and I've never thought it was a good idea or even fair to the men who message her thinking she is looking for dating.
Seems like too much wasted time as well.
Although, sexworkers are also human beings and could be on dating apps to legitimately find a partner. We are entitled to be there just like everyone else if we are using the app for the purpose it was meant.
Exactly. Sometimes we want to have actual regular connection...
To be fair I think joweeejojo is just saying he would not appreciate the "bait and switch" of a sex worker using a dating app to drum up pay for sex business.
I don't think he hates sex workers, but would just avoid attempting to date a lady who is using her "working name".
I don't know if people use their real names on dating apps, cuz I don't use them.
But I think it would be a mistake for a sex worker to use her working name on a dating app. Red flag city...
i don’t hate SW. Far from it. I was just saying that if I recognized a sw on a dating site I’d be very careful as it’s not fair to legit users if they are fishing for customers. If she’s looking for legit dating that another story but I’d rather avoid any uncomfortable situations.
Which is why I actually prefer to pay for it
If I come across anybody on a dating app who looks to be selling or promoting any kind of service or business I always report the account.
how would that even work?
The two of us go out like it’s a normal date and then she casually brings up like hey.. you gotta pay for this by the hour by the way lol
If it is a provider I have met it would likely not result in a match because at the very least the provider is going to swipe left.
But if she does swipe right, then I guess you'd have to talk it through with her.
If it is a provider I have not met, then I'd approach it as any other date.
But if she does swipe right, then I guess you'd have to talk it through with her.
If it is a provider I have not met, then I'd approach it as any other date.
They would bring up their rates and services in the initial messages before the “date” even occurs
One issue I came across when briefly on two dating apps (to legitimately try and find a partner), was that existing clients or men who had seen my ads seemed to think that it was an opportunity to use me for free sex.
Some of the messages and treatment I received were just unbelievable.
When dating, because of my profession, I move very slowly with intimacy and sex.
I need to really get to know a person and their true intentions.
This helps to weed out the type of guys I mentioned above. Those guys don't last through the first date without getting pushy and salty that I didn't fuck them immediately.
The only positive to come of my brief dating app stint was meeting a great friend that I have a ton in common with.
I dated a SP for a bit in 2013 and I just couldn’t do it, it wasn’t a jealousy issue. She would mainly just make fun of how bad guys were in the sack. But at the end of the day you still want them to be yours and vice versa, so it’s a strange dynamic for me to get behind.
