Some questions from an Oasis Aqualounge neophyte…

[swshowtime8]

Hi,

I believe this is the proper forum to post this...

I am thinking of going to Oasis Aqualounge during my next visit to Toronto with an SP. This will be my first venture ever to such a club, so I have a few questions for the veterans.

• I understand everyone is given a towel upon registration, although some may choose to not wear it while exploring around or mingling at the bar. Is it generally considered rude to be walking around visibly at full attention?
• I can imagine that I will be excited to be there, but also nervous at the same time. For newer guys, is the biggest problem usually performance anxiety (so maybe not being able to keep it up), finishing way too soon (given the excitement), or something else?
• Finally, the companion I have in mind has been there before. She said one of the biggest turn-ons was people gathering to watch – and especially seeing all the guys jerking off. Do observers generally stay a respectful distance away or do I need to worry about projectile spunk?

Thanks,
S.

 

[unassuming]

To avoid the crowds, especially dudes, go in the day time if you can. I've always taken my SPs there from around noon to 5ish. At any given time there are about maybe 2 other couples there in this time frame

Have your SP wear a red bracelet it means she doesn't "play" with anyone but you , all others they must stay away.

Also you can use the private room on the upper floor, time limit is 2 hours max.

 

[out4fun]

I’ve been there with my wife on a Saturday night which was couples only. It was easy to interact with other couples or just play on your own as it seemed that everyone was in tune with boundaries.
We have also been to other clubs on nights with single guys and it’s a totally different dynamic. You need to be comfortable with groups of guys watching and jerking off to your partner. Generally, they are respectful and will keep whatever distance the ladies are comfortable with. I would say that your chances of getting hit in the cross fire are slim to none.

 

[GameBoy27]

I’ve been there with my wife on a Saturday night which was couples only. It was easy to interact with other couples or just play on your own as it seemed that everyone was in tune with boundaries.
We have also been to other clubs on nights with single guys and it’s a totally different dynamic. You need to be comfortable with groups of guys watching and jerking off to your partner. Generally, they are respectful and will keep whatever distance the ladies are comfortable with. I would say that your chances of getting hit in the cross fire are slim to none.

Unless of course you go to a Spectator Sex event on the last Friday of every month. We were all gathered around watching a bondage demonstration. A woman was tied up on her back, on a table. As the guy was started to finger fuck her vigorously, he said "you might want to move back a little" to the couple in front of us, as she was about to squirt. And she did. It was a good thing they moved back. lol

It's a fun place. Can't wait to go back with my wife and our friends.

 

[swshowtime8]

Thanks for all the great insight - I will definitely keep all those tips in mind.

As I will be popping my cherry on this, it is good to know that other attendees are generally very respectful and keep to the boundaries (so one less thing to worry about).

Much appreciated,
S.

 

[swshowtime8]

no you can walk around naked, lots of guys do.

i took at least three clients there over the years and have gone with friends... i think one client had performance anxiety because too many guys were gathering to watch and he made me ward them off, which was kind of defeative of the whole point of being there, so it really depends on you and how comfortable you are with a bunch of strangers jerking off to your partner.

do not expect women attending there will want to join in with you.... try not to put too much pressure on the SP to ask every woman you see in there to join or engage in sex with the SP because that is really stressful on the SP. obviously exercise some judgment and only approach or ask the SP to approach women who look actually interested. this was a problem with one client and i had to re-align his expectations for him. i think he thought it would just be like a place to get lots of free sex, which is not what it is at all.

there is an area upstairs that is couples only if you want to be away from all the dudes. i think certain days are also couples-only.

i think you can probably just tell a guy to back up further if he gets too close... in my experiences, sometimes they can get pretty close but i haven't been cummed on yet lol. you can also pick strategic spots that are walled off so that they can't get too close, like the bed with curtains upstairs.

oh and don't fuck in the pool because i have seen so many people fucking in there and it's like an STI waiting to happen lol.

also it smells weird in there sometimes.

do arrive around 9-10pm, and not too much later, because the selection of hot people tends to decrease as it gets later, and there are less people in there during the day, at least on weekdays, in my own experience

have fun, you never know who you'll see there! for example, i met someone who said he was a supreme court justice's nephew!

Hi Penelope,

A special thanks for sharing all that wonderful information! What I learned from your response is that there are certain things I can control which can help ensure a smoother initiation into this (such as the where we may situate ourselves). I think with this being my first time, we may keep to ourselves & enjoy each other and just be voyeurs at other times...but we'll see where the evening goes. SP or not, I want my date to have a thoroughly enjoyable time and so definitely no undue pressure nor expectations of her - and if she enjoys a bunch of guys jerking off to her, it can only make my experience with her that much more better and intense!

Yeew regarding the pool...being a clean freak, it is definitely a no-fly zone for me!

Thanks again,
S.

 

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[kherg007]

what is the point of going to a PUBLIC place to have PUBLIC sex if you don't want the SP (she's not YOUR SP lmao) to fuck anyone else? also i've never heard of this 'signal' before and i'm sure others haven't either, so it sounds like something you invented lol. do you just go there to save on hotel fees or something?

I presume he meant he's paying for her time thus wants her full attention whilst at the club.

 

[unassuming]

what is the point of going to a PUBLIC place to have PUBLIC sex if you don't want the SP (she's not YOUR SP lmao) to fuck anyone else? also i've never heard of this 'signal' before and i'm sure others haven't either, so it sounds like something you invented lol. do you just go there to save on hotel fees or something?

My SP (yes she's my SP since I am paying her for her time, lmao) and I usually go to OASIS during the summer, as we enjoy the pool area atmosphere, bar and the sauna and yes I also save on hotel costs, which is the main reason I take her there.

and NO , I did not invent this "signal" as you so call it, lol, check out this link:

https://oasisaqualounge.com/red-wristbands-not-interested/

 

[Kracker]

Wow I don't get this at all. I've known a few single girls who've gone there with boyfriends, but honestly they were generally in abusive relationships.

To each his own. No way on earth I'd bring an SP that I adore to a place to have other guys fuck her.

 

[unassuming]

No way on earth I'd bring an SP that I adore to a place to have other guys fuck her.

All you have to do is to have your SP wear the "Red wrist band" and it means that she is "off limits", if other dudes attempt to fuck her, just complain to management and they will be dealt with for not following the red wrist band policy.

 

[swshowtime8]

The SP I am planning to bring has been there once before - and that time, she and her date did not engage with anyone else (although enjoyed watching what was going on). She said she would be fine doing the same thing when we go.

So, my question is...is it an unusual outlier if you bring an SP and you two just spend time with each other?

 

[GameBoy27]

The SP I am planning to bring has been there once before - and that time, she and her date did not engage with anyone else (although enjoyed watching what was going on). She said she would be fine doing the same thing when we go.

So, my question is...is it an unusual outlier if you bring an SP and you two just spend time with each other?

I would have a conversation with your SP beforehand. Since you're paying to spend time with her, it's not unreasonable to ask her to hang out with you alone. You'd have a right to be upset if she decides to have have sex with other guys for free, while you're paying her to be with you. Can't see how she wouldn't expect to get a bad review if she did that.

 

[swshowtime8]

I would have a conversation with your SP beforehand. Since you're paying to spend time with her, it's not unreasonable to ask her to hang out with you alone. You'd have a right to be upset if she decides to have have sex with other guys for free, while you're paying her to be with you. Can't see how she wouldn't expect to get a bad review if she did that.

Hey GameBoy27,

I get your point about seeing her have sex with other guys for free, but I guess if you are paying for her time to join you at a place like Oasis, then that might also be part of the fantasy you are playing out that evening. I think as you and others have said, a proper discussion beforehand will hopefully set the initial boundaries that both are comfortable with - and with the possible understanding, perhaps, that you may later mutually agree as the evening progresses to change them a bit.

S.

 

[swshowtime8]

i just don't like the idea of 'cuffing your ho' or whatever lol, and then 'reporting' other men for trying to get near her, especially in a place where you voluntarily go to be around other people in a sexual context. seems a bit overly possessive, at least if not negotiated beforehand.

I get what you are saying, Penelope. SP or not, whether I am paying her or not, I do want her to have a great time as well. As I said above, discuss and align beforehand, and then go where the evening takes you - as, after all, you are going to such a club for a reason!

Lol...thanks for sharing that masturbation link! Never seen so much written about it, but I guess there is a reason they felt it needed to be said.

S.

 

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[Bonbonsito]

Hi Penelope,

A special thanks for sharing all that wonderful information! What I learned from your response is that there are certain things I can control which can help ensure a smoother initiation into this (such as the where we may situate ourselves). I think with this being my first time, we may keep to ourselves & enjoy each other and just be voyeurs at other times...but we'll see where the evening goes. SP or not, I want my date to have a thoroughly enjoyable time and so definitely no undue pressure nor expectations of her - and if she enjoys a bunch of guys jerking off to her, it can only make my experience with her that much more better and intense!

Yeew regarding the pool...being a clean freak, it is definitely a no-fly zone for me!

Thanks again,
S.

Hello. Am a newbie single guy and looking to visit oasis. How was your experience?
What would you advice?

 

[hedo rick]

Hello. Am a newbie single guy and looking to visit oasis. How was your experience?
What would you advice?

Single guy, don't waste your time. Not worth it. I can almost guarantee you'll leave disappointed.